I'm looking at your ing picture.
It shows Ron's elbow clearly at Kobe's neck and you can't see Kobe's arm at all.
NOBODY can come up with a picture of Kobe's elbow at Ron's neck but we all assume he did because Ron told us he did. But we can all see Ron's elbow at Kobe's neck and it's no big deal.
If anything, that looks like Ron elbowing Kobe in the neck, not the other way around. That's another Ron foul in your picture.
How is Kobe doing ANYTHING wrong in your video frame?
Obviously you can see the elbow in Ron's chest here:
