i think attraction is the wrong word for the le. Being able to appreciated something doesn't necessarily mean you are attracted to it.
because girls whole worlds revolve around looks. They look at other women to compare notes while they are also checking out guys.
[Straight] guys just look at chicks. They don't sit there and say, 'dang, he looks good in those wranglers'....
exception this this rule: Joe Chalupa.
i think attraction is the wrong word for the le. Being able to appreciated something doesn't necessarily mean you are attracted to it.
what I want to know is why are some lesbian chicks attracted to butch looking chicks that look like dudes.
doesn't that defeat the whole point of being a lesbian?
Yeah, I was about to type something to make this point. Perhaps the better phrase is: How come girls can tell if another girl is good lookin' while guys can't?
Because there are some girls that I think is good-looking, but I am not attracted to. Like Jessica Alba for me.
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No. It's because "girls" whole worlds don't revolve around looks that we can be comfortable enough to appreciate another woman's beauty.
Naw, I'm gonna disagree with you and say yes they do.
When girls are out, there is most definitely an underlying compe ion to be the best looking chick in the place.
On top of that, I'm sure you are well aware once you step foot into any Macy's that at least 80% of the store is dedicated to woman's looks.
The men's clothing is in the back in a dark corner of the store where you have to answer a troll's riddle to get across to the dressing room.
Yeah, that is what I mean. I get the evil eye from other guys when I walk into a room and I'll see them get closer to their woman because while they may not be "attracted" to me....they know I'm one good looking man.
not that there's anything wrong with that.
I'm sure you can live with it
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I can't complain though, since it's paid off quite well........
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I think there are guys who gage the attractiveness of another man based on the reactions of women (Me). Then I think there are guys who actually gage another mans attractiveness based on their own perception of attractiveness. I also think there is a difference between Hetero and perceptions of male attractiveness.
I think this holds weight in some scenarios, although it may not in others. There are some women who have come to reality with their overall level of attractiveness, and just exude confidence, or insecurity. In this scenario it would be more of an understanding, than an attempt at trumping others.
But i've also witnessed your opinion first hand, and I can support it (@ The Bar for instance).
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This. Im comfortable in my sexuality and dont take offense when post-pubescent college kids think its "gay". But attractive isnt the word I'd choose to use. Handsome, or something less gay...
When I start giving a what college children think about life, what is and what is not cool, ing shoot me.
...and DR
There's no universal way to be a woman and, therefore, no universal way that women act. I have never in my 30 years gotten dressed with the intention/goal/aim of being the best looking chick in the place.
just like not all girls can tell if other girls are attractive and while not all guys cannot tell if another guy is attractive or not as was mentioned in the op....
nice job throwing out the universal card.
I can tell whether or not a guy is good looking or not.
nope
i'm pretty sure that's just you. you have some gay in you, joe joe.
as far as I'm concerned, Brad Pitt looks like an average person. i don't see what the big deal is..
and Jack Sparrow? what? he's a normal person, but dirty and never takes a shower because he's a pirate. I'M better looking than HIM! geez women.
the reason is because evolution made women visually appealing to men,
while women look for
1) financial security
2) physical security
3) dominance / confidence
4) happiness / humor
so it's not just looks when it comes to what women find attractive.
+1 Too many phobes in here.
phobe implies someone is scared of gays
I doubt anyone is scared of a guy who will get on his knees and give a blowjob, or bend over and smile as he takes a penis in his ass.
That's why we call them "fairies"
phobia is often thought to be rooted in an intense fear that one is also capable of experiencing unwanted sexual attraction, or in unease over being confronted with one's own sexual doubt and insecurity. So for some admitting that they feel another man is good looking scares them so they tend to accuse a man who is not as insecure of being gay to ease their own inhibitions.
Most men are just ugly. Thats why girls drool over some people like Orlando Bloom, Brad Pitt etc, because wow!!!! They are actually worth looking at! It's amazing!
Guys don't have to go look very far or look very deep to see if a girl is pretty.
Oh and just because I think a girl is pretty does not mean I am attracted to her.
No. It doesn't.
It implies that someone is afraid of, threatened by, or prejudiced against sexuality.
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