so i've been hanging with these 4 girls...

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[Dr. Gonzo]

I bet the kids call grandma "mom".

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[ploto]

They are not good parents if on "any random night will turn into some bad ass night filled with laughing, excitement, fun, and uh shennanigans...like last night, we didn't get home till 4 am." Where are their kids at 4:00 AM? They are probably being raised by grandma. You also say these women are younger than you- just how young are these moms?

[BacktoBasics]

They are not good parents if on "any random night will turn into some bad ass night filled with laughing, excitement, fun, and uh shenanigans...like last night, we didn't get home till 4 am." Where are their kids at 4:00 AM? They are probably being raised by grandma. You also say these women are younger than you- just how young are these moms?

Obviously young enough to not understand the responsibilities of good parenting.

[tonylongoriafan]

They are not good parents if on "any random night will turn into some bad ass night filled with laughing, excitement, fun, and uh shennanigans...like last night, we didn't get home till 4 am." Where are their kids at 4:00 AM? They are probably being raised by grandma. You also say these women are younger than you- just how young are these moms?

there are 4 kids. 2 of them were with their dad's. obviously being divorced/separted is not the optimal environment for raising children. but they share custody so it's something they have to deal with. the other 2 women have a third room mate who stayed home last night.

the youngest one is 25.

[SpursStalker]

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there are 4 kids. 2 of them were with their dad's. obviously being divorced/separted is not the optimal environment for raising children. but they share custody so it's something they have to deal with. the other 2 women have a third room mate who stayed home last night.

the youngest one is 25.

Maybe they wouldn't be divorced if they stayed home and stopped partying like teenagers. Sounds like a rubber would have been a good idea too.

[tonylongoriafan]

Maybe they wouldn't be divorced if they stayed home and stopped partying like teenagers. Sounds like a rubber would have been a good idea too.

i don't know all the specifics of their past relationship. not being a life coach, i try not to pass judgement on others til i've walked in there shoes, or at least hit it.

[BacktoBasics]

i don't know all the specifics of their past relationship. not being a life coach, i try not to pass judgement on others til i've walked in there shoes, or at least hit it.

Part of being the successful life coach that I am is passing accurate judgment without even meeting these s face to face.

[jman3000]

They are all fatties. Book it.

[Dr. Gonzo]

there are 4 kids. 2 of them were with their dad's. obviously being divorced/separted is not the optimal environment for raising children. but they share custody so it's something they have to deal with. the other 2 women have a third room mate who stayed home last night.

the youngest one is 25.

So basically they go out and spend the child support money that supposed to be going toward their kids.

[Dr. Gonzo]

They are all fatties. Book it.

Without a doubt.

[tonylongoriafan]

They are all fatties. Book it.

no way...i'm batting above average here...that's why i'm doing my best to keep up

[J.T.]

Sounds like my mother, only she didn't try to feel 18 again until I was in high school, had a car and was getting just as wasted on the other side of town with my fake ID.

[Dex]

I bet this thread didn't turn out like the OP was expecting.

[tonylongoriafan]

Sounds like my mother, only she didn't try to feel 18 again until I was in high school, had a car and was getting just as wasted on the other side of town with my fake ID.

too easy, nevermind

[Troll]

I bet this thread didn't turn out like the OP was expecting.

That depends.......

[FromWayDowntown]

I can't think of a single way in which any of the OP's statements in this thread about his new friends would led me to think they were anything other than parents who wished they weren't parents. I can't imagine anything that would lead me to devote anything less than all of my energy and attention to my children; and I'd feel like I wasn't doing right by them if I was constantly going out on the town, no matter what conduct I might be engaged in.

Frankly, though, given that we're supposed to be discussing how anyone can keep up through weeks of some sort of "shenanigans," I'm not really buying the idea that what's going down late at night with these absentee moms is just milk and cookies sort of stuff.

Just me.

[tonylongoriafan]

Frankly, though, given that we're supposed to be discussing how anyone can keep up through weeks of some sort of "shenanigans," I'm not really buying the idea that what's going down late at night with these absentee moms is just milk and cookies sort of stuff.

Just me.

so how to keep up?

[FromWayDowntown]

so how to keep up?

Tell them to stay home with their kids.

[CuckingFunt]

so how to keep up?

Find out their upper(s) of choice and join in.

Or, tell them you need to get some sleep.

[johnsmith.]

This topic needs RuffNreadyOzStyle he went to school for four years to study the behavior of Young adults?

[Dr. Gonzo]

They just sound like typical mexican trash. They have kids at a young age, give them to grandma to take care of while they go out drinking and doing blow all on the "baby daddy's" dime.