This is where morons like you look foolish. Just because some of us are fans of Kobe the basketball player does not mean we are fans of everthing Kobe has said or done on the floor or off.
We keep hearing, oh we like Kobe the player, its all the Kobe fans that make us hate him. Or its his y at ude. Or its his selfishness. etc etc. Many fans like myself stick up for him on a basketball level because so many haters begin the threads or posts with their personal dislikes and look past the basketball prowess.
I dont worship any sports star and most certainly am not going to take life directions by trying to emulate any of them. They are friggen spoiled sports brats. Get real.
When the Shaq/Kobe fued raged I sided with Kobe simply because he worked harder. Year in and year out he improved his game and came to camp with something new added to the arsenal. Shaq simply coasted on his size. When he dissed Bynum in the video I was one of the first to say trade him. He came back, led by example and thats a thing of the past. If Drew can put it behind him, so can I. As for the court stuff, I firmly believe he did nothing more than cheat on his wife. I am in no way condoning adultry, but come on, I don't think thats a short list in the NBA. Do you? So has Kobe done some stupid things off the court? Yes. Has he done some great things off the court? Yes. Do I know Kobe the person? NO, and neither do you.
I don't whatch sports to find role models. I don't watch sports to become a fanatic about someones "person". I watch to see the atheletic compe ion and skills.
...with all that said, for you to toss up Charles Manson to make your point only goes to show you the absurdity that always rears it's head when Kobe haters hate.