IMO
I suggest you postpone the moving in part. Save up instead of paying rent.Get the Married part 1st. I understand why you want to move in first though.I understand.
Moving is a . I just moved last week and that takes getting off the computer and off your ass.Its a anyway you see it.
(MOVING FROM ONE APARTMENT/HOUSE TO ANOTHER)
Living together: I will be married 5 years this coming December. It has its ups and downs. Very important to communicate.Keep the bridge open always: emotionally,sexually,financially,and yes be honest about what you type on the internet.Its not good to be a two faced person.
Everybody has differrent expectations. Its better that you talk it over with your gal and not on the internet.
Getting Married: I was brought up believing marriage is sacred and that's why I had tons of fun and went out with women until I was fed up with the same BS until 27 y/o. I love my wife and she is the other half that makes me complete.
You could say I am minus and she is the PLUS is my life.
Marriage is beautiful!Enjoy it!
I will say when you do come to that decision its important to find out your partners expectaions and dreams.Be honest with each other and remember change is inevitable. I am now about 40lbs fatter than when my wife met me.My wife has also gained lbs. We still love each other not for our sexy exterior.
patience is key!
good luck

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