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Shoulda just went home and whacked it.
you should have tried to kiss her the day you first met, that usually ends up with much better results than becoming friends in my experience
Shoulda just went home and whacked it.
Good idea man
you seem like a guy that doesnt know what the is going on so let me give you a little advice peoples actions usually dictate what they think and this girl telling you to not talk to her so much means for whatever reason she doesnt want to see you so you have to learn to deal with it or cry on your pillow for a couple weeks either one
Let's review:
You want to bang this girl
AND
You love her like a sister.
Actually I never said I wanted to "bang her." And, you obviosuly dont understand what I meant when I said I loved her like a sister. Its a figure of speech. But nevermind, you probably wont understand.
Well, you sure did imply it.
Why don't you clear the air. Do you want to bang her?
Yes or No only!
you should've told her when you were drunk bc then you coud've acted like you never said it!
i have a unrequited love
shes better than me in everyway but still likes me, imagine that
clan tell us the story of when the illuminati rejected you for being to conservative
Sorry that happened to you. AS for the friendship, if it's as strong as you say, you guys will probably be as good friends again in due time. I know it's difficult right now. But if you want to make the friendship work, giving each other space for jsut a litle while may be a good idea. However, make sure that it's not too long a time, because sometimes people grow apart.
you should only hit on girls in a loud club, you go up to them and say "would you like to dance?" and if she says no just look confused and reply "I said you look fat in those pants!" ah-cha-cha-cha!!!
i'll tell you if you tell us about the time you told you parents you were coming out of the closet...
Nothing like some strange Sacramento pussy to get over a San Antonio heartbreak...
And just exactly what passes for pussy in Suckramento these days?
i was in chico and sacramento last summer.. nothing, but pure white skanks... oh it was a great time! haha
well, props for finally having the balls to come out and tell her man.
don't always go down like we want.
nothing i can tell you that others haven't said already.
be strong. be a man. move on. fate will take it's course, one way or another.
Sorry to hear that. Trust me, we have all been there before. If she wants space then it is important to give her that or else she will run quickly in the other direction. I think space is a good idea for both of you even though it doesn't seem like it at the moment. You are so hung up on this girl waiting for any little crumb from her there is no way you will ever move on unless forced to. Star finding ways to avoid her and pretty soon it will become easier. There are tons of girls out there, go out and meet someone.
My husband likes to say, "Friends?? Let's just be enemies!"
But seriously, like everyone has said, we all have been there and know how much it hurts. Honestly, though, some day you'll be really glad you talked to her. If you hadn't, someday you'd be thinking, Man why didn't I tell her I liked her just to see what happened? This way, you know you gave it a shot and it didn't work, but at least you tried.
Confused, you're better off buddy. Keeping that inside is far worse than coming out and spilling the beans.
ditto...
Sorry it didn't work out, man. The best of luck to you in the future.
I hate that ! "I Just want to remain friends" " I want some one like you but not you"
You should of said, " want me to bang you or not"?
Sometimes chicks reject you because they don't see you fit enough to court them. They could love your personality which is a significant other's most important trait, but other small or should I say big issues come into effect when she chosses a mate. Your financial situation, Career, Looks, (what if she wants to have good looking babies?) etc. How old are ya'll anyway? Cause if ya'll are young you probably scared the out of her when you confessed your mad love to her cause maybe she wasn't ready mentally wise to get into a serious relationship. You should of skipped the love stuff or should of put it on hold for a while and focused on getting inside her pants instead. You know you wanna try it out before you buy it......
Last edited by Ginobilly; 07-13-2005 at 12:04 PM.
Try dropping trou in front of her. She might be impressed.
Your course of action was correct, Confused. Now you have closure and can start moving on with your life.
Her recommendations are wise. You should not be alone with her for any extended period of time, because that just feeds into your feeling. You should not be cuddly with one another. Physical affection is out.
But a meaningful friendship is still possible if she is a person of any character whatsoever. If she just avoids you from now on, then what was happening is that you had put her up on a pedestal, and were in love with your idealized vision of her rather than her.
I do not recommend trying to pursue any kind of serious relationship for a while. Doing so is the classic "rebound." It will be tempting because it offers the chance to mask the emotional pain, but all you do is screw yourself up for even longer. I made that mistake.
You can spend time with her without her knowing. Follow her to the grocery store and walk 20 feet behind her. Call her job 10 times a day and hang up when they give her the phone. Watch her through her window, rummage through her trash. Once she realizes the lengths you have gone to just to see her and be a part of her life, she will change her mind. Chicks dig that kind of romance.
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