What an evening it was...

[bostonguy]

I don't blame you bostonguy. Girls who claim to be over their ex's yet won't shut the up about them cause they're obviously not over their ex's are some of the most annoying people ever.....if your friend doesn't see that, then him for not being a real man.

[ss1986v2]

He wouldn't have set him up with his sister if he was a bad friend.

i thought the OP was more about his friend not wanting him to date his sister?

[bostonguy]

Rolling with that comment was by far your worst mistake, brah. You should have told her that was gonna be different from now on, that you would pay for everything because you wanted her to have a good time and not worry about the cost of the whole entertainment package. You rolled over like a though, so I don't blame her for comparing you to her ex cuz he was prolly a too. And movies on a first date? When you can't even talk to the girl?

Set up the rules of the game, don't let the woman impose the rules on you. "My ex-boyfriend this and that..." whatever yo, put your foot down and say you ain't like that cuckolds ex-beef injection. Now let's get a re-do and get her done. Sheeeeeeeeit.

Good stuff here.

[bostonguy]

It was supposed to be a movie and dinner. Regardless this night blew donkey nuts but I am glad I drank about 9 beers while getting my ass owned in madden.

[bostonguy]

Ya, maybe. But like I said, he might be using the term "best friend" loosely.

He is probably not that good of a friend to begin with, so the brother would naturally get pissed in this situation. Anyone would. But then when he got the "I don't really care if you are pissed" at ude, he probably wanted to just cut ties.

I have been close friends with him going on 9 years. Thing is I have had friends longer than that who have lost touch with me etc etc. I don't want our friendship to end, but if he tells me he doesn't want to be friends anymore, it is his decision and his life.

[DUNCANownsKOBE2]

I feel your pain cause this girl I've known and liked for years, I went on two dates with once I lost 60 pounds and was somewhat in her league

After hearing about how she broke up with her ex for the 2nd straight time, that was that.

[bostonguy]

I feel your pain cause this girl I've known and liked for years, I went on two dates with once I lost 60 pounds and was somewhat in her league

After hearing about how she broke up with her ex for the 2nd straight time, that was that.

That just gets annoying. This was the first time I ever encountered something like this. On the bright side, this evening only cost me 13-15 bucks (due to buying the popcorn and drinks).

[DUNCANownsKOBE2]

Yeah but what are you gonna do, women are women.

[Stringer_Bell]

On the bright side, this evening only cost me 13-15 bucks (due to buying the popcorn and drinks).

It cost you a friend and, as one gentleman pointed out, a very strong possibility of rebound sex. Think about it, draw up an actuary table if you must. You're a long-time associate of her brother, and thus could prolly be entrusted with giving her some sexual release (or at least heavy petting in the parking lot). But this generation, our generation, hardly ever looks at the big picture. Instead we get pissy and walk out of the movie theater.

[bostonguy]

It cost you a friend and, as one gentleman pointed out, a very strong possibility of rebound sex. Think about it, draw up an actuary table if you must. You're a long-time associate of her brother, and thus could prolly be entrusted with giving her some sexual release (or at least heavy petting in the parking lot). But this generation, our generation, hardly ever looks at the big picture. Instead we get pissy and walk out of the movie theater.

The voice of reason

[Alex Jones]

I have pissed off many dates and many dates have pissed me off also, but I could never do a chicken move and leave someone stranded, and to use some lame excuse that I need more butter or a refill on my drink?

Your lucky that didn't get murdered, your the last person known to be with her and that refill on the Pepsi excuse won't cut it with the homicide detectives.

[holcs50]

actually the sister-friend concept thing i feel different about. Ive had a younger sis by about 2 years my whole life-and yea my friends would joke about it when we were in high school and whatever...but honestly if one of my really good friends was interested in my sister I want that-instead of some random dude i know nothing about-i know my good friends are all good guys and thats what id want for my sis...thats how i felt once i got a little older. Doesn't matter now, sis is getting married in 3 weeks to some guy i really don't know all that well, hmm what would i rather have a guy i dont know much /or his family much or a guy who i trust and trust his fam. Yea ill go with the latter. Either way having a younger sister is odd-and especially now seeing her fall in love and soon to be married-its like who do i protect now? ha. I just would've loved my sis to marry someone i knew already and trusted that way i wouldn't have to worry

[Stringer_Bell]

Your lucky that didn't get murdered, your the last person known to be with her and that refill on the Pepsi excuse won't cut it with the homicide detectives.

Good ing point. I guess this whole fiasco could have been a of a lot worse. We can all learn from this, mos def.

[Texas_Ranger]

Wow! Now she just texted me saying how sorry she is and that she ed up.

Ask her out again. Go and have sex with her. And then tell her that your ex was better at sex.

[TDMVPDPOY]

i see you havnt read barneys man book rules

im sure ur not suppose to hook up with best friends sister....

i remember back in college a friend told me how his friend went out with one of their friends sister and ended up n her, the brother found out and got all the boyz and beated the guy up...till this day they are still friends and sometimes they bring it up and have a laugh about it...

[PM5K]

Idiot, she would have been texting her ex while you tagged it from behind if you played your cards right, instead you wound up playing Madden by yourself.

[PM5K]

It cost you a friend and, as one gentleman pointed out, a very strong possibility of rebound sex. Think about it, draw up an actuary table if you must. You're a long-time associate of her brother, and thus could prolly be entrusted with giving her some sexual release (or at least heavy petting in the parking lot). But this generation, our generation, hardly ever looks at the big picture. Instead we get pissy and walk out of the movie theater.

I hadn't read the whole thread but this is spot on.

[PM5K]

I get my refill and get more butter and then head for the exits.

That has to be the funniest part, I thought it was an excuse to ditch her but in reality you really DID get a refill and more butter, I suppose you took it with you?

[j-6]

Whichever guy said to correct the whole cost splitting from the beginning was right on. And while leaving her at a theater is a pretty ty thing to do, I suppose it's better to cut your losses as soon as you realized that the date was a lost cause than continue being bait for a immature little girl trying to get back at an ex.

And for the dude talking about actuarial tables and getting laid, I agree with you, but we have no idea if bostonguy gets any consistently and if this particular female was worth the effort.

[TDMVPDPOY]

shouldve just told ur friend, she didnt accept PITB

[eyeh8u]

what are you 12 years old, all you idiots that like to combat tomfoolery with more tomfoolery are the reason why society is in such a state of disgust.

[CuckingFunt]

It gets worse. The brother comes to my apartment, tells my our friendship is over, and then leaves. This evening was quite a dramatic one and it was a double wammy for me. I knew of the consequences though. Just sucks to lose a best friend due to his sister's actions.

You lost a best friend for being a passive aggressive jerk, not because his sister was a . Seriously, is it that hard to sit through a movie you didn't pay for? Take her home, let her know you didn't feel a connection, and call it a day. Bingo, you've still got a friend.

Also, both of you for being the type to get up for refills and text people during a movie. The theater isn't your damned living room.

[IronMexican]

You should have tried the popcorn trick while you had her there.

And you got 360? I'll smash you Super Bowl 42 style with the Giants. Omline record is 38-14.

[BacktoBasics]

I for one totally believe this entire thread. Very realistic. 100% believable.

[Big P]

Told you.