"he same thing couldn't be happening in Islamic countries...could it"
Perhaps, but religion is the strongest, most mind-clouding opiate. ex: 50% of Americans believe that evolutionary theory is false. Millions of American believe the Bible is literally true, scientifically accurate.
When so much of "free, educated, high-tech, fat-ass wealthy" America has been hoodwinked by religious nuttiness into a modern Dark Ages, there is little chance that poor, primitive people socially arrested at the tribal stage will go cold-turkey will "de-program" themselves and throw off Islam-fascist oppression, with or without America's ham-handed "help". (Surely you right-wingers have memorized Repub Reagans' "9 scariest words" sound-bite?)
While head and rummy chase some 1-in-million neo-con dreamy pre-occupation with democratizing Iraq-as-example, all other efforts against protecting the US from terrorism, and attacking the root causes of WHY America is attacked, are abandoned.
"same beast...POWER"
Yes, but power seeking though hypnotizing, programming people with "religion" is quite different from power driven by taking of land or simple military muscle flexing. Religion is powerful enough to create suicide bombers, while mere land-grabbing and war-mongering is meant to keep the power-seekers alive to enjoy the fruits of the power seeking. The religious suicide bombers will simply "out-crazy" the materialistic power seekers.