Or read John 3:16, only one of the most famous bible verses. You have to believe to be saved. Hey, I know this. I choose not to believe, and I'm a damn good person. And if judgment day comes and I get cast into , then so be it. It was my choice.
But then again, I don't believe in being good to get rewarded (don't even believe in an after life really), I believe in being good for the sake of being good. I also believe that if God does exists, and his spirit is one of being a benevolent god, then he'd reward those who were good. But again, that's not what we're discussing and an issue for a separate discussion altogether (I believe in the chance of God existing, but I also believe that the scriptures were not his word or the word of Jesus. I believe in the spirit of the teachings, be a good person to yourself and others, is what would earn you salvation if God existed, and not the literal translation of the bible).
Again, the paradox is not that God lets you choose what kind of person you want to be and what type of life you lead, but rather, some people believe in predetermination, that God already decides what your life is and where you're going no matter what you do. God has a plan. that.
If God was omni-benevolent and determined that I was destined to have a ed up life, then that is ed up and a paradox.