How do I fall out of love?

[Hot Daisy]

It sounds like you were infatuated with this guy. If you became intimate with him, you would have naturally developed feelings that are strong because its a union meant for two people in love. You need to forgive your self for getting in the relationship in the first place and move on. Remember that gay guys have sexual issues to deal with. Many have been raped by an uncle or a neighbor and develop these feelings toward other men because of their past. Whatever his preference is, you need to move on and look for a guy that is straight and that will love you unconditionally. There is one out there...the thing is that it takes time. You need to get your self out there and start meeting new people. My suggestion is to start hanging out with your girlfriends and forget about men for a while. You need healing time and jumping straight into another relationship might not be healthy. Good luck!

[2Blonde]

Many have been raped by an uncle or a neighbor and develop these feelings toward other men because of their past. !

WTF !!! What planet are you from? What an idiot.

Please GayABC or someone else respond to this post. I too dumbfounded to even reply to this stupid statement.

[Faccia di Angelo]

Interesting topic.
I've gotten a lot of advice on things in the past, but here's a piece of advice I received recently from someone that really hit it home.
Don't make someone a priority in your life, if you're merely an option in theirs.
Its best if you find someone who loves you back the way you love them. Everyone deserves that.

Buy Waking Hour by Vienna Teng and listen to Unwritten Letter #1 over and over and over and over again. It's your song.

I was gonna go find the lyrics until I saw you posted them. Thanks. Sounds like a good song, I'll have to check it out.