I'm a wizards fan (depressing I know), and I got to this thread from a google search. I've been reading, and most of it seems like typical home team forum stuff.
The issue seems to be mainly about game 3. As a third party, my opinion on the matter really isn't all that biased. I'm pretty much about the better team winning. I like both Nash and Duncan, and even though the Suns are more exciting to watch, I'd still rather see the better team win.
With that preface, I think that no one will know what would have happened if the game was officiated correctly. Speculating about what would happen is pure madness. The Spurs won, and that's that. HOWEVER, know that if the Spurs had lost in the same fashion as the Suns, that you guys would be ing to no end. It's really sad to see you Spurs fans completely denying that anything happened.
Whether you believe it or not, the Suns played as well as the Spurs did in that series. The games were very even on average. Game 5 looked to be won by the Spurs because the Suns just ran out of gas, which was a product of not having enough regular players (speculation yeah, but pretty reasonable I think). The other games were pretty damn close. Did the Spurs play better than the Suns? I mean, I guess. There are just too many factors to look at: with the suspensions, the prospect that the games were tainted by officiating, and (oh yeah) THE ACTUAL PLAY ON THE COURT.
With all of the cir stances taken into account, the Spurs ended up on top. They won, and that is that. But don't act like they won because they were surely the better team. From this fans perspective, they seemed evenly matched. Just be thankful that you guys won and don't have to about it for the rest of eternity.