How much does a girl's past..

[Proxy]

s are usually morons anyways... no point in marrying over lust... just setting yourself up for trouble down the line. Better to go for a best friend. If y'all get along, everything else takes care of itself quite well.

[J.T.]

Girl I'm currently dating was a virgin before she met me. Real comforting to know I'm not going to wake up with herpes in a week.

[Axe Murderer]

Not getting the teasing part as cruel either.

Do you mean that she teases the guys with promising to go further then stops from going any further then lets say kissing? That could be mean, yeah.

Basically

Just acts like any other girl who wants a quick hookup but gives the old "maybe next time when there really is no next time" line

[thispego]

How much does a girl's past matter to you, tbh?..

By past, I'm obviously referring to previous relationships/sexual encounters..

Could previous blemishes deter you from pursuing or having feelings for her, or does it make little difference?..

LOL this dude dating a big fat

[CuckingFunt]

I don't understand the appeal of ing someone you don't respect or wouldn't date. The few times I've done it, I wished I hadn't. Even when I around casually or get into a friends with benefits situation, it's with someone I like enough that I could/would date them in a different situation.

And all the stressing out about numbers is really stupid. I'd rather the person I date, male or female, had 20+ sexual partners with whom they'd been responsible/mature/drama-free, than had one or two partners with whom they'd made dangerous decisions or to whom they lied. Being a doesn't rule out the ability to act responsibly or to successfully make a commitment, and being a virgin (or having fewer notches on the bedpost) for damn sure doesn't automatically make a person more likely to function well within a relationship.

[mavs>spurs]

I don't understand

Let me just stop you there. You're damn right you don't understand, because you're a woman talking to a bunch of men. Common sense could tell you that you're not going to understand.

[CuckingFunt]

Let me just stop you there. You're damn right you don't understand, because you're a woman talking to a bunch of men. Common sense could tell you that you're not going to understand.

You're right.

I'm an adult who has actually had experience with women.

Whatever was I thinking?

[mavs>spurs]

why is is so surprising to you that a woman wouldn't understand why guys like to around?

[IWantsACuatro]

why is is so surprising to you that a woman wouldn't understand why guys like to around?

I think she was agreeing with the OP, more or less.

[CuckingFunt]

why is is so surprising to you that a woman wouldn't understand why guys like to around?

I didn't say anything about guys wanting to around. That's something I understand quite well.

What makes less sense to me, and it's not gender specific because I know plenty of men and women who do it, is the idea that ing around necessarily includes disrespect or a lowering of standards.

[mavs>spurs]

well to me i can't respect a woman who gives up the pussy too easy. no self respecting man will wife a chick who's ed a ton of people. jmo.

[CuckingFunt]

well to me i can't respect a woman who gives up the pussy too easy. no self respecting man will wife a chick who's ed a ton of people. jmo.

The question that remains unanswered, then, is why would you a chick you can't respect.

By separating the two things, doesn't it create a self-fulfilling prophecy? You want to get laid, so you'll women who give it up. But women who give it up can't be respected, and therefore can't be dated, and therefore can't be settled down with. Seems like you're putting a lot of time and energy into interactions that by their very nature will become fruitless.

[CuckingFunt]

eh CuckingFunt where you went wrong is assuming mavs>spurs has ever seen a female nipple in real life

I don't doubt he's seen a few.

I'm fairly convinced he hasn't a clue what to do with them, however.

[mavs>spurs]

The question that remains unanswered, then, is why would you a chick you can't respect.

By separating the two things, doesn't it create a self-fulfilling prophecy? You want to get laid, so you'll women who give it up. But women who give it up can't be respected, and therefore can't be dated, and therefore can't be settled down with. Seems like you're putting a lot of time and energy into interactions that by their very nature will become fruitless.

i would do it for fun obviously...

if i actually respected the girl i'd go about things totally differently.

[mavs>spurs]

I don't doubt he's seen a few.

I'm fairly convinced he hasn't a clue what to do with them, however.

my ex had 34 D's they were pretty nice

[mavs>spurs]

eh CuckingFunt where you went wrong is assuming mavs>spurs has ever seen a female nipple in real life

why are you and cbf always flirtin with her, bro?

[CuckingFunt]

i would do it for fun obviously...

if i actually respected the girl i'd go about things totally differently.

ing people you don't respect isn't very fun.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

What makes less sense to me, and it's not gender specific because I know plenty of men and women who do it, is the idea that ing around necessarily includes disrespect or a lowering of standards.

whaaaa? the standards thing is debatable but are you saying that ing around(cheating) doesn't necessarily mean that the person is disrespecting the other?

[mavs>spurs]

ing people you don't respect isn't very fun.

it is for guys, now we've just done a complete 360 and are back at square one. why would a woman think she could understand how a man thinks? we are different.

[ALVAREZ6]

whaaaa? the standards thing is debatable but are you saying that ing around(cheating) doesn't necessarily mean that the person is disrespecting the other?

She's not saying ing around = cheating, ing around = ing several people while single.

[CuckingFunt]

whaaaa? the standards thing is debatable but are you saying that ing around(cheating) doesn't necessarily mean that the person is disrespecting the other?

I was talking about having casual sex and/or multiple partners, not cheating. ing around, not ing around behind someone's back.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

She's not saying ing around = cheating, ing around = ing several people while single.

i gotta hear it from the horse's mouth

[CuckingFunt]

one word


omgzers

Does "omgzers" count as a word? I don't know that I'm willing to grant NorCal the ability to create a language.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

I was talking about having casual sex and/or multiple partners, not cheating. ing around, not ing around behind someone's back.

ah ok. carry on.

[mavs>spurs]

also, for someone who always tries to be the self proclaimed expert on all things sex and relationships, you should know that whenever a man s a chick that he isn't dating or hasn't been getting to know for at least a while, he DOESN'T respect her. contrary to whatever you previously thought, if a woman gives it up she is NOT getting any respect.