1. he was 14....she was 24...thats not a big difference...several of my friends that are girls are dating guys that old
2. 3 brothers
What point are you trying to make with that post????![]()
Well actually I was askin hunter, but since you responded, how old are they?Yes
1. he was 14....she was 24...thats not a big difference...several of my friends that are girls are dating guys that old
2. 3 brothers
I hope themeans you are kidding!!!!
Those guys should be in jail. That's just wrong.
Not a big difference?!!?!??!? Are you crazy? I know you are only 15 so a 14 yr old doesnt seem young to you. But no 24 yr old (or anyone over 18 for that matter) should be interested in a 14 yr old!
How old?2. 3 brothers
well its a sad sad world....one of my friends is 16 and shes married to a 20 year old
Is sleeping with fourteen year old wrong? It's wrong because society thinks it's wrong, and for no other reason.
My grandmother got married at 14 and had kids at 15. That happened a lot back in the day, and it wasn't considered rape.
Is having sex with a seven year old wrong? That's a whole different story. A fourteen year old is at a level sexually that allows them to procreate. The idea that a sixteen year old is gross and an eighteen year old is not gross is a product of society and nothing more. You could draw that line anywhere. You could say that an adult having sex with a twenty year old is rape.
I'm not saying that anyone should be having sex with minors. But I am saying that once a person's sexual organs are developed, they are physically ready for sex. Are they mentally ready? Some probably are, some probably aren't. But the lines that are drawn are simply fic ious lines that only mean something in the context of the present society. It seems like a person's physical ability to procreate would take some precedence over an artificial line.
The point I was trying to make was. If any guy here or anywhere including all the religious seclusion type fundamental people were 14 in the same postion how could they NOT turn that down.
My sister is like 21, and my brothers are 18, 24, 26
If I was 14, I'd my hot 24 year old teacher, but that doesn't mean she isn't wrong for wanting to a 14 year old.
14 yr olds are NOT mentaly/emotionaly ready for sex!
exactly
Ok, I know what you are saying. But the 14 yr old is a minor, so the fault lies with the adult! Just because the minor wanted to have sex, doesnt make it right for the adult to sleep with the child. It is wrong, period.
Also, if an adult puts a kid in that situation, it is called MANIPULATION!
Some probably are. There are several 30 year olds who aren't mentally and emotionally ready for sex, too.
The point is that a person does not magically become magically and emontionally ready when they turn 18. So why does that age have any significance at all here?
At what age do people become mentally and emotionally ready, and how do you address all of the people who are either ready before or after that time? Do you really think that 18 is the even the average of when people become ready for sex?
so youre saying that she used him for sex?
No, wrong. They are not ready to procreate! Most 14 yr olds I know live at home with a low paying job at a fast food place. No way are they ready to procreate. The fact is, it is not an "artificial" line. It is a line based on peoples emotional, mental ability to handle a sexual realtionship.
If it were just about phyiscal ability, then what about guys/girls that go threw puberty early? I know girls that hit puberty at 8, 9 yrs old. Is it okay for adults to have sex with them?
puberty is a long stage...u just dont become sexually ready in a year
ive never heard of a 9 year old that is completely ready to have sex
Irrelevant. They only need to be physically ready.
If they arent ready for the "consequences" of sex, then they are not ready for sex. Name me one 14 yr old that is ready to raise a child, and finish school at the same time???
Because thats the law!The point is that a person does not magically become magically and emontionally ready when they turn 18. So why does that age have any significance at all here?
How do I address the people that are ready before they are adults?At what age do people become mentally and emotionally ready, and how do you address all of the people who are either ready before or after that time? Do you really think that 18 is the even the average of when people become ready for sex?
Well, if they are mentaly ready enough for sex, then they should be mentaly "smart" enough to either date someone there age, or wait til they are 18 before they have sex with adults.
Most cases are not about the kid, but about the adult. The adult is the one manipulating the kid into having sex. If the kid can be manipulated by some pedophile, then I would question how mentaly ready for sex they really are.
Man..........I wish I could hit something.![]()
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Its possible.
So then you would think nothing wrong about me (20 yrs old) if I were sleepin with a minor that was "physically ready" for sex??
Better yet, you wouldnt think it was wrong for yourself to sleep with a 14 yr old that was "physically ready" for sex??
How long does it last?
I agree with alot you say
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