Hanging out with another guy/gal alone during a committed relationship.

[CuckingFunt]

You're nothing more than a carnival barker playing to the circus crowd.

And a gotdam liar I might add.

The only woman to say that are likely ugly women...sexy women just don't talk like that.

Sexy women talk lots of different ways.

[BUMP]

a few TINGs

If the girl is 22 or younger, she's just immature and if she's doing this she's not serious dating material anyway. Girls are insecure and re ed at that age to not believe that the dude doesn't want to deposit their DNA inside of her. Seriously, what guy is going to constantly waste his time hanging out with a girl 1 on 1 if he just wants to be friends? so...

1. she's either cheating

2. she's too re ed to know his true motives and should be dumped anyway

Now, as JoeTait said, there really is no excuse for a married person to be doing that (unless kids are involved).

[Koolaid_Man]

I said that it wouldn't faze me if I was in a strong relationship. If I had the possibility of sex with someone else waved in my face and I was tempted, I would recognize that as an indication that there was something wrong with my current relationship. At which point I would either take steps to correct the problem(s) in my existing relationship, or I would end it and pursue the new opportunity. That you apparently lack control does not automatically mean that everyone else does, as well.



I don't cheat, but I'm far from godly. I make no claims at having relationships all figured out, as is evident by the fact I'm currently single, haven't had anything more than fairly casual relationships (even the exclusive/monogamous ones clearly weren't headed to the altar), and recognize that I am far more interested in long-term emotional monogamy rather than long-term sexual monogamy. By the most traditional definitions of what a relationship should be, I'm a complete mess. I'm just a mess who doesn't cheat or lie to the person/people I claim to love. Never have been, likely never will be.



If anyone put their in my face without my asking them to, I guarantee the result will not be pleasurable. Me walking away annoyed would be a best case scenario.

Lol. You are a laughing riot. You're far from godly. I take it to mean you like a good
reaming every other day?

Of course the in face is all consensual....I just love the moments when a girl's
bout to suck my and its just staring them in the face...the slight smile and sheer
excitement is so cute

[Koolaid_Man]

Sexy women talk lots of different ways.

So would you classify yourself as nasty...I mean willing to not only suck a mean but to mean but to lean into it.
Nasty as in let me eat your ass, in your face, swallow my load...if you and I were in a committed relationship ate these things
fair game are they considered nasty. Or taboo. Just trying to further gauge how you think.

Also have you ever ed a black guy assuming you are white.

[CuckingFunt]

Lol. You are a laughing riot. You're far from godly. I take it to mean you like a good
reaming every other day?

I don't equate liking sex with a lack of godliness, do you? And you can take it to mean whatever you like, but I explained my meaning pretty clearly in the rest of my post. All I meant was that I don't cheat, but that not cheating doesn't mean (or hasn't meant so far) that I'm the perfect girlfriend or that I'm the relationship whisperer or anything. I'm not. I've made, and will likely continue to make, tons of mistakes in relationships. It just so happens that none of those mistakes have involved cheating or lying.

Of course the in face is all consensual....I just love the moments when a girl's
bout to suck my and its just staring them in the face...the slight smile and sheer
excitement is so cute

Seriously, what the are you on about? The only reason I brought up the scenario of genitalia being waved in my face was to address the idea of sexual temptation.

So would you classify yourself as nasty...I mean willing to not only suck a mean but to mean but to lean into it.
Nasty as in let me eat your ass, in your face, swallow my load...if you and I were in a committed relationship ate these things
fair game are they considered nasty. Or taboo. Just trying to further gauge how you think.

Also have you ever ed a black guy assuming you are white.

My sexual proclivities and/or experiences are completely irrelevant to the discussion. I quite enjoy sex. I like many/most of the things that people who have sex do.

I strongly dislike lying, however. I strongly dislike wasting another person's time. I strongly dislike intentionally disrespecting the person/people I love and care about. All of that makes it pretty easy to turn down sex every now and then, even when I may not want to.

[Koolaid_Man]

I don't equate liking sex with a lack of godliness, do you? And you can take it to mean whatever you like, but I explained my meaning pretty clearly in the rest of my post. All I meant was that I don't cheat, but that not cheating doesn't mean (or hasn't meant so far) that I'm the perfect girlfriend or that I'm the relationship whisperer or anything. I'm not. I've made, and will likely continue to make, tons of mistakes in relationships. It just so happens that none of those mistakes have involved cheating or lying.



Seriously, what the are you on about? The only reason I brought up the scenario of genitalia being waved in my face was to address the idea of sexual temptation.



My sexual proclivities and/or experiences are completely irrelevant to the discussion. I quite enjoy sex. I like many/most of the things that people who have sex do.

I strongly dislike lying, however. I strongly dislike wasting another person's time. I strongly dislike intentionally disrespecting the person/people I love and care about. All of that makes it pretty easy to turn down sex every now and then, even when I may not want to.

Hey Boo...what are these tons of mistakes that you keep referencing. If it doesn't involve another guy in any capacity
what is it you're doing to up your relationships so badly till you find yourself still single.
You may enjoy sex but the question is are you lame in bed. Some women can't at all and so they remain single.
That was the context of me asking. It's either sex issues or your recklessly ing off your man's money.
What else could you possibly be doing. Are you that bad a cook

[CuckingFunt]

Hey Boo...what are these tons of mistakes that you keep referencing. If it doesn't involve another guy in any capacity
what is it you're doing to up your relationships so badly till you find yourself still single.
You may enjoy sex but the question is are you lame in bed. Some women can't at all and so they remain single.
That was the context of me asking. It's either sex issues or your recklessly ing off your man's money.
What else could you possibly be doing. Are you that bad a cook

None of the above and none of your business, frankly.

However, as I am a functional adult person living in the real world with other functional adult persons, where individuals, interactions, and relationships are all much more complex and layered than in your fantasy world scenarios, there are plenty of ways to make a mistake in a relationship beyond cheating, taking a man's money, or otherwise failing to live up to one of the three stereotypical characteristics that make up your definition of what a woman is meant to be. I cook well, I well, I'm self-sufficient, and I don't cheat. Feel free to keep guessing.

[Koolaid_Man]

Also Ms Cuck you didnt directly answer my question as to your nastiness in bed but i
read your response as a yes. There's no shame in being nasty in bed we all are.
I love nasty women in bed just so happens that the sexiest and nastiest women are white women.

[Koolaid_Man]

None of the above and none of your business, frankly.

However, as I am a functional adult person living in the real world with other functional adult persons, where individuals, interactions, and relationships are all much more complex and layered than in your fantasy world scenarios, there are plenty of ways to make a mistake in a relationship beyond cheating, taking a man's money, or otherwise failing to live up to one of the three stereotypical characteristics that make up dnition of what a woman is meant to be. I cook well, I well, I'm self-sufficient, and I don't cheat. Feel free to keep guessing.

So you got a overly sensitive man? If you look good as you say you handle your bizness then what's the ing problem boo..

[Koolaid_Man]

My point is if you can do all that very well I see no problem with you being on someone's team. No need to start getting emo on me
were just having a friendly convo. If I'm ever in SA I will take you for a nice dinner and drinks.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

[CuckingFunt]

My point is if you can do all that very well I see no problem with you being on someone's team. No need to start getting emo on me
were just having a friendly convo. If I'm ever in SA I will take you for a nice dinner and drinks.

The sound of women laughing in your face must be deafening.

[mojorizen7]

I think it was Chris Rock who said;

Men don't have "platonic" female friends...they just have women friends they ain't ed yet.

Women - have male platonic friends....they are known as a " in a glass jar" - break in case of emergency.

Anyone that disputes this truth is just lying - or a cuck/cuckette.

This is basically what i posted earlier.
Trust is something that is earned in a relationship. However,common sense is a gift...and my woman had better have enough of it to recognize that "that guy friend of hers" is not someone who she needs to be hanging out with,alone,in his apartment.

There's a reason men have female friends,and its not so they can "just hang out" and be buddies....especially if the woman is already in a relationship.

[Avante]

Can anyone tell me why the this is acceptable practice nowadays? I can understand if it's a group setting where aquatiances get together and people just chat but I am seeing a lot of BS of people using the " it's just a friend" excuse. I don't know if I'm just old school or whatever but you don't fcking put yourself in a a situation where you can get tempted. IMO, it's disrespectful.

I'm asking this because I'm trying to put sense to my buddy who thinks it's alright for her GF to hang out with her guy friend alone on his guy friends apartment.

Why does his GF hang out there? What are they doing? If it's some job/school whatever/some hobby...hmmm? If not then why is she there at all?

[silverblk mystix]

Why does his GF hang out there? What are they doing? If it's some job/school whatever/some hobby...hmmm? If not then why is she there at all?

The girl is there to;
A) Get ed
B) Her guy friend is the " in a glass jar" and she is just cultivating the relationship to make sure that when she "breaks" the glass - the will be at her perusal.
C) She is too stupid to realize that the guy only wants to her but he is "acting" like a friend until he gets a chance to her.


The guy is there to;

A) Try to her - even if it means lying to her by saying he respects her other relationship and respects her and is only interested in a "friendship"


Nothing else applies.

[Avante]

The girl is there to;
A) Get ed
B) Her guy friend is the " in a glass jar" and she is just cultivating the relationship to make sure that when she "breaks" the glass - the will be at her perusal.
C) She is too stupid to realize that the guy only wants to her but he is "acting" like a friend until he gets a chance to her.


The guy is there to;

A) Try to her - even if it means lying to her by saying he respects her other relationship and respects her and is only interested in a "friendship"


Nothing else applies.

I'd say that is probably the case 90% of the time.

We do see the once in awhile...

Guy can play some instrument and is teaching her. That sort of thing does happen. Body building, painting, stuff like that.

I was great friends (internet) on another site with a girl from Canada, she loved them old blues and we talked a lot by e-mail, my wife didn't care at all, and there was nothing but that between me and Canada.

[silverblk mystix]

I'd say that is probably the case 90% of the time.

We do see the once in awhile...

Guy can play some instrument and is teaching her. That sort of thing does happen. Body building, painting, stuff like that.

Well, sure - but the guy is not only teaching her - he is also waiting for a chance to pounce on her. If it is the other way around- then it might be legit - if the female is teaching the guy and the guy is paying her - then her intentions are probably legit - and his intentions might be legit - but if he gets the chance...

[Avante]

Well, sure - but the guy is not only teaching her - he is also waiting for a chance to pounce on her. If it is the other way around- then it might be legit - if the female is teaching the guy and the guy is paying her - then her intentions are probably legit - and his intentions might be legit - but if he gets the chance...

Can't really buy that, I am friends with a lot of women that don't turn me on at all.

[Koolaid_Man]

The sound of women laughing in your face must be deafening.

not as deafening as a woman who can't keep a man...if you're not having sex issues, cheatings issues, money issues, or cooking issues then it's likely mental issue tbh...either that you're not as sexy as you think

[CuckingFunt]

not as deafening as a woman who can't keep a man...if you're not having sex issues, cheatings issues, money issues, or cooking issues then it's likely mental issue tbh...either that you're not as sexy as you think

Why would you assume my "problem" is not being able to keep a man? Maybe my "problem" is that I haven't wanted to?

Incidentally, I've never said anything about having a problem, or about being upset with where I am right now, only that I've made some mistakes in past relationships. Could be the mistakes to which I referred included cutting them loose too early and too often. But I never once indicated that I wasn't happy with where I've ended up or with the decisions I've made to get here; I merely stated that just because I claimed not to have cheated on past partners doesn't mean I'm perfect.

[Avante]

As we all know in your teens being anywhere around a semi attractive female totally ruined ya. Instant hardon. Then as time went on ya started to mellow on that a bit. Buy the time...hmmm?..30, ya had things under control.

[Koolaid_Man]

Why would you assume my "problem" is not being able to keep a man? Maybe my "problem" is that I haven't wanted to?

Incidentally, I've never said anything about having a problem, or about being upset with where I am right now, only that I've made some mistakes in past relationships. Could be the mistakes to which I referred included cutting them loose too early and too often. But I never once indicated that I wasn't happy with where I've ended up or with the decisions I've made to get here; I merely stated that just because I claimed not to have cheated on past partners doesn't mean I'm perfect.

Hey listen Hon....I'm not trying to antagonize you...maybe you can...I bet you are quite sexy...it's just that you keep saying things that irks me...for example ^....why wouldn't you want to keep a man if you aren't having major issues with them...and then if you are having issues why aren't you taking lessons learned from each guy you've cut loose....it seems you willingly get in a relationship already knowing what you're gonna do to the poor guy...that's based on your own comments...

my next question is are you Bi...do you like women? I personally think it's ok for women to like women as long as they're both sexy....

[CuckingFunt]

it's just that you keep saying things that irks me...

Oh well.

for example ^....why wouldn't you want to keep a man if you aren't having major issues with them...and then if you are having issues why aren't you taking lessons learned from each guy you've cut loose....it seems you willingly get in a relationship already knowing what you're gonna do to the poor guy...

Aren't you the same person who posted earlier in this thread that monogamy just doesn't work for all (most?) people? If so, that would indicate you should understand that there are plenty of reasons someone may not want to be tied to the same one person for the rest of their lives. If I indeed have a problem with relationships, and if that problem is that I don't want to keep a man, is it confusing to you because that line of thinking doesn't match up with what you think women should want? Again, oh well.

that's based on your own comments...

No, that's based on your assumptions. The only information I've given about myself in this entire thread -- that I'm currently single, that I've made mistakes in past relationships, and that I've never cheated or lied -- has been intentionally very vague. All the rest of it is the product of nothing more than your imagination.

my next question is are you Bi...do you like women? I personally think it's ok for women to like women as long as they're both sexy....

I'm sure the entire lesbian and bisexual female community is grateful for your permission. However, and I hate to be the one that breaks this to you, women who choose to be with other women don't do so for your personal enjoyment or entertainment.

[Koolaid_Man]

Oh well.



Aren't you the same person who posted earlier in this thread that monogamy just doesn't work for all (most?) people? If so, that would indicate you should understand that there are plenty of reasons someone may not want to be tied to the same one person for the rest of their lives. If I indeed have a problem with relationships, and if that problem is that I don't want to keep a man, is it confusing to you because that line of thinking doesn't match up with what you think women should want? Again, oh well.



No, that's based on your assumptions. The only information I've given about myself in this entire thread -- that I'm currently single, that I've made mistakes in past relationships, and that I've never cheated or lied -- has been intentionally very vague. All the rest of it is the product of nothing more than your imagination.



I'm sure the entire lesbian and bisexual female community is grateful for your permission. However, and I hate to be the one that breaks this to you, women who choose to be with other women don't do so for your personal enjoyment or entertainment.

why can't we have a decent conversation without you getting overly defensive....so are you admitting that you like multiple sex partners...you're admitting it's because of monogamy that you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship?

You seemed to indicate you made mistakes in your previous relationships you didn't give the vibe that it was because you like promiscuity that the relationships didn't work... I'm pretty good at reading between the lines sweetie...you accepted my original challenge and you're holding your own quite well against me...even though I'm holding back...

I like you and hope we can continue dialogue in many different areas...

and you mis-read my lesbian comments that's why I prefaced it with "personally"....I would love to see you with another woman Ms Cuckingfunt you're at ude tells me you're a really sexy lady....and what you haven't said tells me you're a real sex shooter...congrats on that...

[CuckingFunt]

Deafening.