What does seeing a chick naked have to do with loving her?
why would you want to see your ex naked?
I can see other women but your ex?
it would seem to bring back memories that I would not want to think about
do you still love her? then stay together
What does seeing a chick naked have to do with loving her?
So, have you made your final decision yet?
nothing except when you break up with someone you usually hate them
and have no desire to even see them
that is why I asked if he still loved her
I wouldn't mind seeing some of my ex chicks naked again even though hate them. Naked chicks and emotions have nothing to do with each other.
All the years I lived at home with my parents, neither one of them ever found any of my porn or weed. I'm not worried about someone accidentally finding this tape.
I do understand where she is coming from, but what about what I want?You have to understand where she's coming from...those are private videos of the two of you and not only is she fearing that you or someone else may put them on the Internet, it may make her feel uncomfortable by the fact that you, now an Ex, could still be watching them...
How about I work out a compromise.
I'll delete all the footage that has her face in it and I get to keep shots where she couldn't be identified (doggystyle, blowjob from above, etc)![]()
I'd destroy them because there is a lot of bad that can come from having them, even if you don't intend to do anything with them.
Suppose that someone (an acquaintance, for instance) happened to get their hands on them. You might not have any interest in distributing the tapes, but if someone else was able to get hold of them, that person might be inclined to distribute them. When ex-girlfriend finds out the tapes have been distributed for money, she wants to sue someone for that and, of course, sues you. She can get a judgment against you in that cir stance -- one you'll have to pay; it would be your obligation to figure out who lifted the tapes from you and seek reimbursement from that person, if they could pay a judgment.
Just something to think about.
You are wise.
Just keep the tapes dude. Nobody is getting sued.
some of those videos I do not think are just naked chicks
I think they have them having intercourse
there is a difference
seeing a naked chick is one thing
seeing your ex having sex with you is different
to me it would bring memorries back that I would not want to see
and it would not help me move on
It wasn't a brutal or hateful breakup at all. Things got stagnant and I needed to get my ass back in school which required me to move. You don't just stop loving someone after four years. It will be nice to be single at a new school, I would have had a very difficult time being faithful in a different state.
Well, as previous posts pointed out, this isn't really the thing you want any future women stumbling upon. And while you ex probably won't it is possible that she could go the legal route to get them back, which would be a hassle.
Besides, you have the internet. While I'm sure that you guys did a fine job, if you're just keeping them as spank bank material then I imagine you can find something just as good on the net. And do you really want to run the risk of people here thinking about you in the same terms we think of GIG?
Getting sued is the last thing on my mind. I'm just pondering the morality of the whole situation.
They are more to me than spank bank material and I don't download porn anymore for fear of viruses.
Why would I be compared to GiG? I'm not offering to show anyone the videos.
If this changes anything...the chances of us getting back together when we are both done with school (1.5 years) are very high.
If its that important for you to keep them and for her to have them destroyed then invite her over to destroy them but before she leaves make her give you "one for old times sake" but make sure you set up your hidden camera. You have your new tape and she is happy.
It might. So long as you're the only one that sees them I guess there's no major league harm to be done, but I'd still err on the side of caution. You don't have any roommates or anything do you?
Great idea, but I'm not in the mood to an exgirlfriend right now.
None.
I just feel like if we got back together, we would have destroyed something and regret it. And of course we could always make more, but man, those were some special times we caught on film.
You choke the chicken to your Cancun vacation video?![]()
Well if you can keep a lid on them them I say enjoy.
I don't even know if I'll watch them much, I just don't like destroying things.
What's morality?
but you could try and get her to do some real freaking stuff and if she says no then what the you are already broken up. OH I got it ! You could just smack her in the head with it and get it on tape. Make sure to say " Take That !" then (SMACK)
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