Pretty much this.
I was at first simply happy with a Finals berth and the fact the Spurs competed with the Heat. If tonight's game wasn't lost in tragic fashion and simply a result of the Heat imposing their will from wire-to-wire (and then following up game 7 with a blowout), I'd be content. It's clearly evident now that the Spurs are just as good as the Heat, maybe even a bit better, so to be so close and just give it away like that is a big stream of piss shot right into that bowl of gravy.
Spurs fans should tell themselves this can be the price of rooting for a team that is always in the thick of things. Tragic losses and chokejobs are bound to happen. Pretty much every fan of a perennially contending team has had to eat a sandwich like this one time or another. The only heartbreaking losses in our team's franchise history we're .4 and the Manu foul, which were rather tame (I know .4 still stings like a , but you have to remember that was only in the West Semis and the Spurs didn't really to deserve to win that game, since they fell behind by 18 at home) when you compare those to like the '86 World Series, 18-1, Jose Mesa, Bartman, game 3 of the '06 Finals, Lakers blowing a 26 point lead at home in the '08 Finals, Scott Norwood, the list goes on.
Look at it this way, Spurs fans, we grew up tonight and finally experienced true heartbreak for the first times as fans.
It was simply our turn.