The Coors Light girls don't give me the urge to drink Coors Light.
If YOU were one of the Coors Light girls, I'd have one in my hand (and a fridge full, with more on the shopping list) right NOW!
But see, women want the attractive, wealthy men.
Hmm... seems kinda similar to what men do. Heh.
The Coors Light girls don't give me the urge to drink Coors Light.
If YOU were one of the Coors Light girls, I'd have one in my hand (and a fridge full, with more on the shopping list) right NOW!
ugh...the "just friends" card. World's biggest copout.You all knew guys like the ones I'm talking about... They're called "Just Friends" if I remember correctly...
If by wealthy you mean able to help raise a family and help keep a roof over our heads, then yes, I guess we do have unrealistic standards.
That's because girls that age get brainwashed on how they're supposed to look and who is going to be the best guy to date to get me in with the cool crowd. It's all very "Clueless."
I don't think that's an effect of brainwashing any more than guys are brainwashed by images of women...That's because girls that age get brainwashed on ... who is going to be the best guy to date to get me in with the cool crowd.
Ugly guys dont' have a problem really. It is guys without any game that have problems.
Well even as adults I would say that's true. You can't be physically attracted to everyone. And having your preferences is okay. There has to be some level of lust involved in a relationship, so wanting to be with someone you find physically attractive isn't a bad thing. I know that (when I was single) that I wasn't even attracted to 5% of men. Is that a bad thing? No, it's just preference.
When men get their hard over women and talk about female body features it is considered crude and rude.
When women do it, it's all in good fun, girls will be girls, etc.
Double standard? yeah.
Exactly! The problem arises when people get upset that the rest of the world doesn't find them in their 5%
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying girls SHOULD be attracted to the Geek Squad... I'm just saying they shouldn't complain about the standards of guys in general when they can't get the Prom King to ask them out.
No, people get upset when waaaaay too much emphasis is put on that 1%. Only a slight difference, but one that's impossible to get away from.
Well that's life.
No one looks at their pool of prospects and treats them all equally even though they are more physically attracted to some and less physically attracted to others. Looks is just like any other trait or quality. If it's okay to weed out girls based on lack of brains, lack of sense of humor, etc ..then it's okay to weed out girls on lack of physical attractiveness. Sure, some of those traits might weigh more to you than others, but that's up to you.
When you are finding a spouse, you have to find someone that you can like, love, AND lust. So picking someone who you want to bang night and day is a good thing. If that person looks like Halle Berry than that's your preference. If she looks like Oprah, that's your preference too. Everyone is not going to find everyone attractive. Just like everyone isn't going to find everyone funny, etc.
If an average-looking teenage guy finds he can't get the pretty girls to notice him, and gets a low self-image, here's what he can do about it:
1) work out -- get bigger
2) make a lot of money
Neither of those things are unhealthy, usually. In the meantime, guys don't have quite as much of their self-image wrapped up in their ability to attract the opposite sex, and men, as cruel as they can be to one another, don't treat one another nearly as bad as women do. If a pencil-necked geek or a fat slob has a well-stocked beer fridge or a plasma screen or is just generally a cool guy, other guys aren't going to be judging the way he looks. If a guy ever even mentions the appearance of another guy, positively or negatively, other guys will assume he is gay.
Now if an average-looking teenage girl finds she can't get the desirable men to notice her, and gets a low self-image, here's what she can do about it:
1) work out -- get thinner
2) get a boob job
3) develop an eating disorder
4) become a
Of those, only the first has the possibility of being a good idea, and then only to a point. Overexertion sometimes is part of an eating disorder. Plus, women have their self-image wrapped up in their physical attractiveness to men, and the women around them will never let them forget about it for a second. There is no safe haven. Women will rip each other apart. They judge every single detail of each other's appearance, head to toe, and criticize.
Is it really that bad? Don't you watch commercials and see them full of "average" looking people?No, people get upset when waaaaay too much emphasis is put on that 1%. Only a slight difference, but one that's impossible to get away from.
"That chick is hot - she's got a really nice body." = compliment
"That chick is hot - that's one fine piece of pussy." = crude and rude
And as I said earlier, I'm of the opinion far more women do that to each other than men do it to women.No, people get upset when waaaaay too much emphasis is put on that 1%. Only a slight difference, but one that's impossible to get away from.
But I have nothing to back that up other than what I think and see.
I agree 100%
I don't think that's totally accurate...I mean...a boob job isn't the end of the world...and neither is becoming a (within moderation).
Well, I think what is missed in much of this is that young girls who have problems with eating disorders and the like aren't the result of "boys don't think I'm cute" but other underlying issues.
Do you remember when MTV The Real World first started? I remember when "average" looking people were on it. Now they're filling it up with all the hotties in the hopes that a lot of sex will ensue. Same thing with Fear Factor - I see quite a few fake boobs on that show. And isn't there a reality show (the Bachelorette?) where she is having to choose between the "hunks" and the "geeks"?
I know I just cited a few reality shows but, in reality, I don't watch reality shows because they obviously aren't real.
a woman just has to laugh at a man's lame jokes to get attention.
and a chic doesn't have to be a , just dressing like one works too.
What is the question?
Such as..
Unless there is something particularly unusual about them or what they are wearing, I could rarely pick anyone out of a lineup....gorgeous, ugly or average. I had to become that way for my own sanity.
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