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    Good call. In my personal experience...

    If she'll do something once (i.e. making out with Ian), she'll do it twice. And if she banged two guys out of "lust" and told you that she always wanted to kiss Ian, you can guess that the Ian episode might have gone a little further than she told you. I might be wrong, but that's my personal experience.

    Learning about a woman's personal/sexual life before you came into it will frustrate you to no end, especially if there's some unsavory element that you don't approve of.

    I'd cut ties and find some girl that respects you more. If you decide to forgive her, remember that you are always going to have to keep an eye peeled for her extra-curricular activities. Hope some of this helps, and best of luck to you.
    Thanks I appreciate your advice.

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    Learning about a woman's personal/sexual life before you came into it will frustrate you to no end, especially if there's some unsavory element that you don't approve of.
    I'd just change woman in that to person, because learning about your SO's previous actions has nothing but bad idea written all over it.

    Seriously, everyone wants to envision their wife as pure in that white dress on their wedding day. But where exactly do you think she learned that trick with her tounge that she does while going down on you?

    no matter what she says, that isn't an instinct.

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    dude its the fact she LIED not that number of guys.
    geez..
    the big cat is with you.

    drop her quick.

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    Then off. I'm 20. Mature and am having a problem. Its life.
    I'm not much older than you, it was a joke.

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    I asked her why, and she said, "apart of me always wanted to kiss him."
    Sorry bro, but it's over. And she didn't just make out with him. Sorry to tell you the bad news.

    Move on and stay strong.

    M.O.B.

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    I'd just change woman in that to person, because learning about your SO's previous actions has nothing but bad idea written all over it.

    Seriously, everyone wants to envision their wife as pure in that white dress on their wedding day. But where exactly do you think she learned that trick with her tounge that she does while going down on you?

    no matter what she says, that isn't an instinct.
    blood don't lie


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    Well brutalis it's easier said then done, but what do you expect to gain out of this relationship? Would you able to trust her again? Would she be able to gain it again? I dont know how long you were with this girl, or how serious this relationship was, but if she disregarded all that you had for a measly kiss, then is she really worth it?

    It's ultimately your decision, whether you decide to stay with her or leave its gona sting for a while. I dont know the ins and outs of your relationship but trust your gutt on this one.
    We were deep enough that this has completely ruined us and our future for the time being.

    As for your other ?'s I dont know. Her mother was a and kicked her out of the house so her boyfriend could move in a few months ago. I dunno if Amber, my cheating gf is taking life hard and not thinking about whats important anymore, or if shes really this stupid.

    Who knows.

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    Exactly timvp hit the nail right on the head.

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    dude its the fact she LIED not that number of guys.
    geez..
    Did you ask her how many guys she had been with? Did you imply you wanted to know?

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    exactly.



    if she says, hey, i'm a virgin.


    then you think you've hit the jackpot.

    this is a pristine angel.

    i will be the only man to ever hit this.

    then, "well, i've actually screwed a couple guys before outa lust and i made out with one outa lust last night, but i'm very very sowwy"

    angel to lying , just like that.

    and if your getting physical with her, than that tells you right there,

    hit it and split bro. plenty of respectable hotties out there. try church.

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    Sorry bro, but it's over. And she didn't just make out with him. Sorry to tell you the bad news.

    Move on and stay strong.

    M.O.B.
    She didnt. I sort of wish she did though, it'd make this easier to leave.

    Her best friend sort of talks to me behind her back alot, and tells me the details Amber leaves out and insists she didnt do anything more than that. She said Amber was regretting it and crying, and had to take her home.

    eh.

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    We were deep enough that this has completely ruined us and our future for the time being.

    As for your other ?'s I dont know. Her mother was a and kicked her out of the house so her boyfriend could move in a few months ago. I dunno if Amber, my cheating gf is taking life hard and not thinking about whats important anymore, or if shes really this stupid.

    Who knows.
    Sweety you said it yourself it has ruined your future for the time being. Is there anything she can do in your book to repair it...honestly she said she always wanted to kiss the dude...she carried out what she always wanted to do. The longer you stay in this relationship the more hurt its gona cause. It dosnt matter if she calls herself names and feels bad about it now.

    if i got caught cheating on a test lets say id feel bad about being caught to. Get out of this as soon as you can, move on.

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    hit it and split bro. plenty of respectable hotties out there. try church.

    gotta disagree big man

    church ranks somewhere between a funeral and a family reunion when it comes to finding a quality ladyfriend

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    Did you ask her how many guys she had been with? Did you imply you wanted to know?
    When we were dating. I implied I was just curious cause had just asked me.

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    See, your relationship with this girl is all kinds of ed up already. You talk to her best friend to get dirt on her? I can tell just how much you trusted her. Yeah, she screwed you over by kissing the other guy, but there's a lot of mistrust already.

    What else are you leaving out?

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    Sweety you said it yourself it has ruined your future for the time being. Is there anything she can do in your book to repair it...honestly she said she always wanted to kiss the dude...she carried out what she always wanted to do. The longer you stay in this relationship the more hurt its gona cause. It dosnt matter if she calls herself names and feels bad about it now.

    if i got caught cheating on a test lets say id feel bad about being caught to. Get out of this as soon as you can, move on.
    I am, I just need to figure out how to do it.

    The part that hurts is, she graduated early for me, and has nothing in her life going for her. Her family is crackheads that ditched her... she has very few friends. Her luck is so bad I honestly feel like she felt so lost and confused and did it out of feeling lonely. .... but it doesnt make it right. I just worry about whats going to happen to her. I kept that girl together for so long.

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    When we were dating. I implied I was just curious cause had just asked me.
    Then you put her on the spot with something she probably didn't want to tell you.

    Everyone is probably right here. No offene, but from what little information is here and from what I'm infering, this wasn't exactly going to be an award winning relationship and your best bet is probably to move on to the next future ex.

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    So your girlfriend couldnt have asked her to lie?

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    See, your relationship with this girl is all kinds of ed up already. You talk to her best friend to get dirt on her? I can tell just how much you trusted her. Yeah, she screwed you over by kissing the other guy, but there's a lot of mistrust already.

    What else are you leaving out?
    No dude, she talked to me after the party. Never before about our relationship. All she wanted to do was tell me all it was, was making out.

    Thats it ...

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    So your girlfriend couldnt have asked her to lie?
    Eh, I really doubt it. But of course im not 100% sure she didnt.

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    is her friend hot? or just the ugly chic that likes to talk to her girls boyfriends...

    you play this right...and you could be in shangrila...your only 20...plenty of years to settle down and find the RIGHT one anyway....

    may be time to start wearing a rubber though dude...

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    Then you put her on the spot with something she probably didn't want to tell you.

    Everyone is probably right here. No offene, but from what little information is here and from what I'm infering, this wasn't exactly going to be an award winning relationship and your best bet is probably to move on to the next future ex.
    You are really ing odd. The end.

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    Brutalis,

    You can take this and tell me to off, or appreciate the insights of someone who's been there. At 20, you don't need a girlfriend. You need to be bending over every co-ed you can get your hands on, becuase the older you get, the more difficult casual sex is to obtain.

    Right now, you can go to house parties, Padre, etc and find women just looking to hook up. In a few years, you'll be buying expensive dinners and stupendous bar tabs trying to get laid. And they won't look as good then as they do now. Live it up while you can, and worry about finding that special someone when you're ready to settle down.

    Of course, if you're looking to settle down now, best of luck putting this past you.

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    I am, I just need to figure out how to do it.

    The part that hurts is, she graduated early for me, and has nothing in her life going for her. Her family is crackheads that ditched her... she has very few friends. Her luck is so bad I honestly feel like she felt so lost and confused and did it out of feeling lonely. .... but it doesnt make it right. I just worry about whats going to happen to her. I kept that girl together for so long.
    So because she's had a ty life its ok for her to screw you over. She graduated early thats what she has going for herself, allow her to educate herself, that is in no way your obligation to make life better for her, she needs to do that for herself. Feeling sorry for her dosnt help either it encourages her to feel like a victim and be vulnerable. So because you were there for her all the time this is how she repays you?

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