The lesson learned, at long last?
We deserve better than being patronized as part of someone's bureaucratic s game. Accordingly, the message now should be blunt for whichever disgruntled franchise owner comes calling next, whether Jeffrey Loria or Tom Benson.
We'd love to have you join one of the nation's ascendant communities.
But make no mistake.
Just because we lust after you, it doesn't necessarily mean we need you.
And that the games people play don't always take place on the field.
But we knew that already.
That dealing with sports franchises looking to move is dirty business is nothing new to us, of course. The recent years have shown us that such courtships demand more than deep pockets and a willing citizenry.
It often requires soap, hot water and heavy gargling.
No one comes away from these things feeling completely clean, and we can now survey the grime from this most recent flirtation and see it for what it is: another layer of needed experience.
Certainly, reeling in the Marlins would be a home run. But San Antonio should understand, more and more, that it is the real catch.
The ambitious Wolff, who is rightfully admired for his dogged spearheading of attempts to elevate the city's national iden y, appears to recognize this with more certainty than ever before. Stung by recent criticism by Bexar County Commissioner Lyle Larson, who accurately reflected a growing national perception that San Antonio sometimes appears to be "groveling," the judge set a May 15 deadline for Florida to accept an offer of $200 million in public funding and free land toward a stadium.
The Marlins are expected to ignore the date. Major League Baseball, by its silence, has indicated no desire to surrender the nation's No. 17 media market in favor of No. 37.
Big deal.
Others will come sniffing around, and the past few weeks show that San Antonio officials increasingly appear ready to negotiate with more than crossed fingers and dreamy stares.
Wolff has joined Larson in stressing that any future discussions will only be pursued with teams and leagues simultaneously. It's a sound game plan designed to eliminate the city being used as a political pawn, and it may be in play soon.