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Viewing Thread Malicious , or just clueless and oblivious @ 01:40 PM
it sounds like she was great in the beginning................brought her game to the table..............then she decided to play when she felt like it.
are you sure she's not Josh Howard?
somewhere, findog is crying in a corner.
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Viewing Thread Malicious , or just clueless and oblivious @ 01:40 PM
Forget about her. I don't even respond to girls I'm not into on Myspace. "Go waste someone elses time" is what you should tell her.
To me its pretty obvious she is a . So you think its possible she told the dog she whacked some guy off to get him to be sweet to her. If that indeed is the case stay the away from that crazy .
Crazy : Findog I had my tongue in this guys ass while jerking him off. He was going ape . When I pulled my finger out I had a lil on it. It was crazy....(crazy is thinking the whole time" I hope findog ask me out, that would be so sweet. I really like him!)
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Viewing Thread Malicious , or just clueless and oblivious @ 01:40 PM
Okay, I called her ONCE and left a message. I didn't call 18 million times and act all possessive. You tell me all that stuff, you text me the same night at 4 in the morning, and then you ignore me when I call to wish you a Merry Christmas? I just want to know, what gives?
I totally understand why women get turned off when men act like wussy "nice" guys, and when they get all possessive, but how did I do either of those things here? I didn't follow her around like a puppy dog, and I called her once and she ignored me. I can't control what others think or do, but what should I have done differently here?
I'm not saying you came across as emotional to her...I'm saying YOU became emotionally invested at that point (whether she knew it or not).
Bottomline, it (you and her) means more to you than it does to her. You'll have to deal with that in your own way.
We expect updates in the coming weeks, Fin.
Okay, plenty of votes to walk away. But if I am going to double down, just ask her out for a date?
you invested your feelings.
take a step back and ask if it's worth it.
That's sick, bro. If a girl ever talked about banging other guys, I wouldnt even ask her on a date. Unless you know you are getting some.
I'm guessing no. It's just frustrating.
she sure peaked you interest, though.
i haven't been on a "date" in a million years.
is it kosher for either of you to describe the sex you're having with others?
if so, i'm way out of the loop.
I don't think it is kosher. I think it's not classy and bad form.
Bang some other chick first and brag about it.
Is the problem that she's ing around, or that she's telling you about it?
If it's the former, you should be the one to broach the subject of becoming more exclusive. Either she's into it or she's not, in which case you can cleanly walk away.
Unless, of course, you don't want exclusivity, but just want to be the only one ing around. In which case, that's not how things work.
If the problem is that she's blatantly telling you about it, I'd say get her back by sharing some of the stories of your own conquests. It will likely shut her up.
And to answer the OP, she's a clueless and oblivious .
The lack of exclusivity does not bother me, because it's a two-way street like you said. More than anything else I feel disrespected - not returning my call and then IM'ing me out of the blue to tell me about her dating escapades. I'm not a door mat.
But she didn't really say what she did. She said some guy mentioned the handjob and she thought he was a jerk. Then when you asked about handjos she said "not specifically, you know the nature of things"! She didn't describe tugging or blowing or rimming anybody!I think she's probably well aware that you have dated other people and probably figures you have played around too, so what's the big deal?? Anyway if you ask her for a date, make sure you make it clear that it's a DATE--and go ahead and say something like "So let's not talk about our outside adventures tonight, okay?"
that phone call thing is a real bug up your ass. huh?
man, who has the penis in this situation?
It's not the worst thing in the world, but if somebody you liked never returned a phone call, and then when you finally do hear from them, they make sure to specifically tell you they're out there fooling around with other guys when that is something that is understood, how are you supposed to take it?
Let her know that, then. If she thinks it's a free and easy non-exclusive -buddy thing, she may be completely unaware that you don't want to swap stories.
I've experienced, both as participant and ventee, several friends-with-benefits situations, and have noticed that there seems to be a problem when people don't realize that type of relationship still needs established parameters. People often have vastly different ideas of how a FWB relationship is meant to work and, even though it's not as strict or structured as an actual relationship relationship, it's important to figure out what your comfort zones are. I would not be at all surprised if she were 100% oblivious to the fact you were bothered by her actions.
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