My first thought was a former relationship between her and the guy without a date. It seems like she was deep in thought and maybe disturbed or confused after their dance/conversation. Was this the first time she had met him?
My first thought was a former relationship between her and the guy without a date. It seems like she was deep in thought and maybe disturbed or confused after their dance/conversation. Was this the first time she had met him?
Why do I feel that, compared to this prom date, that I must have been a ified ho' when I was in high school when I went to mine? We went in, took the picture..danced one dance and split. Lickity.
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Hittin on someone else's girl at the prom is bad form.
Boo to that prick.
No, they have been friends. I'm actually pretty good friends with him too.
Yep, that's what I was thinkin.
Well, if it's just a matter of being disrespected - you don't know what happened. You don't know if he asked her out or not. And if you are not pursuing a relationship with her, you can't be disrespected.
You feel that way anyhow because you like her. But your friend there may not know that. You cannot be proprietary about a girl you are choosing not to date, you know? (and being proprietary about one you are dating doesn't come off well either in most cases, so be careful)
Maybe this is an indication that you ought to go ahead and explore a relationship anyway. Have you talked about this stuff with her? Maybe she's willing to try this. You are right that college changes people and that you will be apart, but is that really a reason not to try over the summer if you like each other?
Well, you have to answer that.
You know, my husband and I were very good friends from the first moment we met. I did NOT want to date him, for two reasons. His brothers' reputations and history with women (at this point, I didn't know how different he was), and our friendship. And then he started dating someone else. There was no reason not to, we had never considered being more than friends. I knew this girl - she was gorgeous (model, actually), fun, sweet, loving. But when he told me, I was really upset. I was pissed off, sad, and felt like I'd just lost something that was really important to me. And again, we were firmly just friends, so it didn't make any sense. But that was the first indication I had that maybe we could be more than friends. We stayed friends through that relationship, and for a couple of months and then we started dating. The rest is history.
Just sayin' . . .
mistake #1
stop being a chick and overanalyzing everything!
It's a non-issue.
You're +- 6 months from college - EVERYTHING changes.
2 weeks in, you'll forget every girl you've ever known - just enjoy the summer, you about to be an adult.
So how did you kill her?
you can't blame your friend for making moves when your not but he should of at least warned you. besides getting woman in college is like fishing in a stock pond and always remember to wear a "hat"
lesson learned: don't be a pussy... act or stfu...
amen, someone doesn't become a powerhouse in bed like me by standing on the sidelines.
That's a grreat point, you can't expect anything to happen.
It happens to me sometimes, it sucks.
Didn't you see Back to the Future when the red-headed guy was dancing with Marty's mom at the big dance, and Marty's hand became transparent and he couldn't play the guitar, but when Mr. McFly decided to shove the red-head to the ground and reclaim what was his that Marty was suddenly whole again and played a song for the kids that really cooked?
That's what you should have done. . .if you knew how to play the guitar.
It's highly possible that you vaporized your unborn son. Way to go.
No killing. She's a perfectly lovely woman. She broke it off with J, largly because of the age difference. She's still around and they still talk. They even went for drinks before we were married. She may be beautiful, but I'm pretty secure in my man's love for me.![]()
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