Seriously, I had no idea.

[ChumpDumper]

Seriously, you still have no idea.

[Yonivore]

I think the general usage implies consent.

It's akin to what you see in movies, where the two leads get angry, slap each other, and then it turns to passion and they have sex. Except in the case of movies, usually they like each other.

Hate ing usually involves two people who do not like each other except on a physical level.

War of the Roses? Mr. and Mrs. Smith? Carville and Madelin? That kind of thing?

Wouldn't that imply the writer who wants to hate someone had an existing relationship with the ed?

I guess, I'm having trouble envisioning any of the ten women listed wanting to go to bed with the writer.