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im 6'2 weigh around 190
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im 6'2 weigh around 190
This is one of those subtle kind of things you have to be careful with.
Try harder to get her to go work out with you and try some healthier food with you. Help her while helping yourself at the same time whether you need it or not and you'll come off less baggy and is the best method imo.
Whoever said learn to live with it had it predominantly right. Some nudging might help but if you piss her off it'll just backfire and if you leave her it'll become her life mission to gain her hot figure back and everything sight.
Its pretty much a failed mission no matter how you go about it. She has to be the one that wants to change.
It sounds like she doesn't work. You might consider starting a business just to give her something to do. It worked when my wife got fat from having the boy and now she's thin again and we have a some good income from the business.
This is what it takes to be a man friendo. You gotta move worlds and create businesses just to keep the womens from overflowing with lazy. There not as evolved as we are. Its all about how we compensate for their shortcomings.
Are you hot?im 6'2 weigh around 190
you must consult the proper authorities
Have you brought up the health issues that her weight gain may cause? Is it an unhealthy weight gain or was she just really skinny before and now she's starting to get chubby (I say chubby but to you this is fat obviously).
Maybe this is a thyroid issue if her eating habits haven't changed. Lots of women have thyroid problems. Is she on the pill? Lots of girls gain weight because of the hormones in the pill.
Express your concern for her health and her future, if you do confront her. Don't just say, "Hey baby you're fat and it needs to change."
Simple answer: no. Never tell a woman that her weight gain is unattractive if you have any idea that you might want to marry this woman or start a family one day, because that can lead to long term issues of security and trust. Telling a woman that you find her unattractive is a fast route to turning your girlfriend into a crazy person, and for good reason. Women grow up in a different world than men do, and more of our "worth" is placed in how we look, and no matter how progressive a woman might be, it still hits women a LOT harder to take a comment like that than it will most men.
If you're concerned more about how attractive she is than how healthy she is, then that's sort of a problem. That big of a weight gain in that much time is more unhealthy than anything else, and it seems smarter to continue to invite her out to physical activities that she would enjoy, and to be more proactive about healthy food choices (i.e. cook a healthy dinner for you both before anyone has a chance to pull leftover pizza out of the fridge).
Also, the sexercise diet is a great one
The wife and I and the kids have been doing wii fit and walking more than ever before. I've never made a comment about my wife's weight gain over the past years as she still looks very hot to me!!
OK I misread you it seems like you want to keep her. Here are some other ideas that might help.
- Everyday start placing her food bowl higher and higher so that eventually she is jumping to get to it. This will get her moving, stretching, and excercising thus helping her lose weight.
- Take her favorite food and strap it to the back of the car. Once she catches a whiff she will try her hardest to get to it. Start off going about 15 miles an hour and work your way up.
- Take some of those excercise bands and bolt them to the ground and place them over her forehead. Then take a hamburger and with a piece of string hang it from the ceiling so that it is right about where her knees are. She will keep struggling trying to get it and will eventually work off some of the weight or snap the band.
- Put some hotdogs on a wheel just out of her reach. As she goes for the hotdog the wheel will spin causing her to make a circular motion with her arms. If you put some ice next to her you will save on your cooling bill.
Come on guys he said he still issues her boners so he's obviously is still attracted to her even though she's plumping out.
You're going to have to create a diversion pal. Its the only thing that will work. You are going to have to create activities that are indicative of her slimming down. And you're gonna have to not be obvious about it.
Come on guys he said he still issues her boners so he's obviously still attracted to her even though she's plumping out.
You're going to have to create a diversion pal. Its the only thing that will work. You are going to have to create activities that are indicative of her slimming down. And you're gonna have to not be obvious about it.
Lock her in the basement...
You should show her this thread, and shame her into dieting.
ask her to run with you in the mornings or take her to the gym with you so yall can "spend some time together without focusing on work." girls usually find it attractive to hitch a ride with you to the gym.
if she doesnt want to, then you can say that yall never do anything together and split.
I was going to say the same type of thing. I hope his girlfriend doesn't know he goes online to some random message board to get advice on his girlfriend's weight. That sure would be anxiety inducing.
I'm sure big pharma will create an "internet" pill to deal with the anxiety of being shamed publicly.
Millions to be made and stuff.
Lol yeah, you would get F*cked twice. Once for not telling her and not being honest and second for having a problem with her weight.
I hope for you she wont read this
Fingers crossed he clears his cookies...and that there aren't any in the house.Lol yeah, you would get F*cked twice. Once for not telling her and not being honest and second for having a problem with her weight.
I hope for you she wont read this
dude, you're Norbit.im 6'2 weigh around 190
Here is what you do. Start randomly putting up mirrors all over the house. Now one of two things are going to happen. One, she will start to see herself more and more and get motivated to start losing weight so that she can admire herself instead of try to hide.
Or two, she will be angered by the presence of another female which will result in alot of broken glass around your place.
, hook her up with that wheel to the generator which runs the A/C unit.
maybe the energy company will actually buy back energy from you
That is an awesome idea. Just think of all the households that can be powered by this method just here in SA alone. We can call it Fatergy.
I would tell her but it really depends on her. If she's an insecure person who can't take criticism, then it has to be done very tactfully. But, if she's a strong woman who appreciates honesty, then I really confront her about it. But, as many have suggested, get ready for a storm, including her telling you how small your is and possibly her breaking up with you.
Now when it comes to tactfully approaching her, I would definitely take the health angle. You don't have to tell her that she's starting to get unattractive with the added weight. But, you should definitely tell her that her weight gain in such a short amount of time concerns you when it comes to her health. 40 lbs. in 6 months sounds like an awful lot to me. And, when you make suggestions about her diet or her working out, you have to be more proactive about it. Set a date where she promises to go to the gym with you. Do something you both can do like raquetball or instead of playing basketball, do the treadmills or stairs with her at least for a while, so the two of you are doing it together. You can't just suggest her to do something without you at least pushing her a little bit. Some people need a little kick in the pants in order to get motivated. And, even if you don't eat all that healthy, if you want her to get healthy, then you should participate in the diet too.
If it's something that is or might become an issue, I think you have to confront the issue. You can be tactful about it, but if you really care about her, it's better to address it now than wait for it to get out of hand and it ultimately might be the cause of you two breaking up.
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