anybody else find it hilarious that a Utah fan made a thread about monogamy?
That's why it's a good idea to have a single life before you settle down, but once you make the choice to be with one woman you oughta stick to the commitment... don't want the commitment, don't make it in the first place.
I call it the "grass is greener" illusion. It applies to people who cheat on their partners (and then usually go back to them, and if found out almost always go back to them pleading for forgiveness), overconsumption, and all kinds of other destructuve behaviours.
It's quite simple - many people are on a constant search for "something better" (perfection), which in most cases doesn't exist. In doing this, they fail to fully appreciate and be grateful for what they have.
There are obvious exceptions to this, like abusive situations, but that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about a generation of human beings who don't understand, or choose not to act on, the concept of restraint.
So don't get married in the first place. Marriage is a commitment to the woman that you are hers and hers alone for life. She makes the same commitment to you. Aren't ready for the responsibility of that, don't sign up. But if you do sign up you oughta grow the up and take it seriously, no matter what is "offered to you". Resisting temptation and the easy road is a part of being a responsible adult.
Last edited by RuffnReadyOzStyle; 12-02-2009 at 08:33 AM.
I beg to differ. He, unfortunately, has quite the reputation here in town.
Real Utah boys know it is not right or proper to only wed one lady.
son they ALL do it ... yes even Timmy Duncan. you would be foolish to think otherwise.
You can thank the ing idiot hippies of the 1960's.
Right. Kobe is just the only one to recently get caught, in the NBA
Very good, Ruff.
BREAKING NEWS!
Tiger Woods says he regrets "transgressions"
Golfer says in statement that he has let his family down.]]]
No more good times for Tiger.
Drudgery on the 19th hole.
why you hatin on the players? hate the game, not the player
I would agree with you but not true. Some ppl actually are loyal to their woman for life. I know some ppl like that. I think it's genetics or something.![]()
Interesting thread. While we're on the subject...would you rather:
1.) Have a woman who is the love of your life (beautiful, but not the pin-up type) that will devote her life to you and help raise a family? She genuinely wants to be with you regardless of your financial situation.
OR...
2.) Be single and have a playmate-esque type on the side with no strings attached that you can sleep with whenever you want? A "bust it baby" if you will...she may care about you, she may not.
I'm genuinely interested to hear what y'all have to say since I presume we're all regular joes (for the most part).
Hopefully Elin is smart and realizes that s bags like Tiger will NEVER change, they just get better at getting away with their transgressions. She should divorce him, take everything she can get from him (and that would be more than any human being will ever need) and move on with her life while she is still young and beautiful. That's the ONLY way she will ever come out a winner from this. A big winner too.
That's why >>>OR<<< nobody has in good conscience answered yet.
The Koz will come after you if you make comments like that.
If I were a professional athlete making that kind of bank, there is no way in that I would get married. Save marriage for after you retire, and aren't as well known anymore.
I guess what happens in Vegas truly doesn't stay in Vegas...
But the clamor for what's morally right when it comes to mongamy is kind've pointless. It is funny though that we continuously get excited when a celebrity does fu@# someone outside his/her marriage like it is something new. Man, its been going down since the days of Julius Caesar and probably even before that. Nothing will change and the main thing is to live your life to whatever parameters you see fit.
& make sure you don't bust thru those parameters to where someone sees you.
That is a great prescription to anarchy, if that is your thing.
Indeed.
I don't think Tiger is necessarily a s bag for what he did because, well, I don't know the guy personally and to judge him for his indiscretions would be counter to my personal belief system. However, I don't know how you can go from Norwegian supermodel to Vegas tail waitress. Well, at least she wasn't like the mistresses you see the people on Jerry Springer co-horting with...
I went to this gang-bang up in North Phoenix years ago when my wood was of the highest quality still/solid oak. I got the connection thru The Bachelor Beat magazine. I got there and there musta been 20 guys, maybe more. A guy was hosting it at his house for this husband & wife. Now the husband looked like a regular fellow, maybe a contractor. But, the wife, my God she was drop dead gorgeous. Perfection defined, young, blond, curvaceous. Now they installed her (with the husband) in a loft above the main living room. I waited a while, and then ambled up to see it. I've done some weird in my days, but, this was the topper. She was sprawled out spread eagle on her back, beaver shaved and oiled with a Costco Sized Johnson's Baby Oil on the nightstand. A line had formed by then of naked guys. It was surreal. I waited my turn (interminably) then donned the required rubber & climbed into a well worn saddle. I can't f'k with a rubber, but, I hammered for a while, gave the requisite grunt of crisis and climbed off.
I went on home, the wife asked how it went and I told her the story.
tee, hee.
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