When you buy Victoria Secret buy what you think your lady might want not what you think turns you on and you think is hot. I personally don't get it as if I get all hot she benefits from what turns me on but It doesn't work that way. it's how she feels wearing what you bought. If you bought thongs and she hates them, she gets turned off and you don't get the reaction you were looking for. Lingerie for Christmas is a minefield. Sometimes you win and sometimes you loose.