Wonder why the divorce rate is over 50%?If the husband doesn't like it, he can hit the road.
Yep, I can agree with that. She should want to lose weight just to stay healthy or fit or whatever...not because her husband is threatening to leave her if she doesn't lose it and certainly not because society tries to sell her the idea that being thin=being happy and beautiful.
Women shouldn't settle for a guy who treats her like crap or who thinks she's inferior to other women more fit than her. I don't see anything wrong with divorcing those kinds of people.
If you would still love her if she was fat.......why would you want to change her and maker her lose weight?
because if i got with her when she was fine then she better stay fine or ill dump her ass for the next fine woman that looks like her....i have a rep to uphold.....lol j/k
You know what's ironic. I just read a stat somewhere the other day that said that divorce rates in America are somewhere over 50%, yet in countries such as India...where many get arranged marriages...they have a divorce rate of something like 1%.
I say ur rep needs changing.
Hope you feel the same way when you get old and fat and your girl leaves your ass.
Well, if it's already gotten to that point then it's pretty much over with, anyway. She better have some other redeeming qualities other than being beautiful (although the more beautiful she is/was, the less likely that she does)....not because her husband is threatening to leave her if she doesn't lose it
Women are more suppressed there.
She shouldn't marry someone like that in the first place.
How would she know how he feels about fat women if he meets her thin?She shouldn't marry someone like that in the first place.
Suppressed? What about the Indians who live in America?! That stat includes them also....
Same culture.
Maybe she shouldn't increase in size 150% and that won't be an issue.
Same goes for guys, sweetheart. You think they're immune to getting old, fat, and sloppy?
Now I'm curious SW........is this view you have a double standard? Same goes for the guy? Like if you get married to some chick and you end up gaining like 50 pounds when you hit 40 or 50 and she stops loving you because of that?
Great minds think alike Top-Cherry!
Exacto.
I'd like to see him think it's not her lady's fault she leaves him if he gets big.
What you call old, fat, and sloppy society calls "distinguished". Guys are allowed that since they have to work for a living and support the wives.
Woot!
Distinguished? You're kidding me.
Something tells me we're gonna get into a "housewife vs. job" argument...
Nope. Same thing, although most women I know don't care as much as guys do about their partner's size.
We're not talking about gaining 10 lbs here. We're talking about women gaining 40+ pounds when married.
Said with tongue firmly planted in cheek.
My wife is a housewife/stay at home mom/etc, trust me, her job is much tougher then mine.
I don't know. I've never been fat, so I wouldn't know what the motives are or how or why they get fat. And I could understand husbands not wanting to have a fat spouse...
I just think it shouldn't be reason for ridicule to the point where the wife's self esteem drops so much, everything she does is uncomfortable for her.
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