Piers Anthony... Books of Immortality. 1st Book- On a Pale Horse- Angel of Death, his name is Thantos...
true, but i still like OSC's
Piers Anthony... Books of Immortality. 1st Book- On a Pale Horse- Angel of Death, his name is Thantos...
yeah it's hot! I hope she gives it to me when she's done with it.
Kori, DAYUM you BOOBS look aesome in that BRAVATAR.....g
Ok, I just received a PM from someone commenting on the size of my breasts in a really . . . nasty . . . way. It really came across as skeezy. I did this in fun and enjoyed it. I admit that. I felt like it was in fun and for a good cause (the breast cancer donations). But now I feel gross and . . . I don't know what the word is. Not violated, because I put them out there, but something akin to that.
I haven't decided whether or not to take down the avatar at this point. I just really don't like the feeling I've gotten from this message. It was unnecessary and made me feel really badly (which I have also expressed to that person).
I guess I'm just saying that I don't care if a few people are ogling my boobs in a push up bra a cup size too small (if you meet me in person, you'll be disappointed), since I felt like the spirit of this was good fun, but if people are taking this too far and being too lascivious about my breasts, then they are coming down. The only person who gets that priviledge is my husband. I put myself out there for fun, not as a piece of pornography. If that was happening on the side, I didn't care, but being brought to my attention makes me feel dirty and ashamed, and that is not the point of this.
What an asshole. If anyone took the time to read this thread they could easily get the whole point of our women & bravatars effort.
why he would feel the need to send you a lewd & lascivious PM is beyond me. JERK.
Easjer I'd hate to think that all the good feeling & mojo you got about yourself from this effort would be disrupted by one son of a goat. BUt it is totally up to you if you want to remove the bravatr. Perhaps just put it up for games? Or reinstate the "purple boobs of death" ()??
I for one would miss your lovely bubbling SFIE's only boobages very much.
((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
oh, and if ever there was thing to complain to Kori about , this may be it.
easjer...send the PM to Kori, block that idiot from your PM list and otherwise don't worry about it.
Kori can deal with the offender.
Don't you dare feel badly.
I'd say I can't believe that someone could be such a complete jerk off ... but unfortunately there's been a couple on this site that showed me it is quite possible. I will never understand people like that.
Mother er's gonna pay!
If you feel uncomfortable at all, take down the avatar.
If there's a chance that it's a misunderstanding (thought it being a PM and not a post is su ious) I would give him one chance to apologize. Otherwise forward to Kori and LJ. We'd all love to know who it was, but that's probably not the smart thing at this time.
You are a better person than me, easjer. If I got a PM like that, I would have published it for the whole world to see what a jackass he is. But that's just me
Thanks for the support.
You are a better person than me, easjer. If I got a PM like that, I would have published it for the whole world to see what a jackass he is. But that's just me
It's not just you ... I would, too.
I agree. A lot of people are obviously uninformed as to why our avatars are what they are ... just from some of the comments I've seen ... and are presumptuous in assuming that it's some kind of contest or attempt to turn *them* on. As if.
The beautiful thing is, you have a husband that loves you ... friends that adore you ... and if this person has that much free time as to send a total stranger a PM just to be an ass, it's quite obvious he has no one around him with which he as better things to do. And I hope he rots in .
Whoa. Wait a minute. What are you saying?A lot of people ... are presumptuous in assuming that it's some kind of contest or attempt to turn *them* on. As if.
It's all about the mojo, SB. :p
must...resist...urge...to...go...there...
Thank you Sweetie.
As for easjer... I got PM's from 8 different guys and even 2 girls from the forum when I put up my bravatar except none of them sounded as nasty as the one you received.
If you feel so offended by the PM that guy sent you all you had to do was confront him and tell him how you didn't appreciate what he did. Now, if after you confronted him and he still continued being an ass then let Kori & LJ handle it. I just think that we ladies should all understand that even though we are doing this for a good cause...the men don't think the same. Men will be men even though that doesn't give the right for them to disrespect any of us ladies in any way.
As for me, I also feel a little weird about having my avatar up all the time so I decided to only put it up when the Spurs play and that means It will be up a little after 5:30pm tonight.
*sets alarm*As for me, I also feel a little weird about having my avatar up all the time so I decided to only put it up when the Spurs play and that means It will be up a little after 5:30pm tonight.
You silly Bear
It's a shame that a vile PM can ruin what is meant to be fun. Try not to let it bother you TOO much, but if it does, by all means take the avatar down.
Well I have forwarded the message to Kori. It's not actually the words themselves - honestly, if they had been posted here, I probably would have laughed. I knew when putting the pics up that they would be viewed by a lot of people. I think what really bothers me is the way the words were delivered. I think SpursWoman hit on it in the term presumptuous. It was really presumptuous and really unnecessary. The words weren't terrible, but the intentions were, and the result is that I feel really uncomfortable and feel like I have to justify myself, and that makes me really angry. A lot of guys (and girls) have commented on my avatar, and have said similar things, but the context was completely different. I really didn't like this context or the way it made me feel.
Which is why I posted about it - because I don't know whether the guy in question intended to make me uncomfortable or cross a line. I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt. But the whole thing really makes me feel creeped out/uncomfortable. So I hope that anyone else who reads this *thinks* about what they are posting and whether or not it's really appropriate or could be going too far. The women who are participating in this have put themselves out there. I'm not ignorant to the fact that the pic of my boobs would be looked at and leered at by people I've never met - I accepted that when I posted the pic. So maybe I'm being too sensitive and I just need to take down the pic.
Anyway, I forwarded the message to Kori, so she could decide whether or not it was appropriate or if I was being overly sensitive.
I'm leaving now, because I'm not feeling well, and I've gotten the stuff done that I need to, but not because I'm upset or angry and never coming back.
hey i missed youYou silly Bear
easjer...if i were you i give the guy a big e-slap in the face
Hi T-Painhey i missed you
easjer...if i were you i give the guy a big e-slap in the face
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