His comments aren't that off base. I too went through similar crap. Paying on a house I can't step foot in... tons in support... all while the ex didn't have to work and just sucked me dry for every penny. It's enough to drive a person crazy. Noone condones what OJ did, but, being in similar cir stances, it's easy to understand why he did it. Putting someone that isn't stable in that situation leads to bad things. Fortunately I just dealt with it and now get my house back. It wall works out in the end.