the best way to handle it is to first administer the shocker to her the next time she acts up (that means 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink tpark) and then follow that up with sliding your manhood into her backdoor and then ejaculating in her hair (chicks dig that) followed by a "so whatcha cooking for breakfast/dinner? better be good this time" comment after the happy ending
I really have to agree with this one, if I am talking to someone else it is not to make someone jealous, I am just being friendly. If the girl is being flirty or hitting on me I am usually totally oblivious too it. You dont know how many times this has gotten me in trouble.
... or not calling can just piss some girls off if it's right at the start of the relationship. If you wait more than about two days to make that call after a first date, it can make the girl think that you're not really all that interested ... and that's taking a risk if you want to see her again, because believe it or not, there are a lot of girls that don't fawn over aloof guys. Hard-to-get guys are not always better. I've not returned calls in some cases when they've pulled like waiting a week to call - unless they leave really good excuses on my voicemail (i.e. that never happens).
OK...I agree that a week is too long, but three days seemed about right to me...
But you have to admit that the guys who really are persistent about sending cards, flowers, calling the next morning etc. almost ALWAYS get on...for some reason at that stage 90% of women seem to find it a turnoff rather than a desirable trait...
Eh, three days is pushing it. You have to remember that those three days you're debating about calling, she's spending that same time wondering when the you're going to call - if she's interested.
As for the persistent guys that get on, I think that's because most women have been the victim of at least a semi-obsessive relationship at some point - and those are just scary, between the constant calls, visits, jealousy, guilt they give you, etc - those are to be avoided at all costs. But on the other side, if we're talking about a particularly sadistic woman (the kind that most men have had at least one relationship with it seems like), those men are easier to take advantage of.
Yes, CC, we all know about the "Wait 3 Days Before You Call" game.
I must be part of that 10% then....IMO it beats the out of getting blown off for a week or 3 days or whatever and I'm far, far less likely to feel insecure and/or jealous.
Oh, and jealousy = 100% insecurity
I wasn't talking about being scared or debating about calling...I was talking about intentionally waiting three days...by that point if they wanted to get together they wouldn't play any games and would even break a date with another guy to go out with you because they would think you might not call back again if they didn't...Eh, three days is pushing it. You have to remember that those three days you're debating about calling, she's spending that same time wondering when the you're going to call - if she's interested.
Oh, God! It's the Rules! Anyone ever read that book? Biggest load of . Funniest thing is that one of the authors ended up getting divorced.Yes, CC, we all know about the "Wait 3 Days Before You Call" game.
I must be part of that 10% then....IMO it beats the out of getting blown off for a week or 3 days or whatever and I'm far, far less likely to feel insecure and/or jealous.
And no, that has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with co-dependency or any other type of dysfunction....those of us less-paranoid people might see it as being thoughtful and considerate, not necessarily equating it to stalking.
OK SW...I've been a bad bad boy...some discipline is probably in order hehehe
and 666...you heard the lady...for your convenience....
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Perhaps because we think there is a possiblity for a menage a trois?
Dear Manny,
off..
Sincerely,
Duff.
Funny CC said that today isn't it?!!
CC, I have an account setup with 1800flowers.
That's because those guys are probably trying to generate interest that wasn't there to begin with by sending those things. Those things are often a subs ute for genuine attraction after a first meeting. And they probably do give someone who is uninterested reason to think twice...but it's no subs ute for some kind of mutual attraction.
At least in my experience. If the girl likes you, you pretty much can do no wrong at first(this changes later on of course)...and if she doesn't...you can't do anything right.
No one likes feeling they are being pursued as an act of desperation...guys or gals. If it's not sincere and the girl has no interest that stuff is probably not going to work period.
If you are a flower sender etc or like the girl...send flowers, if you aren't then don't. And just take the consequences...You are just staving off the inevitable by trying to figure out how to manipulate her or the situation...One way or another the truth will eventually come out.
Chicks....They can't hold their smoke.
That's what it is.
Funny CC said that today isn't it?!!
lmao...
you can thank me later SW...
Funny CC said that today isn't it?!!
Okay....I didn't get that before. He didn't get here until just now...
I like this answer.
Ditto.
In all seriousness,
I usually call soon after a date if I had a good time. The next day or 2, and try to set up a 2nd date. I've asked at the end of the first date if I'd be able to see a person again, and I'd never had any negative results doing that.
I don't follow any rule bull . I play things by ear and it's worked out ok. I think I asked Jess out again the night after our first date, but I don't remember for sure.
I can be over enthusiastic at the begining of a relationship and that's usually a turn off to the type of women I date, but I'm also reserved in some ways. I usually take forever to kiss someone etc.
I don't know, it's weird, you just have to play things by ear. But I don't see the point in playing games or following rules, that's just juvenile if you ask me.
Oh, and girls who think they are my girlfriend on the 2nd date. That's just ing crackheadish and downright scary.
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