All it takes is one man to be a complete jackass to a grown woman to make her feel like crap about herself and do stupid things. You don't think it can do the same thing to a little girl?
It's not that complicated of an issue.
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Low self esteem for one? Just because someone is ugly doesn't mean they have to have a low self esteem.
All it takes is one man to be a complete jackass to a grown woman to make her feel like crap about herself and do stupid things. You don't think it can do the same thing to a little girl?
It's not that complicated of an issue.
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I don't know man, I just wanted to see what you think.
All I know is that EVERY girl I knew when I was in high school had issues regarding anything and everything.
From checking their make up every 5 minutes to crying for basically no reason.
That and every girl would take things to the extreme.
One of my friends was dating a sop re when he was a senior and she wouldnt give it up so he dumped her. So, in order to prove him wrong and get back at him she ed 3 dudes at a party a week later.
Girls take to the extreme.
Indeed... in my single days there was more than one instance where I was interested in a girl wherein I found her a lot more attractive than she did herself.
This usually was the result of the influence of another female in her life.
Girls problems are that they want to be desired by EVERYONE.
If a girl calls me ugly, ok cool. Next.
If a girl gets called ugly she contemplates killing her self.
How was it the result of the influence of another female?
wow, she really showed him, didn't she.![]()
I'm sure it can. But thats where teaching kids that they aren't going to be liked by everyone and that there are assholes out there is important.
All I know, is that if I cried everytime a girl didn't like me because of my looks, we'd all be living in Waterworld right now.
All I know, is that if I cried everytime a girl didn't like me because of my looks, we'd all be living in Waterworld right now.Thanks Manny, you actually made me laugh out loud.
I stand by my earlier statment that its not guys that are ugly that have problems, its the guys with no game.
I disagree that's it's some axiom that there can be this strong, confident, self-assured woman, who gets involved briefly with a complete jackass, and has her self-confidence completely destroyed.
Now if one is the kind of woman who identifies herself completely with the relationship in which she finds herself, then I can see how the whole house of cards can come crashing down rather easily.
I also disagree that the jackass must necessarily be male. I've seen women rip one another apart.
Yeah, women go crazy if some asshole says something about her appearance... But I wish they could just chalk it up to the guy being an asshole and not stress about it so much. At that point, why does she care what he thinks? My theory is that many women spend so much of their time ON their appearance that any insult to their appearance is taken much more seriously.
I had a friend who approached a woman at a bar and the first thing she said was "What kind of car do you drive?" His reaction was basically, "Whatever ," and he moved on. Women should react the same way.
I agree, it's one of those things that God put in the to make a balance in the world.
True statement. It's all about how you project yourself. If you act confident around women, you are confident with women.
all a scorned chic has to do is call the 'asshole' guy a "little muther er" and the mind will be mutual.
1) A girl thought she was "friends" with another girl, who was popular because she had money. Her "friend" always told her how unattractive she was.
2) A girl always was criticized about her appearance by her mother growing up.
....let's not also forget seeing a woman firsthand fighting herself because she likes having sex but she was brought up to believe that sex was dirty.
Oddest thing ever. Pretty scary too.
I'm not very comfortable with my 9 year old daughter using that kind of language.
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touche SW, but it would be riot to see.![]()
NEW TWIST TO THE DISCUSSION
I may be wrong but you certainly don't hear women doing this nearly as much as men do:
Why do a lot of men dump their wives that they've been married to for years for some trophy wife?
Hmmmm?
And I sure as don't want her to have personal knowledge of that fact....![]()
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I have a supermodel gf.![]()
Because men decide that if they are going to be henpecked their pecker might as well be hitting something nicer.
Evolutionary psychology.
If I were king, such men would be blinded.
While I've heard instances where this conduct is understandable, it is NEVER excusable.
That's got nothing to do with it and you know it.
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