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He got it both ways...but at least he got ed before he checked out.
Are you referring to the dude that bred your goddess.
He got it both ways...but at least he got ed before he checked out.
u dont come on here talk about peronal problems and not posts pics
benefactor needs to posts pics
Asian Avante over here, tbh..
bene, nazi grip over kids makes them internally rebellious. this is why asian college chicks are wild as when it comes to nightlife, as long as its not the chipmunk looking pre-med asians
...it's not like she's housebound.
She's only gotten the nazi treatment because she wasn't forthcoming about what was going on. We've all sat down and talked about the dishonesty and how she can earn our trust back. As I said, she hasa been very apologetic and has admitted she was wrong for lying to us and trying to hide things. There has been a lot of open dialogue throughout all of this where we have listened to her and she has listened to us. If she was distancing herself and angry I'd be more worried.
He's moving away for college right after he graduates. We're just going to ride it out until then.
So is he.
lies. The father was so pissed off he just opened fire on that kid.
No doubt that kid is hitting on an underaged girl.
Not all of it, her hormones are kicking in and this guy is giving her attention. I hear from many people, teenage girls are a handful to raise and you are just getting into it now.Believe me...she doesn't sneak anywhere. Her mom is a Nazi.
I found his FB page and messaged him, informing him that a face to face meeting between him and I is coming if he doesn't back off. He responded like he was pretty scared. I also talked to my daughter after everything went down and she was very apologetic. She's not really the rebellious type. She's been hanging on because he's given her some emo life story about how his parents hate him andnobody loves him
lets look it from another perspective, what if they both are really in love with each? What if he has nice values, and has a nice personality overall. PBelieve me...she doesn't sneak anywhere. Her mom is a Nazi.
I found his FB page and messaged him, informing him that a face to face meeting between him and I is coming if he doesn't back off. He responded like he was pretty scared. I also talked to my daughter after everything went down and she was very apologetic. She's not really the rebellious type. She's been hanging on because he's given her some emo life story about how his parents hate him and
A friend of mine has 5 kids, 4 girls. I'll never have children if I can help it.
It sounds to me like you're trying to treat the symptoms, not the cause. She needs to understand that she has to obey the rules you set up.
Also, isn't the age of consent in Texas 17? if you ever feel he didn't get you the first time, you could play the whole
statutory rape angle on him.
Healthy boundaries have been set and she understands whats at stake...including the legal ramifications on his end.
I appreciate all the armchair parenting advice...but seriously...things are good. I know there are plenty of naive parents out there who get the wool pulled over their eyes, but I'm not one of them. I work around manipulative, out of control kids and I was once a little head myself. I know the game way too well for her to try to play it with me. More than anything she's just a good girl that's working through the learning process of how to have healthy relationships. As long as the dialogue continues to be there and be productive, I'm not really concerned.
Unfortunately, your story strikes real close to home! My daughter's first "boyfriend", when she was 15, was 17. And she is like your daughter (and most teen girls)---she fell for the sob stories about his parents divorce and how everyone hates him at home---and she just saw a sad person who "needed" her. I wasn't impressed the first time I met him, he acted real shy, not much to say to me and but the give away was the minimal eye contact----that's how I gauge her friends now. Anyway, we decided not to forbid her to see him because if this was the start of a rebellious stage, it would only drive her closer to him. So we just made it as uncomfortable as possible. They were allowed to spend time together here at home, in the community areas of the house only and only when we were home. When they wanted to spend time at his house, I drove her there and picked her up---after I delivered her at the front door to his mom ONLY. In fact, the first time we did that his mom met us at the door and she and I had a long discussion (in front of them) where we discussed their ages and I was happy she assured me she understood the challenges of having a daughter. So even though I didn't like the kid, I figured if he was willing to put up with all the conditions we set then it would be fine for them to be together. However, if my daughter wasn't important enough to him, he'd get tired of all the conditions and eventually just leave on his own. And that's exactly what ended up happening.
you're a gotdam fool just like I suspected....kid gonna blow your brains out or have someone do it for him you try to physically intimidate him...it's 2014 dude not 1950...she's already ed him several times...you and your wife are being played for saps..sure you're daughter is not rebellious as you state but when them teens start smelling on themselves in the bathroom the scent of her own female sex organ it makes them do crazy things...she's ing brah get over it...Believe me...she doesn't sneak anywhere. Her mom is a Nazi.
I found his FB page and messaged him, informing him that a face to face meeting between him and I is coming if he doesn't back off. He responded like he was pretty scared. I also talked to my daughter after everything went down and she was very apologetic. She's not really the rebellious type. She's been hanging on because he's given her some emo life story about how his parents hate him and
that's all wrong Trill...I don't have kids either but I see this all the time....this is exactly what's gonna turn her into a bona-fide for sure...all these parents think that domination is the key when it's not...Benefactors best option is to instill supreme confidence in her, not arrogance but confidence and provide her a frame work to live by and encourage her to stick to it...even get her to sign a vow of celibacy if she goes to church...it won't prevent any sex obviously but it gives her a better chance to think about the consequences... she might stray from time to time but she won't end up being a complete if he plays his cards right...all the most sex crazed and freakiest es I know are the one's that were brought up to be most religious and grew up in tightly governed household...trust me brah...it might work for him for a very small period of time but after that small period of time is up all of Benefactor and his wife's efforts are going straight out the window...she's gonna resent it and start ing up a storm...this is basic you parents ought to know by now...
you're so naive dude...you think you know every gotdam thing...you're gonna be broken by your own kid or his BF if you don't wise up...just watch her come home preggers if you keep with this 1950's bull mindset...you can't stop what's natural...she's gonna test those waters try as you may to stop it
I can't believe I'm in a thread with people who have kids talking all this silly in 2014....just shocked tbh...goes to show just because you have kids doesn't mean you know how to parent
Benefactor is so re ed...his kid is housebound..lol - ok....he keeps this tight grip she's gonna be giving head in the restrooms at school tbh
How do you handle your kids, Kool? I mean your children, not the underage girls you try to pick up.
She's 14 fam, I think being strict on the cellphone is fine. I would ease up on the restrictions around 15 or 16.
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