Oh, what a bad bad day....

[The Franchise]

Stay strong Paki, things can only get better now.

[Darrin]

Darrin, what an awesome song! Thank you... and thank all of you!! I know I say it so much, it may seem insincere, but you all are absolutely the best people on the planet! Even you JoeChalupa!

Thank Rascal Flatts. It keeps me up when life takes a bite out of my leg. If it means anything this athiest will be praying for you tonight. People say money can't buy happiness but it sure as can buy security. All these nice people have already said it better than me--stay strong, stay positive, and know this too shall pass. We can only be with you in strokes of a keyboard, but I hope the well wishes touch your heart. Keep the faith.

[to21]

Paki, you sure she's not the one with heart issues? That seems kind of heartless to me.

Hang in there man...

[Spursmania]

I need an attorney!!! Does anybody have any suggestions... remember - I haven't gotten paid yet, so I'm SHORT on cash.

Are you looking for a family law attorney. I haven't read the whole thread. If so, I can pm you 2 names.

[Spursmania]

No problem, Pakidan. Glad I could help. Good luck and hang in there.

[Cry Havoc]

Sorry to hear that happened. I had a similar situation, although not to the degree it seems you are experiencing.

Hang in there. You've got a community here that cares about you.

I think this song is pretty applicable too. Plus it's good for getting your fire back.

[JoeChalupa]

Darrin, what an awesome song! Thank you... and thank all of you!! I know I say it so much, it may seem insincere, but you all are absolutely the best people on the planet! Even you JoeChalupa!

Keep pushin'....keep pushin' on!!

[Viva Las Espuelas]

i feel for you, paki. this may help you better. play it loud. play it proud


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_SOLEXTWwAY

[Oh, Gee!!]

I don't want to go into too much detail, but today my ex succeeded in taking EVERYTHING I had left.

es ain't but ho's and tricks

[ShoogarBear]

Damn, Paki, sorry.

Think of the bright side, though. Now that you don't have any money, that leaves 2Blonde all to me!




Umm, wait, I guess that's not the bright side for you . . .

[I. Hustle]

That sucks dude. That is why I am glad that I didn't have any kids with my ass skank of a lesbo ex wife. With just us two I had to sell my house (that I bought) and half of the stuff that I worked for. That freakin skank.

[Strike]

That sucks dude. That is why I am glad that I didn't have any kids with my ass skank of a lesbo ex wife. With just us two I had to sell my house (that I bought) and half of the stuff that I worked for. That freakin skank.

+1

Fortunately (and unfortunately, I think), my wife and I had virtually nothing when I kicked her out so there's very little to split. No assets to divide, no house to sell.

Paki, you're better off without the broad. Get your life back on track and spend your time with a woman (or women) who dig you for you and won't try to dip into your kool-aid.

[Summers]

Sorry Paki. Hope everything works out okay.

[PaulGreco]

Been there done that bro...My ex-hoooooooo cheated on me while I was at work. But now man, I'm married to a chic that's hotter then she was...But she got F'in everything bro.

The best thing that ever happened to me though. F'her, move on, and trust me...look for a hotter chic then her and rub it in...Oh ya, it realllllllyyyy helps if she's skinner!!!

Just a tip from your uncle Paul.

--PG

[PakiDan]

Damn, Paki, sorry.

Think of the bright side, though. Now that you don't have any money, that leaves 2Blonde all to me!




Umm, wait, I guess that's not the bright side for you . . .

Ohhh... 2Blonde didn't care about my money.

[ShoogarBear]

Ohhh... 2Blonde didn't care about my money.

Yeah, but didn't you say your ex took everything?

[ploto]

"If you lose your job, make less money than you used to, or become physically disabled and unable to earn an income, you should notify the court immediately. However, simply telling the court clerk or the Child Support Division of the Office of the Attorney General is not enough to reduce the amount of child support you owe. You must obtain an order from the judge or child support master. Consider obtaining a lawyer, if you can afford one, to handle the attempt to change the amount of child support owed. Many non-custodial parents believe that if they get behind at a time when they are legitimately unable to make a child support payment, that the amount owed can later be reduced or discounted by the court when an explanation is given. However, if you wait to explain your changed cir stances, the court will be unable to reduce the back payments you owe. It is very important that you immediately notify the court, provide proof of the reduction in income, and ask that the payments be reduced accordingly. If you do this, the court may temporarily or permanently reduce the amount of future payments."

http://www.lanwt.org/txaccess/change_childsupport.asp

Sorry. It looks like you can not do much if anything about the back amounts owed, but you need to get the monthly amount changed ASAP. Good luck.