Well I have forwarded the message to Kori. It's not actually the words themselves - honestly, if they had been posted here, I probably would have laughed. I knew when putting the pics up that they would be viewed by a lot of people. I think what really bothers me is the way the words were delivered. I think SpursWoman hit on it in the term presumptuous. It was really presumptuous and really unnecessary. The words weren't terrible, but the intentions were, and the result is that I feel really uncomfortable and feel like I have to justify myself, and that makes me really angry. A lot of guys (and girls) have commented on my avatar, and have said similar things, but the context was completely different. I really didn't like this context or the way it made me feel.
Which is why I posted about it - because I don't know whether the guy in question intended to make me uncomfortable or cross a line. I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt. But the whole thing really makes me feel creeped out/uncomfortable. So I hope that anyone else who reads this *thinks* about what they are posting and whether or not it's really appropriate or could be going too far. The women who are participating in this have put themselves out there. I'm not ignorant to the fact that the pic of my boobs would be looked at and leered at by people I've never met - I accepted that when I posted the pic. So maybe I'm being too sensitive and I just need to take down the pic.
Anyway, I forwarded the message to Kori, so she could decide whether or not it was appropriate or if I was being overly sensitive.
I'm leaving now, because I'm not feeling well, and I've gotten the stuff done that I need to, but not because I'm upset or angry and never coming back.
