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My is together, I found a job.
thats great! I want to nibble on your meat s!!!
that's a LONG mutha in line NYJ....
My is together, I found a job.
good. does she know? does she want to be back with you?
are you happy bro?
if you aren't happy with yourself?
that makes difficult.
it's okay to be on the path to where you wanna go...
and if chics don't wanna wait for you to reach your potential...then them....
but when you find that one that shows you true love...hold on to her man...
only YOU know your realationship...either she's the one or she ain't.
you know what's up.
you don't need nobody.
Good Job getting your Job. Congrats. Keep working on YOU and boosting your confidence in yourself and the girls will line up. But you gotta be nice.
Nobody likes an asshole. Not saying that you are. Just stating a fact.
Now good luck. Prayers you way.
Like others here are saying, it is up to YOU if you want to move on. You might find someone really great who appreciates you. Don't stick around waiting for something that may never be.
dude...do you love yourself?
if not? that's your main problem.
2nd. do you love her?
if not? then you know what you gotta do. let her go. get your straight.
your true love will find you when your right with yourself. be patient.
Don't leave her messages!!!
Man, if I'm looking for relationship advice the last place I'm looking for it is from Zak.
Smot, you know whats up. You know that it is more than likely over and that it is probably time for you to move on. No one here knows your cir stances for sure because whatever you say about your relationship will be one sided. You're not going to say "She got tired of picking up the tab and watching me sleep till noon in my chones". You're going to say she dumped me for the stupid reason of not having a job.
Everyone always complains about their significant other in a one sided way.
Anyhow, the point is that once a breakup happens I'd say very few relationships go back to being what they are. And the ones that do are probably better served by simply being ended. How many of you know that one couple that can't get their together but simply won't move on?
I hope I don't come off as insensitive because thats not my intent. I simply feel that many times people look for other people to tell them what they want to hear under the guise of relationship advice questions. I think most people know when something is over but have a hard time admitting it.
Man, if I'm looking for relationship advice the last place I'm looking for it is from Zak.
Smot, you know whats up. You know that it is more than likely over and that it is probably time for you to move on. No one here knows your cir stances for sure because whatever you say about your relationship will be one sided. You're not going to say "She got tired of picking up the tab and watching me sleep till noon in my chones". You're going to say she dumped me for the stupid reason of not having a job.
Everyone always complains about their significant other in a one sided way.
Anyhow, the point is that once a breakup happens I'd say very few relationships go back to being what they are. And the ones that do are probably better served by simply being ended. How many of you know that one couple that can't get their together but simply won't move on?
I hope I don't come off as insensitive because thats not my intent. I simply feel that many times people look for other people to tell them what they want to hear under the guise of relationship advice questions. I think most people know when something is over but have a hard time admitting it.
Well...there you go.
Well said...
Damn manny, thanks. That made me realize that I do need to move on, and mr. d, I don't love myself.
Thanks to everyone, It feels good to know that I can come in here with a typical problem that everyone goes through and get good advice.
I love you guys
I think you and your girl need to sit down and talk it all out. For either of you to have peace of mind, you need to decide once and for all where the relationship stands so you both know how to proceed with your lives.
I really believe that the truth is always best, but I know hearing it can really hurt sometimes.
I hope you can work out a resolution that makes you happy.
If you owe her any money, you probably want to clear that up soon, too. If she owes you, I'd just move on unless she brings it up (but that's just my opinion).
You are probably right.
I was suggesting a conversation as more of a way for him to get closure- to have a relationship ending point as opposed to just walking away.
I think that may be helpful later on.
I feel for you dude. That type of pain sucks, but in time it will pass. Save yourself some grief and dignity and move on.
I think I may know you... I know someone who smokes pot, lives in mother's garage, has no transportation, calls his mom to pick him up from the club at 2 a.m. after closing, rarely has a job, has deluded musical aspirations, graduated from Brackenridge high school yet tells everyone he went to Central Catholic, and his nickname is moose. Is this you? If so, I hope she stays away from you loser!
Not true!!!!! There are heartless females to be sure, but to say that they are the majority is a gross mis-statement.Women just seem to move on easier without thought or reguard.
That I can agree with. People will not always cooperate in giving us closure. But I still think he takes the time to settle and finalize this within himself so he can be free to move on.His only closure will be with himself to finally come to terms with what Manny said above these types of relations don't work he needs to move on for himself not because of what she tells him.
Excellent counsel!Best advice I can give is the Devil comes in many forms so don't get twisted with her riddles.
Yeah gig is right, dude ive used this ploy plenty of times....you tell the girl that you still love them and want to be with them eventually but right now isnt the best time that means she wants to go and do what she wants (most likely mess around as much as possible or find someone who can better take care of her) and then see if being with you is still worth it
Ahh, I seem to recall doing this in high school. It's simply immaturity. One would think you would eventually grow out of it.Yeah gig is right, dude ive used this ploy plenty of times....you tell the girl that you still love them and want to be with them eventually but right now isnt the best time that means she wants to go and do what she wants (most likely mess around as much as possible or find someone who can better take care of her) and then see if being with you is still worth it
exactly
no women are pretty much heartless...they have no end to their fury, us men we get mad and do stupid little things to get even, like lets say cancel the credit cards, women will sleep with your best friend to make you mad.....women have no hearts....thus the statement, hath no fury like a woman scorned
Dude...she's just not that into you.
break up for a dumb reason like not having a job...
That's not a dumb reason for breaking up. I would not stay with a guy who won't work. Sorry, that's a deal breaker for me, too.
That's not true in all cases. I gave up the love of my life because he basically told me he had no intention of ever having a regular job. I had no intention of supporting him for the rest of his life. I loved him, but I could never stay with someone who has no ambition. I still love him. And, last I heard, he still moves from one minimum-wage job to another...he works three or four months out of the year and sits on his ass the rest of the year. Uh uh, not for me.
Being unemployed briefly is a lot different from being terminally unemployed.
I knew a few guys who got jerked around like this, but that was in high school. That should raise a lot of red flags as to the emotional maturity of this woman. It seems like you care alot more about her than she does about you, otherwise she wouldn't be putting you through this . You should move on.
Bull man. All of what you just said is merely a testament to the poor quality of women you date.
There are lots of us out there with hearts of gold who would do anything to save their partner suffering, and do everything in their power to avoid causing hurt to those they love.
As for the job thing . . . I'm married so I've made vows to support my husband. But we'd be separated or in counseling pretty quickly if he decided he wasn't going to work. The only excuses for not working are being fired or in transition for finding a new job or watching our children or disability.
But since this doesn't seem to be your case SmotPoker . . . she's toying with you consciously or unconciously. If you tell her that you are dating and she comes back, have a long talk about what you each are looking far and go from there. But from the sound of it, she's a . And you are better off.
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