So sorry to hear about your dad. I lost my mom in 2000, so I know how you feel.
Seriously, I am not really depressed, as there are real things in life that are more important(like the death of a loved one) I just wax rhapsodic sometimes, and mourn the end of a great season, a season that I feel ended prematurely and unsatisfactorily. But in the grand scheme of things, it is just a game, and we all can always look forward to another try next year.
I just wish that I could root for one of these teams.
Cuban or Gary Payton? One will be a champion...that just does not sit well with me.