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what did she think?
Ugh...you and Shadowflames need to use PM for this .
what did she think?
DMC, leave your comments please...
responded placidly, she probably also thought it was just another work of art derived from Goddess (rather than herself), just like the initial reactions of you guys.
Just tell her it was for her, but before you do, break her self-esteem down to the point where any sort of compliment will get her giddy. It sounds wrong, but it really isn't tbh.responded placidly, she probably also thought it was just another work of art derived from Goddess (rather than herself), just like the initial reactions of you guys.
excellent advice, thanks. But it's not like I was planning to initiate a relationship with her, actually that's what I'd try my best to avoid, tbh. I just wanna show my thankfulness to her, an act of courtesy and all. I already made a horrible mistake on Chelsea during undergraduate years (I actually developed a slight liking for Chelsea during college years, but it ain't strong enough for me to give up celibacy), I shall not make the same mistake again tbh.
How does your family feel about that? Aren't asians keen on leaving legacies when they die? Where's yours?
you can do better
Parents are irritated by that idea of course, like they want to eat me alive every time I say that, but there ain't nothing in the world that can make me betray my religion, tbh. I'd rather chop my off than get it wet in a 's mouth or pussy, tbh.
Asians are the disgrace of the entire human race, they're the eastern Mexicans tbh. All the s want to do is produce as many sorry copies of their ty genes as their lifetimes permit, but as smart and educated as I am, I'd rather not follow that trend. There're many kinds of legacies we can leave to this world when we're gone, like knowledge, thoughts, spirits, literature etc..., our genes the least of all.
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so where do you think I can improve, tbh?
I'm honestly asking for advice here so no trash talking please... well, she's been making some hints these past two weeks, like she always chose to sit right behind me. And last Monday morning, I received a call from our professor who asked me and another student to meet him in his office at 10am. She knew I was leaving so she left too during the last break before 10, it seems like she only went to the classes to see me.And during the writing class on Thursday the week before, we submitted our writing pieces to the teacher for the whole class to share, so I read her short writings and found she mentioned quite a few words whose pronunciation sounds just as the same as my name.
I reciprocated positively, of course, this poem being the most notable response. She didn't know the poem was written for her at first, just like most of you guys who thought it was another work of art about our Goddess Scarlett. I still love Scarlett and I'd love to write the finest pieces of lyrics for her, but not this time. Although she didn't say nothing special after reading my poem for the first time, she's viewed that page (where the poem is) quite a few times since then and I'm sure she's already known the poem was written for her. I know that she knows I love her (to some extent, at least), but I'm not sure if she has the same feeling for me, probably yes but I'm not really sure. Is she waiting for ME to act, or is she just playing around making fun of me?
Her tone is always so calm and joyful when talking to me, and it doesn't sound like the tone being used talking to her loved one (I was expecting a bit of nervousness, at least). My guess is, she either doesn't give a about me, not at all, and that's the scenario I'd prefer because I can then continue to be a proud celibate, for the rest of my life... or she covers up her true feelings so well you can never get a clue what she thinks by the way she acts and talks. I've been so much distracted by such s recently I can't even concentrate on my study anymore tbh. So I urgently need your help and your honest advice, Spurstalk. I'm about 26yr old but I'm still a novice when it comes to such issues. Is there any way that I can further test her, without the possibility of embarrassing myself? Like, even if the former scenario (she doesn't give a about me) is the truth, I wouldn't look too much of a loser. So, what shall I do?
Oh... almost forgot to mention this... in the morning today I gave her a printed book (not worth much) which was to be used in the afternoon. She thanked me of course, and I said something like "no problem... you're my loyal reader...". I didn't say the second half clearly enough, maybe, so she asked back, "what?". The pitch of her voice was a bit higher than it usually was and she sounded excited... yet I didn't say nothing meaningful after that. Was she expecting me to say "you're my gf/Goddess"? And if that was true, what a sorry wimp I was at the moment? But just like I said, I didn't wanna embarrass myself so even if she was just playing around, I could still be a proud celibate and it wouldn't be too bad. But if she turns out to be another girl who's given her full heart to me, like the Chelsea girl during my undergraduate years, I wouldn't EVER forgive myself for disappointing another girl who loves me, tbh.
You should introduce her to the Club and show her how cool your internet friends are.
DEEP!I'm honestly asking for advice here so no trash talking please... well, she's been making some hints these past two weeks, like she always chose to sit right behind me. And last Monday morning, I received a call from our professor who asked me and another student to meet him in his office at 10am. She knew I was leaving so she left too during the last break before 10, it seems like she only went to the classes to see me.
I reciprocated positively, of course, this poem being the most notable response. She didn't know the poem was written for her at first, just like most of you guys who thought it was another work of art about our Goddess Scarlett. I still love Scarlett and I'd love to write the finest pieces of lyrics for her, but not this time. Although she didn't say nothing special after reading my poem for the first time, she's viewed that page (where the poem is) quite a few times since then and I'm sure she's already known the poem was written for her. I know that she knows I love her (to some extent, at least), but I'm not sure if she has the same feeling for me, probably yes but I'm not really sure. Is she waiting for ME to act, or is she just playing around making fun of me?
Her tone is always so calm and joyful when talking to me, and it doesn't sound like the tone being used talking to her loved one (I was expecting a bit of nervousness, at least). My guess is, she either doesn't give a about me, not at all, and that's the scenario I'd prefer because I can then continue to be a proud celibate, for the rest of my life... or she covers up her true feelings so well you can never get a clue what she thinks by the way she acts and talks. I've been so much distracted by such s recently I can't even concentrate on my study anymore tbh. So I urgently need your help and your honest advice, Spurstalk. I'm about 26yr old but I'm still a novice when it comes to such issues. Is there any way that I can further test her, without the possibility of embarrassing myself? Like, even if the former scenario (she doesn't give a about me) is the truth, I wouldn't look too much of a loser. So, what shall I do?
Go for it. If anything to get over that anxiety you've been having for about a week now.
tbh I couldn't sleep last night, thinking about this the entire night to the morning, and here are my conclusions...
1. She's a flat out . She knows I'm a celibate yet she still kinda stalks me one way or another, and knows how many s she already has in the rotation.
2. She looks just above average even with meticulous makeup (which's obvious because 's skin looks too white for an Asian)
3. Rogue is too cool to ever fall into any 's trap. Celibacy and virginity have been the infinite source of energy for me for so many years, and I don't see no reason why I should give them up. Even our Goddess Scarlett wouldn't convince me to quit celibacy, let alone a no-name yellow .
4. I'm an ambitious student pursuing my dreams while most es (if not all) are dream killers. A smart dude would never sacrifice his dream for the sake of a , tbh.
Rogue...chill out bro
Pussy s with the brain tbh, just keep doing what you've been doing before she came into the picture. Point #4 is also pretty true...
"Pussy s with the brain tbh,"
Truth bomb. Now I feel I'm not even 1/10 as smart as I was just maybe 2-3 weeks ago, I feel as if my IQ has plunged all the way down to Cubansucks' level within just a few weeks... Can't blame the though, I've been been fooled around by pussies quite some times yet I never learn a lesson. "You can't be smart and be married at the same time", tbh.
You're saying all of this mean stuff about shorty, but I think you're trying to tell yourself all these things to make yourself feel better and not guilty about liking her.
to some extent, yes
Nah bro, you shouldn't tell her all your feelings right away but be honest about sharing some so she knows. If she likes you like you say she does but you dont reciprocate she'll move on thinking you're not interested in her. Set boundaries so things stand clear between you two.to some extent, yes
That should be your first step.
I think I've reciprocated well, I've never been so kind to a woman in years tbh. For example, I gave her a printed copy of a book the other day, the book itself ain't worth much but at least by doing so I showed my kindness to her, not to say the poem which she's read so many times she can even recite it maybe. She already knows I like her, I'm pretty sure about that, and even our classmates have noticed that tbh. I think that we had already made such an atmosphere where everybody knows that we like each other mutually. What I'm really afraid of is if she proposes a relationship right now when I'm totally not ready yet. I wouldn't wanna decline her of course, but I think next semester will be very important for both of us and I don't want nothing to distract me (or her) until we're both ready for the next stage of life. So does it mean I should leave things the way they are, and see how it progresses without any interventions?
Indeed. Just let it play out then.
You can still remain good friends, even get closer to each other by just maintaining a close relationship that doesn't involve all the kissing and all that other stuff. At least until you're both out of school and can focus on the relationship afteraward.
The thing with that is that after school and every one goes their own seperate way, it can be hard to keep as close as you would otherwise be when you were seeing each other every day.
Do you have contact with her outside of school?
only contact is AIM ( s' version of AIM, of course) imho, and you know that doesn't mean much. I have a good female friend though, who's been studying with me under the same professor, so I think maybe she will play a pivotal role if needed. But just as you said, chances would be completely gone after we graduate and go our separate ways, and even while we're still at school we don't get to see each other everyday because there ain't that many classes tbh, and I had only seen her a few times the past semester because she was too busy with work
Love transcence, son, keep the faith.only contact is AIM ( s' version of AIM, of course) imho, and you know that doesn't mean much. I have a good female friend though, who's been studying with me under the same professor, so I think maybe she will play a pivotal role if needed. But just as you said, chances would be completely gone after we graduate and go our separate ways, and even while we're still at school we don't get to see each other everyday because there ain't that many classes tbh, and I had only seen her a few times the past semester because she was too busy with work
Does she know that you dont currently have a job? That's a good sign that she doesn't care about any of the material . I know that you being a man and all it bothers you because things are abit backwards with you having no job and her having one. But just because you dont and she does, doesn't mean that should be detrimental in deciding if you want to pursue it or not. Basically its a pride thing. Which I can understand to be honest.
Me and that female friend are the only two students in our class who have been working together with the professor on his programs, so people know our futures are bright despite not having no jobs currently. She has a teaching job but the pay is mediocre (especially when the tax rate on her earning is as high as 20% because she's working part-time not full time). Speaking of material, I think I would prevail over any student in our class (unless someone has a sugar daddy named Bill Gates or something similar). I graduated from the best high school in our city, and studied 4yrs in the other top-tier university which's just as good as the one we're studying at (both the best in our town). But on top of all, "lunar Goddess" wants to get married to a local dude (she was talking about it with a friend of hers in the classroom the other day), and I'm the only one in our whole class who meets that criteria. I believe that if she wants to choose someone out of our class, choosing me would be a no-brainer for her, without no close runner-ups. Not to say I'm smart and I look like an Asian male version of Scarlett, I'm a bit short at 5'7 but that ain't too bad by an Asian's standard imho. Thing that worries me most is that, if I don't actively pursue a relationship with her, she would possibly misunderstand it as a sign that I didn't really have interest in her.
The thing I like most about her is that, unlike other females who also liked me yet turned their eyes away after learning that I am a hardcore Goddess fan, she doesn't seem to care at all... does it mean that she just sees me as a common friend or, she likes me so much unconditionally she doesn't mind me loving another woman at the same time, just like Lucy (a character) in my novels?
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