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    Through Webster University?
    Maybe it was the same place you got $50k from in the article.

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    Maybe it was the same place you got $50k from in the article.

    Maybe I got it here

    http://www.spurstalk.com/forums/show...9&postcount=61

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    My point was that no one said that. Why did you intimate that anyone had? Clearly not form the article because it was not said there.
    The point before was: anyone who gets a B.A. in critical thinking and complains about not making $50,000.00 thinking critically about stuff is an en led emo get. You intimated that you make 50k. When I called you out on that, you didn't answer the question. Start from that point and do some critical thinking.

    I told you that my degree has a starting salary of a hair under $50k to indicate that such degrees do exist. if you want to read more into me not going into more detail about myself then you go right ahead.
    It's cool - I know you don't make 50k - and that you threw that out there to make my point.

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    The point before was: anyone who gets a B.A. in critical thinking and complains about not making $50,000.00 thinking critically about stuff is an en led emo get. You intimated that you make 50k. When I called you out on that, you didn't answer the question. Start from that point and do some critical thinking.

    It's cool - I know you don't make 50k - and that you threw that out there to make my point.
    This is so cute. You are butthurt about me. I'd give you a hug but I am all the way over here.

    You go ahead and think I intimated whatever. I am not going to discuss my personal life with the butthurt. What I make is immaterial. A national average is an aggregate of thousands of new hires.

    You have no point as in the first no one has ever said $50k but DR and I took a bit to fact check. But now you're mad and all. I'm sorry for that.

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    The biggest issue I see with many of them is that they expect it all immediately.
    This pertains to pretty much anything imo. I had a lively "debate" with a youngster about 2 years ago who claimed that she could debunk relativity. She was a 19-year old music major at that. That's what we have today, instant experts at pretty much anything.

    Gotta love the You Tube generation. Just enough knowledge to be dangerous.

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    Poetry degree?

    Seriously. If you have debt from "earning" a poetry degree, Darwin should have had his way with you long ago. Poetry degrees are for people who have rich parents, and jobs in the family business BEFORE they pick a major.
    Whoever thought there should be a poetry 'degree' in the first place should be very likely shot. Heck, I'm surprised Unis offering such a degree aren't being sued their asses out.

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    Why would I be butthurt? I make more than 3x what a critical thinker like you makes.

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    This pertains to pretty much anything imo. I had a lively "debate" with a youngster about 2 years ago who claimed that she could debunk relativity. She was a 19-year old music major at that. That's what we have today, instant experts at pretty much anything.

    Gotta love the You Tube generation. Just enough knowledge to be dangerous.
    So you didn't get laid?

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    This pertains to pretty much anything imo. I had a lively "debate" with a youngster about 2 years ago who claimed that she could debunk relativity. She was a 19-year old music major at that. That's what we have today, instant experts at pretty much anything.

    Gotta love the You Tube generation. Just enough knowledge to be dangerous.
    Shut up, you don't know what you're talking about


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    President Obama wants to get Americans back to what we do best. He wants teachers teaching, police policing, firemen fighting fires, and the rest of us checking Facebook.
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    Yeah I realized that all this is true for my generation a while back..i was putting along at a slow pace ing around not realizing the seriousness of the situation, not sure what i wanted to major in. Then i realized I was going to graduate about 2 or 3 years behind at the pace i was going, so i started taking summer classes to catch up. every summer, then i realized that wasn't enough so i switched my major to something i could finish up a lot faster (finance) and at that point the gloves were OFF, i was ing pissed and ready to get down. pulled my gpa to a 3.8 like a study obsessed maniac and am going to graduate this summer only a year behind by taking classes over the wintermester, taking a full load of hard classes this spring, and then 2 in the summer. it sucks but i'm realizing what others in my age group have yet to realize- it's a cold world out there and i'll be damned if i pay for the past generations mistakes with my own prosperity. what i plan to do is finish my degree, take whatever job i can get probably only making 45,000 a year, and start paying off my loans now while still living at home. yeah it ing sucks living at home 22 going on 23, and it'll suck even more living with mommy and daddy at 24, but i ain't got no other choice. this generation is ed with 55% employment rate for young people. dreams are being crushed right now. after i make some progress on my loans and after a small break, i'll be going back for the 6 or 7 classes i need for a double major in accounting by taking 2 classes at night after work for a few semesters. then taking a few grad school classes for my cpa. props if you actually read all that, i know i'm ranting but it's just that times really do suck for the under 30 crowd and i don't even think my fellow age-mates even understand the seriousness of the situation. i'll be damn near 30 years old by the time i finally got this ship steered in the right direction, and i did most everything right (going to community college and living at home to save money, working part time, etc) EXCEPT not knowing what i wanted to do in life sooner.

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    Absolutely fantastic article. Thanks for sharing. I'll comment when I'm not on my TouchPadCancel but at a keyboard.

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    Yeah I realized that all this is true for my generation a while back..i was putting along at a slow pace ing around not realizing the seriousness of the situation, not sure what i wanted to major in. Then i realized I was going to graduate about 2 or 3 years behind at the pace i was going, so i started taking summer classes to catch up. every summer, then i realized that wasn't enough so i switched my major to something i could finish up a lot faster (finance) and at that point the gloves were OFF, i was ing pissed and ready to get down. pulled my gpa to a 3.8 like a study obsessed maniac and am going to graduate this summer only a year behind by taking classes over the wintermester, taking a full load of hard classes this spring, and then 2 in the summer. it sucks but i'm realizing what others in my age group have yet to realize- it's a cold world out there and i'll be damned if i pay for the past generations mistakes with my own prosperity. what i plan to do is finish my degree, take whatever job i can get probably only making 45,000 a year, and start paying off my loans now while still living at home. yeah it ing sucks living at home 22 going on 23, and it'll suck even more living with mommy and daddy at 24, but i ain't got no other choice. this generation is ed with 55% employment rate for young people. dreams are being crushed right now. after i make some progress on my loans and after a small break, i'll be going back for the 6 or 7 classes i need for a double major in accounting by taking 2 classes at night after work for a few semesters. then taking a few grad school classes for my cpa. props if you actually read all that, i know i'm ranting but it's just that times really do suck for the under 30 crowd and i don't even think my fellow age-mates even understand the seriousness of the situation. i'll be damn near 30 years old by the time i finally got this ship steered in the right direction, and i did most everything right (going to community college and living at home to save money, working part time, etc) EXCEPT not knowing what i wanted to do in life sooner.
    See, youre not the one being described in the article in the OP at all. There is nothing wrong with slacking a bit, but at some point, one must commit to a path. A well thought out path with a clear goal.

    You did. Finance is a career, an applicable career, employed or private practice.

    I fully realize the OP article is just a snapshot of big city emo kids. I work with youngins' full of work ethic, drive and potential who didnt elect the college path.

    Its quite refreshing to hear, actually.

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    i'm just thankful as that i have no kids, no female to support, and my parents are awesome enough to support me in these times and let me live here as long as i'm working or in school or both. i'll only have about 20k in debt when i'm done, that isn't too bad compared to most i would think?

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    me thinks my girl being a and changing on me was a blessing in disguise at this point. I was spendin money on her that she didn't deserve anyway. not to mention i found out she was an illegal immigrant and basically can't even use her degree, and this ain't the welfare line.

    tee, hee

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    Now i get it. You are just a manager that does not like paying his employees. You are satisfied with your place precisely because you tell others theirs. Power never has had the same effect on me its weird but there are a tone of people just like you.
    You rail against VY and others for making assumptions about you, then make assumptions about me.

    Hypocritical much?

    Before me, the company never paid bonuses, didnt offer health insurance and did not have a retirement program. It was an alley shop. Do you know what that phrase means?

    I pay my Plant Manager (same one from the 3 Kings era) more than you make, trust me. Base salary: $80k. Bonuses always vary and are based on profit percentage, but in 2010 (which was one of our better years comparatively, but will be the low-water mark going forward), he made $115k. 2011 has been an absolutely outstanding year, he can fully expect to get a $20k bonus check this Christmas. He could damn near pay off his house in one year's work.

    The foreman made ~$80k. The boys on the floor all make over $50k with overtime and bonuses. These guys on the floor are all under 30 years old, some without a high school diploma, some are convicts, almost all of them are from broken families full of drug addicts, violent deaths and dependance on welfare.

    2 of these young guys are the bread winners in their family. They actually support their mothers and sister (+kids) on the wage I pay them.

    Ive changed lives, Lumpkins. Ive changed entire families destinies (or fates, if you prefer). Ive touched dozens of people, given them applicable skills and watched them move on to bigger and better things, all while paying them an extremely good wage.

    What in the ever-loving have you done, guy?

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    BTW, the Plant Manager and Foremen have only a high school diploma. The foreman has never done anything else besides this trade. The Plant Manager would go back to truck driving in a heartbeat if we closed.

    So, the foreman's choice is to be unemployed for $361 a week and the Plant Manager can go make half of what he does with me.

    You think theyre unhappy and ungrateful? I made a promise to them early on, we grow, you grow. Ive kept my promise as have they. Its symbiotic, yet you characterize me as a parasite in your assumptions.

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    See, youre not the one being described in the article in the OP at all. There is nothing wrong with slacking a bit, but at some point, one must commit to a path. A well thought out path with a clear goal.

    You did. Finance is a career, an applicable career, employed or private practice.

    I fully realize the OP article is just a snapshot of big city emo kids. I work with youngins' full of work ethic, drive and potential who didnt elect the college path.

    Its quite refreshing to hear, actually.
    I think you missed the point of the article quite badly, DR. It was talking about people almost exactly like the mindset of Y.H. and how our generation is full of them. You seem to think otherwise.

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    I think you missed the point of the article quite badly, DR. It was talking about people almost exactly like the mindset of Y.H. and how our generation is full of them. You seem to think otherwise.
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    I think you missed the point of the article quite badly, DR. It was talking about people almost exactly like the mindset of Y.H. and how our generation is full of them. You seem to think otherwise.
    I think DR got pissed off about the haircuts by the second page (as he stated in his first post) and let that color his reading of the rest of the article.

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    I think you missed the point of the article quite badly, DR. It was talking about people almost exactly like the mindset of Y.H. and how our generation is full of them. You seem to think otherwise.
    I hope you mean people like I WAS, not am

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    Sure.



    Bankruptcy isnt usually an option for most people. The only people I know who are declared bankruptcy are the super-rich (...and its only Chapter 13 on a failed business) and those who cannot manage money further than their front pocket.

    Both of which I have no sympathy for.



    I graduated from high school in 1998. I am only mildly older than you (by the sounds of it) and those being described in the article.

    Here is what I know:

    I am from a middle-class to upper-middle class area. Lots of UAW kids, a few Automotive Executives kids (who had awesome parties).

    I am a UAW kid, with a father that worked every moment of everyday of his short life as an electrician. He could never afford to send me or my two brothers to college.

    You had two choices: Get a scholarship or take out loans.

    Even then, I did not see the logic in taking student loans. I knew from a very young age that there are only a couple ways to become wealthy. The vast majority of the wealthy are all business owners/inventors.

    IIRC, in Europe, in order to open a business, one must be a professional of that business (ie Start a residential electrical business, the owner must be a master electrician). Dont know if thats true, but just what I heard (albeit years ago). In the US, not so. Lucky me.

    I have had a job since I was 11 years old. I used to work 20 hours a week washing dishes at an Italian restaurant. My dad was always doing side jobs, so I worked with him, too, throughout my young adult life. From the restaurant, I worked everywhere. Burger King, McDonalds, multiple restaurants and grocery stores doing anything and everything. This all before I graduated high school.

    I graduated barely (21.5 credits), mostly because I do not like to get up early (big shout out to the guy who used to wake me up every morning), or attend school (older friends my whole life, they graduated 3 years earlier than me, that sucked) or be sober (woo-ha!). I immediately hired into an $8.00 an hour job welding brackets and bull by the truckload. I was too busy getting high in auto shop so I never actually welded before in my life.

    Seeing as the owner didnt much give a about anything but getting product out the door, it was basically a job-party. Fit right in.

    Wages blew, I was going nowhere and knew it (besides, had to get up too early). So my revelation was to become a furniture salesman. What a joke. 20 years old, wearing a suit and pitching lines rehearsed in training about products I never cared about. Spent most of my time at lunch and smoking outside. Failed miserably, was fired for under-performance. That was the first and only time in my life I had been fired.

    Didnt know what to do at that point. I was kicked out by my father when I was 17 ("...got in the way of his pussy" was how he put it), had been living with the same roommate up until this point. His girlfriend got pregnant, they were getting married and moving (which obviously did not include me).

    No job, nowhere to live, no contact with my father in years (Regrets, Ive had a few)...yeah, thats failure. Thats des ute, thats desperate, thats ing life.

    What do you do? Cry? Whine? Moan? Complain and blame?

    Or was it that I didnt take school seriously enough, that I didnt respect my father's new wife enough (no matter how much I despised her), that I never took one job seriously enough to completion?

    Was it the world's fault or mine? Easy answer.

    So I got a job at some small shop sweeping the floors for $8 an hour at age 21. In 6 years, I was and am currently running that company. Finally, I committed to something. Finally, I chose a direction and went for it.

    I was sweeping floors. One day I was asked "Know anything about computers?" Im a gamer, "Sure do, whatcha need?" They needed a guy who was willing to be trained in CAD software to detail prints. The engineers were/are busy designing this stuff, not making prints for the fab shop. This was a HUGE moment in my life, I thought it was big then seeing as I would actually work at ing desk!, but looking back on it, it was much much more than that.

    I met my boss (remember, I was 21). He was 18 years old. Dean's list every year at Kettering Engineering (aka GM Tech). Brilliant little er, he was, y too. But I would be too if I had mastered Calc2 at 16 years old. His first question "Ever worked in AutoCAD before?" Nope. "Drafting class?" Sure, but I never paid attention (ie skipped it so I could party). "know anything about computers?" That I do, could build one start to finish, BIOS, flashing, operating system (Windows of course), I can do that.

    He was going back to school in 2 months. Kettering is extremely hard to get into. The curriculum calls for 6 months working, 6 months at school, or some such schedule (cant remember). Either way, he was going back to school. I had 2 months to learn two new programs (AutoCAD and Solidworks) and the basics of engineering, detailing and tolerancing with ZERO prior experience.

    I slept at work, literally, in my car on occasion. My mother let me stay with her every now and then to make sure I was eating, so I could shower, etc.

    He left for school and I took over his job. The first batch of prints that hit the floor, I was a nervous wreck. I am not a math guru, furthest I ever went was Trig, which I bombed out of because it was 1st hour (again, partying). Cosign, blablabla, none of it made any sense, yet these machinists knew how to calculate such things on a calculator and would come to me with questions about I didnt really understand.

    You know what? I ing nailed it. ing nailed it. Homerun, out of the stadium. 4 machines from scratch were designed, detailed (me), assembled (a little me), run-off and shipped while Whiz Kid was at school. Every print that hit the floor was mine and mine alone. Were there problems? Oh yeah. Did I cost the company money? Maybe a couple grand, in total. Did over $1.5 million dollars in equipment get invoiced with my initials in the le blocks? You ing bet.

    Big accomplishment for me then, not so much now looking back on it. A monkey can detail a print, but I didnt know that at the time. But regardless, I showed potential, drive, commitment and initiative.

    The next thing I was asked to do was Quality Control at the company's second plant. This plant was/is small compared. I was sent to a 2 week class to learn the inspection software (as I already knew about prints, tolerancing, GD&T, etc) as the owner's partner and him had a falling out. The minority owner's son used to do all the ISO certifications, Quality Manuals, inspections and control do ents. All of which I knew nothing about.

    Started off just writing the inspection programs (thank you video games and scripts!) and then inspecting the parts associated with those programs. Which lead into my introduction to the International Organization for Standardization, ISO for short (you think it would be IOS, but Apple would have pitched a , Im sure). I then had to learn about one thousand acronyms that, to this day, I hate beyond belief. What a ing charade. Whatever.

    At this point, I was making $14 an hour at age 24, I rewrote the Quality Manuals, the Control Do ents and worked with the Cert rep on getting our company re-certified (have to do it every year, it sucks). Nailed it. Homerun. More impressive than detailing prints, but again, looking back on it, ISO is a ing pyramid scheme and anyone who actually likes it enough to do it for a living is a masochist.

    Owner can no longer handle running the day-to-day operation of this second plant. His main business is blowing up in a big way whereas as this little -shop is losing money every year of its existence. Not much money, less than $100k a year or breaking even, but when your other company is making millions, your priorities shift.

    So, he calls a meeting with me (now the Quality Manager), the Plant Manager and the Office Manager and lays it out. "This company is failing, I can no longer do it everyday, I am probably going to shutter it". Fear of God, yes. I had busted my balls, never asked for a raise in my life, was making for what I was doing, but really, really enjoyed not having to bust my back to make a decent living as a single male with no children (like my father did and my brothers still do).

    The PM and OM were speechless, I was not. I coerced the owner into letting "We 3 Kings" run the day-to-day for one year, possibly two. If it wasnt profitable by then, so be it. This company was his baby, he always referred to it as his 3rd child, he never took a paycheck his entire time as owner. He didnt want to close it, he just couldnt throw money out the window no matter how much he was making with his recently bought second company.

    He, surprisingly, agreed.

    Ive gone on long enough with this story. Summary from here: Lost money the first year, but showed promise with an expanding customer base (me, on the road, A LOT). Second year, became apparent that the "3 Kings" paradigm wasnt working, too many conflicts of interest (one of the first things the office manager did as a boss was give herself, the plant manager and me a raise. I was finally a salaried employee...first time in my life. $800 gross a week). Owner named me the General Manager in April 2006, 5 years after I was hired as a shop sweeping floors and driving the HiLo, of his company that employed 15 people (16 including me).

    It was rough. I had to learn proper accounting, payroll, taxes, business taxes, SBT taxes (Michigan thing, dont ask), 941 Quarterly reports, the difference between an S-Corporation and any other incorporation (pretty cool when youre a small outfit). I had to manage egos who didnt respect me as their boss, I had to fire people, knock people's pay down all while you watched a grown man cry that he will lose his house, I had to fire the Office Manager as she lazy made even worse that she didnt know about proper accounting or computers in general. She thought the fax machine was a big deal and hadnt watched one second of TV in 15 years. I cultivated customer relationships with people that were more than twice my age in a business (Automotive) that frowns upon youth in general running .

    You know what? I ing nailed it. Homerun, in the seats this time, next time it'll be out of the stadium. I inherited a struggling alley shop that worked from hand-to-mouth job-wise, which had gross sales under $300k and was hemorrhaging money. Today, I turned it into a profitable company with various private and government contracts guaranteeing X amount of dollars in revenue for the next 6+ years (with more to come), that now has gross sales over $2 million dollars, a retirement plan (me), health insurance (me) and employee bonuses twice a year (also me).

    I pay more money in personal taxes than most people on this board make in a year, jointly.

    Dont ing tell me about what works and what doesnt, because here is what I know. I work, you dont. With drive, commitment, a little luck and the willingness to completely and utterly disregard your personal life as whole, you will succeed.

    There are other ways of achieving the same things, with even better cir stances, I know this. But I do not sympathize with those who think working 9-5, 5 days a week as "working hard".

    To this day, even with a profitable company and a cushy lifestyle, this success has driven me to be more successful. I work just as hard if not harder now, longer hours, sleepless nights, bigger company investments and risks. I want more. When that fire burns dim, I will retire a wealthy, and more importantly, happy, satisfied man.
    I am employed, so your assumption is wrong. You are combative, hurling insults and profanity with absolutely no provocation.

    Let me summarize your wall of text for everybody!

    I became successful so that means everybody can. Bootstraps bootstraps bootstraps.
    Your anecdote is not indicative of everyone's situation. The plural of "anecdote" is something called "data":









    I don't think there would be this many articles about adult children moving back home unless there was something seriously wrong with our society and economy:

    http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/articl...MNM41LHSAT.DTL
    The U.S. Census Bureau says that from 2007, just before the recession hit, to 2010, a year after the recession officially ended, the number of adults ages 25 to 34 living with their parents shot up 26 percent, from 4.7 million to 5.9 million.

    Unemployment for adults younger than 24 is double the national mark of 9.1 percent. According to a Purdue University study, more than two-thirds of parents are giving their grown children financial assistance, double the rate of 20 years ago.
    http://www.digtriad.com/news/article...Coexist-Again-

    http://www.andersonvalleypost.com/ne...ing-back-home/

    http://online.wsj.com/article/SB124736728106627671.html

    http://calcoastnews.com/2011/10/%E2%...eturning-home/




    Since you only seem to understand anecdotes, I will share mine.

    I get paid nearly three times as much money as an independent contractor than the job I was offered in my field after I graduated (Biology degree, 4.0 GPA, children's cancer research). All of my similarly-aged cousins who have graduated college (nearly a dozen people) have no means of providing support for a middle-class family. That's quite statistically significant.

    To try and blame my generation for having few jobs is morally repugnant. We had nothing to do with all of our predecessors completely ing the economy up beyond repair.

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    I had more to say earlier than I think I do now but I'll still make some points:

    There's a lot of anger and frustration in the people who are 20-35 or so. There has been for awhile and I think the author hit the nail on the head about the 2008 election and our involvement and subsequent disillusionment. I know I identified very strongly with this part of the article because all of the optimism I felt in 2008 is absolutely gone and filled with far more cynicism about the political process and our ability to achieve change through that system than I was at any point during the Bush administration. That being said I have been taken by surprise by the strength and increasing popularity of the occupy movement so perhaps there is hope, somewhere.

    I'm not sure if the links the author makes between the way our parents raised us and some of the personality traits embodied by our generation. While it makes superficial sense to me that this would be the case, I often think that you can make the links you want to make when they rely mostly on perception and not quantifiable fact. That might just be the scientist in me thinking but it is what it is. That being said, I DO think the ideas put forth make sense and I certainly don't think the "participation certificate" and "everyone's a winner" mentality is without some incredibly huge drawbacks. The self esteem figures are really interesting, though. The baseline here for me is the idea that I've held for a long time that our parents (I'm speaking in a very general generational sense here - god knows my mother (and life) drilled into my head that life was not fair) did an incredibly poor job teaching us how cruel life could be and how NOTHING is guaranteed. No, you can't be anything you want and yes you need to get a bit lucky sometimes.

    As for the choice of majors of the people in the article, they are obviously fairly poor if the end run is employment at a gainful rate. I think this was discussed a bit in the college thread we had and I think many people will have learned a valuable if expensive lesson as a by product.

    In the end, I know that I personally feel very much in line with the conclusions the author makes. I definitely live a frugal life and am dealing with an uncertain future regarding college debt and employment. The fact is that I have a desire to do certain things that is so great I am willing to deal with that uncertainty. In the end I feel I've been very smart in how much debt I've taken on and how much I can expect to leave with once I'm done with my undergrad. I've sought out opportunities to position myself ahead of others in my prospective field. I've already got professional experience in my field and I hope to be adding much more over the next year. I can honestly say I'm doing the best I can to make sure I do make it. But really, I've also stopped worrying so much about what will happen if I don't "make it". Why? Because there's really not much more I can do to ensure that I will. I'll do what it takes and deal with the world that is left to me by previous generations.

    I may get unlucky and for whatever reason things may not go my way but I can't control that. It heartens me to learn that many more people in my age or younger are willing to deal with may come and just put their head down and plow forward regardless.

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    It's clear that if everyone had the drive and self-motivation, jobs would just magically appear.

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    About the article, I started reading it, but I just didn't get the feeling it was talking about me, so I kinda went over the last few pages <shrug>

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