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are you foreshadowing?
eh. you shouldn't feel bad. you provided her with food and shelter for her and her family. she's ungrateful and obviously has no respect for you. i don't know all the facts, but she acted stupidly....this coming from a wise latino. toss her culo out!!!!!
are you foreshadowing?
Yeah
Sorry that happened to you.
Your answers help me because I don't want to be an asshole to someone who's worked for us for 6 years, but I am sure she did it. I do not feel she deserves the extra money, especially since the jewelery is worth so much more than the vacation week.
she axed me!
Don't give her . Confront her. Its your home and you can go through her stuff as you wish. She doesn't pay rent and doesn't have a lease with you so there are no legal privacy issues with what you did. Plus you had probable cause. Deal with her face to face like a man and give her a chance to come clean.
Next time pay your help enough so they don't steal. Stingy richer.
Stupidly.
You feel like because you busted a woman who has been stealing from your kids? And most likely, you? After you gave her a job and a roof over her head?
lol, that's the first thing I thought too/richer problems forum
If you pay her to go on vacation you're just as stupid, sorry!
Fire her ass and be done with it ...
why not pay for two weeks vacation!
Believe me she does get paid well. There are no issues there. She has her own room, plasma, A/c, kitchen, bathroom and it is on top of the garage and is seperate from the house. I work from home, and she helps keep the house and office clean. She buys whatever groceries she wants about (80.00 bucks a week).
She did ask me for a raise very recently. But, that's when my little girls told me they had seen some of their stuff in her room. So, that's when I checked her room.
I already have a few people lined up that I'm going to try. I just don't know if i can trust anyone after this. And, I need the help since both my spouse and I work.
Last edited by Spursmania; 07-30-2009 at 03:44 PM.
Just going through other people's personal items feels strange to me.You feel like because you busted a woman who has been stealing from your kids? And most likely, you? After you gave her a job and a roof over her head?
She obviously didn't feel the same way.Just going through other people's personal items feels strange to me.
Show no mercy.
tell her she's fired without that extra money you normally give her. if she complains about not getting it then tell her to pawn all the stuff she stole from you. case closed. that way if she did steal it, hopefully she has a conscience, she'll feel bad while pawning and spending it.
remember to sweep the leg when you fire her!
I didn't plan on paying her any vacation week. But today, I was speaking to a close friend of mine who asked me if she had done a good job, and I said "yeah, but she stole from me, although I can't prove it."
And, he sad, " just pay her." So that's when I decided to make this thread. I couldn't believe he thought that. Thanks for confirming what I think is the right thing to do.
That would be good...
Are you in San Antonio?
I like that. Thank you. If she complains, I will tell her that she's earned more than enough from pawning our belongings.
F YOU! I was looking for a good pic. Damnit!
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