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How much back child support do you owe her?
Nah, he's like into rock and wears A&F clothing.
I wear A&F and Hollister too, but still listen to hip hop.
I;m not all thugged out like other brothas but I am just confused why my girl said she dont want me talking with a white guy.
How much back child support do you owe her?
none.
we havent had kids yet.
i got kids with a spanish gal but havent seen her since 04 when she moves back to Miami.
I seen the kids twice a year and send 422 a month to her for my kids support.
lol
look, .
you better be calling me a tool and not my girl, because if you, then you need to shut your ing mouth
dont ever ing talk about my girl.
shes more woman than you could ever be.
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You're presenting an issue that seems ridiculous. Your girlfriend's actions seem ridiculous. Of course you should expect some negative comments. Though feel free to take that it's all directed at you since you're the one that's obviously willing to put up with her... yet still you want our advice.
You just called your girlfriend a racist and I get steamrolled? Exercise your sense of humor a little more often - your post count says you're new (if you aren't a Mouse troll ... which I never totally rule out ...), so I'm guessing you haven't figured out yet that berating someone is a normal part of any advice-seeking thread that comes along.
go on Maury, he'll know what to do.
Tell her she's right, that you are a sellout and you are going to change your ways and stop hanging out with white people. Then the next morning, break up with her. After all, she's white, right?
Look.
I love my girl. No doubt.
But I asked what her comments were all about on this site.
Stevens then chimes in talking about black male/latina & white female relationships.
then he says he is joking.
jekka offers nothing of substance and just calls me and steven or whoever tools.
then you come in with this .
does anyone have any answers to my question.
WHY DOES MY GIRL THINK ITS BAD FOR ME TO HAVE A WHITE FRIEND, WHEN SHE HERSELF IS WHITE???
AMAZING.
I LOVE IT.
Take your pick:
1) She wants to know why you don't have more close friends with similar backgrounds/heritage
2) On a subconscious level, she uses the above logic to question your loyalties and wonders how that may eventually affect her
3) She wishes you had more friends so she could have more time to herself and/or with her girlfriends
4) She used the word "sellout" in place of something more offensive but didn't want to get into it
5) She has some other weird issues that she needs to work out
good post
thanks jeckca
Well then my answer is that she's racist and she thinks she's not white.
she knows she is white.
shes real girls, and real preppy. almost like girl from the movie clueless or legally blondes. shes a former cheerleader and all prissy but never dated a black man before me.
i dont know but her comments about me having a white guy as a friend is bothering me.
she just sent me this text........
:" i just dont know what to think anymore. I wanted to be with you partially because I wanted to be with a man who was the opposite of white. I wanted a black man. A strong man wit morals and values that didnt put up with the white guys do. And now I am realizing your best friend, your go to guy is a white guy. And that is exactly the kind of man I do not like. I have been hurt by white guys before and I am so sick of them and I am done with those little men for good. I do not want them in my life. So it is so wierd that you are such good friends with one of them. I just dont know. Its a problem on my end and I do not know how to fix it. Do you want to talk about this tomorrow and maybe my sister can tell us about the counselor she went to...
I love you sweetie, you are my man,, but I just do not want to be hurt again. Call me, please.""
Ok, did she have a bad experience with her dad when she was a kid?
Or does she associate white men with little s?
Let me rephrase: what's her problem?
at the s..
i dont know.
we met, fell for eachother and never knew race was an issue
until recently.
she has done some that has made me kind of turned off lately. like shes getting to hung up on this site about me not being "black" enough,
its really odd and really confusing.
She called me and shes comin over to my apartment.
she'\ll be here around 2"50 am i guessing. i'll post the details of when i break up with her tonight because if she keeps this up then im done with this relationship.
She said that she had bad experience with white men before, but c'mon...she can't associate every white man with her past experience
i dont know.
we met, fell for eachother and never knew race was an issue
until recently.
she has done some that has made me kind of turned off lately. like shes getting to hung up on this site about me not being "black" enough,
its really odd and really confusing.
I mean, it's out of control, in a year or 2, she won't go out or turn the TV on to avoid the sight of white men?
You can't live your life according to her insecurities
i agree with you. shes not makin any sense to me.
thats why i posted this on the site, i needed some input.
and i got some good feedback.
shes coming over and im gonjna get this straitened out tonight.
Good luck man
tell this to realize that she's white, and that race has no ing bearing on character traits
It's strange that you all have been together long enough to be discussing marriage, but she's just figuring out that your best friend of 10 years is white! Also why would she think she needs to be afraid of being emotionally hurt by him? I think she has some severe issues you need to address before getting into a marriage with her.
Oh, and berating someone in an advice seeking thread is only normal for some people here; we don't all do it!Good luck to you
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