realest ish i ever wrote

[dirk4mvp]

Fixed that for you. No offense but it's true. We all been there as guys.

Sounds like she is your first love. It's tough. Most dudes don't wanna get all into the personal sensitive easy bake oven stuff but it's alright.

If you want some real advice straight from the gut...

When she texts and calls. When she contacts you. Be yourself. But kill the boyfriend I love her still act. It will be hard, but talk to her as if she is your normal friend. When she notices (and she will) and asks what your deal is (because she will expect and want it), tell her nothing, you are fine. And don't explain. When she says no you're not, tell me, wah wah,.. say look. I am fine. Either accept that or don't call.

It's for the best. In the long run you'll see that. Just don't bottle the feelings or pain, let it out. If your a crying type, then cry. If you like to punch walls and let aggression out, then do it. Just don't bottle it up, and spill your beans on how much you miss her. She subconsciously wants that, and wants to tell you again she doesn't wanna be with you. She only said she wanted to hook back up until she saw those texts just to hurt you. Ignore that. Let what ever's* inside out, and be the man with her. Show her you are some shmuck on Live trying to take you to the red zone on Madden and punch it in for the win. Nah uh. Be the ing man. You'll be amazed how great it feels later.

Yeah, she was.

As she was leaving, she gave me a hug and said I love you. I was hesitant about saying it back, but caved in and did.

[mommaDONEraisedaTHUG]

Yeah, she was.

As she was leaving, she gave me a hug and said I love you. I was hesitant about saying it back, but caved in and did.

dog,

she didn't mean it

the ONLY reason she dumped you is because she wants to act like a and lots of guys....have the college experience...ya know?

dont ever say i love you back to a .

[dirk4mvp]

Dirk take everything in this thread with a grain of salt, if I know one thing it's that all girls are different and people aren't taking this into account. What if she really did realize she loves you and was making a big mistake? Do you feel like she could be the one? equally likely is that what they're saying is true, though.

Yesterday, which was before this got blew up like it did, she was talking about how she just knew that we weren't meant to be together forever while also telling me not to be so naive in thinking that we could be.

[Brutalis]

you act like 20 mins is far?

where do you live? in a small ass country town or what?

it takes 20 mins to go 2 miles up the road to HEB

20 mins...far...

Well not everywhere in Texas is like that.

/Arkansas resident

[Brutalis]

Yesterday, which was before this got blew up like it did, she was talking about how she just knew that we weren't meant to be together forever while also telling me not to be so naive in thinking that we could be.

So in other words ignore that post you replied to.

[dirk4mvp]

How's her ass taste?

I ain't sayin nothin.

[marini martini]

Yep, that first lay, is the hardest to forget!








Until the second, then the third, etc.!:

[mommaDONEraisedaTHUG]

Well not everywhere in Texas is like that.

/Arkansas resident

in the places in texas that matter...

Dallas, Houston, San Antonio and Austin it takes 20 mins to get out of a ing parking lot, let alone go further than a mile

[dirk4mvp]

I live in north ms...like a few minutes away from Memphis. 20 minutes of backside kuntry road can take you a far ways.

And for the last few hours, she's been guilt tripping the out of me..."I hope you're happy with your new girl"

[mavs>spurs2]

So in other words ignore that post you replied to.

yes. and slap her for wasting 7 months with someone she "didn't think she could last with"

[Trainwreck2100]

I live in north ms...like a few minutes away from Memphis. 20 minutes of backside kuntry road can take you a far ways.

And for the last few hours, she's been guilt tripping the out of me..."I hope you're happy with your new girl"

remember she's the one in the wrong, not you. The fact that she's a woman automatically makes her wrong

[mavs>spurs2]

I live in north ms...like a few minutes away from Memphis. 20 minutes of backside kuntry road can take you a far ways.

And for the last few hours, she's been guilt tripping the out of me..."I hope you're happy with your new girl"

ask her why she cares since she didn't want to be with you in the long run anyway. that should either A) shut her up or B) piss her off more

either way you win

[dirk4mvp]

ask her why she cares since she didn't want to be with you in the long run anyway. that should either A) shut her up or B) piss her off more

either way you win

rofl..that may be necessarily.

she told me she was gonna dump me again anyways, but i was like ok whatever, maybe by then, I would be ready to let go also.

[AlamoSpursFan]

And for the last few hours, she's been guilt tripping the out of me..."I hope you're happy with your new girl"

Damn, Cletus...she's playing you like a banjo. Quit talking to her IMMEDIATELY if not sooner and watch her go nuts.

She wants ATTENTION from you and if you withhold it, you'll be balls deep in that again. Bang her WELL, tell her to GTFO and never speak to her again.

Just my $0.02.

[scott]

Lesson learned: don't date crazies.

[MannyIsGod]

ing them is ok though.

[BacktoBasics]

Women who act like this are a complete waste of time. Don't ever and I mean ever get back together with this . She knows she owns you and she always will. You'll be on that leash for the rest of your life if you continue to be around her. You'll end up wasting years of your life trying to make a person like this happy and it'll never happen. Then you'll wake up after your 5th or 6th or 29th breakup and finally realized you pissed away good years of your life chasing after some woman who isn't happy unless she's miserable and makes you feel the same.

Clean break and don't look back. You'll love again and it'll be a thousand times better when the two of you both operate on the same even level.

[leemajors]

hit it and quit it.

[stretch]

Dirk take everything in this thread with a grain of salt, if I know one thing it's that all girls are different and people aren't taking this into account. What if she really did realize she loves you and was making a big mistake? Do you feel like she could be the one? equally likely is that what they're saying is true, though.

dont be suprized if this is true either, dirk4mvp. girls never know what the they want, many times until it is gone. thats why women are crazy.

here is the best way to look at it...

if she truly was the one, and if she was worth your time, then this scenario will fit you perfectly. but if she really was NOT the one, then in the end, what reason does anyone have to be hurt over? you are basically missing out on nothing, because there is nothing worse than being in a relationship that simply does not work.

[stretch]

And for the last few hours, she's been guilt tripping the out of me..."I hope you're happy with your new girl"

if stuff like this goes on for a much longer, than it pretty much means that if you REALLY wanted to, you could get her back.

but at the same time, if she is acting like this... is this really the kind of girl you want to get back with?

[MannyIsGod]

My favorite part was when you went over and she found the stuff, then she decided to tell you that she was considering getting back together.

YEAH ING RIGHT. But she knew thats how she'd make you feel bad. This girl is mind ing you sooooooooooo bad.

[I. Hustle]

Dude get someone to get you a sixer, or two play madden, turn off any song that makes you feel like a and run through another chick(ASSuming you can pull that). Just find one and let her have the angry stuff then thank her for her time (or not). The best way to get over a chick is to get under another, not by playing music and asking people on the internet for real life advice.
BTW is she real or is “going over to her place” another way of saying the chat room that she frequents?

[dirk4mvp]

if stuff like this goes on for a much longer, than it pretty much means that if you REALLY wanted to, you could get her back.

but at the same time, if she is acting like this... is this really the kind of girl you want to get back with?

she's pretty much a psycho- when it comes to some things.


but even if there are no plans on getting back together i just wish i could convince her of this (which is true btw)

i was not talking to that girl in any way besides small chit chat


the other night (the 2nd night of our breakup), I sent her a text saying "I can't sleep tonight either" (I sent her a text the night before saying I can't sleep tonight. I sent that message at some random ass hour after we had been done talking. So when she finds out about this other girl, she thinks that I was trying to send that message to the girl. But it was to the crazy pyshco- .

[dirk4mvp]

My favorite part was when you went over and she found the stuff, then she decided to tell you that she was considering getting back together.

YEAH ING RIGHT. But she knew thats how she'd make you feel bad. This girl is mind ing you sooooooooooo bad.

Yeah, I'm pretty weak for her. My brother has called me her little puppy many times before.

Dude get someone to get you a sixer, or two play madden, turn off any song that makes you feel like a and run through another chick(ASSuming you can pull that). Just find one and let her have the angry stuff then thank her for her time (or not). The best way to get over a chick is to get under another, not by playing music and asking people on the internet for real life advice.
BTW is she real or is “going over to her place” another way of saying the chat room that she frequents?

It's pretty possible to have your phone thrown at you through the internet.

[I. Hustle]

You are just hung up on this trick because she was the first one to show you her chesticles. Once you’ve seen a few more that you didn’t have to pay to see then you will calm down. You just need to experience more in life.