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with these pants on, whatever else will just look good:
okay, first date, how to dress? too fancy is too much i think... but i dont know.
with these pants on, whatever else will just look good:
Slip a condom in her apple cider or top ramen soup.
Find out what she is like or what she would like to do- that should help you figure out a first date and how to dress.
If you are still in school, a school function always makes a good first date-- a basketball game, a play at school, a holiday program- something like that. It's a place you are already comfortable at and you can get something to eat afterward.
FANCY?!? What kind of guy thinks about dressing "fancy"? Hmmm.....
I laughed out loud at that...goodone
This is what you do.
-Get a boombox
- Get thisalbum
-stand outside of he window and turn up the volume
This has the same affects on women as cat-nip has on cats. Just sit back and wait. She will come. Make sure you have lots of rubbers.
No.
I don't give out my number to a guy unless he is someone who seems nice and I would be willing to get to know better.
I joke that I am more protective of my number than Jackie Christie is of Doug.
Giving out my number is a big deal to me.
Therefore, I get really annoyed/ turned off when a guy asks for my number and then doesn't call or takes forever to.
I do try not to hold that against the next guy though.
My worst call experience ever:
I gave my number to a guy in Houston, slightly against my better judgement, but thought I would give him a chance.
He didn't call me for like a week and a half and honestly I was relieved.
But then he called.
First words out of his mouth, " Yea so I was cleaning out my car and found your number at the bottom of a stack of papers and thought I would give you a ring."
We didn't speak long or ever again.
If depends where you are going.
All week he probably kept looking at it and wondering how he should play it. Then one of his goofball friends gave him that "awesome" way to start a conversation, I guess making himself look cool for saying that "Oh I just happened to run across your number" Jerkoff probably had it in his wallet the whole time... Man, and just when I think I am lame somebody always manages to out do me without even trying... lol
I doubt it.
I thought the guy was shady- like I said, I gave him a chance against my better judgment.
Oh well, live and learn.
I realize that I don't have a boyfriend and so likely do not know as much about dating as the rest of you.
But...
I don't think dating has to be the difficult ordeal it has been made into.
Common sense and common courtesy would go a long way in people forming successful relationships.
Common sense: If person gives you their number, that means they want to talk to you.
Common courtesy: If you say you're going to call, then call.
And most importantly:
Don't worry about what someone is looking for in a boy friend/ girl friend. Just be yourself.
If the person likes you, then great for the both of you.
If the person doesn't like you, then all the better for the person you'll eventually meet whom will think you are the best thing ever.
(The most important rule is one I have had plenty of opportunity to practice so you can take my word on it. )
My main recommendation is to NOT take her to the movies for the first date. To me, the movies are the worst place to take a new date. You have to be quiet for two hours - how do you plan on talking to her or getting to know her?
If I was a 13-year-old guy like Norcal (just kidding), I would ask her to her to some sort of event - a game, a festival, something a long those lines. It's a casual and friendly atmosphere, where you can talk a lot and get to know each other.
Along the way on the date, open the doors for her, don't curse, ask her interesting questions (the kind that require more than a yes or no), and pay for everything.
If things go well, on the second date, take her to dinner and a movie.
Another recommendation that I have for young guys (not necessarily applicable to NorCal's first date situation) is NOT to throw money at girls. I honestly think that men should pay for dates (when they are the ones who ask the girl out).
But don't start buying her gifts after knowing her for a short period of time. A lot of young girls (and older women) are money hungry. Small tokens of affection or gifts for birthday/holidays is okay. But a lot of guys, young and old, get suckered into throwing money at girls too early in a relationship.
With that said, I think I need to hint to timvp about what I want for Christmas
if you go to the movies, don't forget the knee pads.
thank you kori and angel and everyone else who participated.
You're welcome.
Have a great date.
Good advise!
Steve should be looking for a man anyway!
Steve Irwin making a topic about dating girls makes about as much sense as T Park talking about becoming a horse jockey!
Totally agree.
Take her to a Spurs game--
Tell her your cousin is one of the players--
When the two of you were kids, people used to make fun of his nose--said he more of a beak than a nose.
Your cuz had a fantastic game against the T-Wolves and may join the two of you after the game...
Oh mouse, it's almost like you are a worthwhile member of society.
I've had good luck and bad luck at going to movies for a first date....
Funny thing is, the outcome of the date can depend entirely on the quality of the movie. Make sure it's not a lousy movie if you end up going to one...
Good advice from the ladies in this thread - definitely listen to them and not the guys!
How'd it go?
post what happened to your date!
btw, was she the same girl who you said was pressuring you to light a doobie?
Several games ago, I was joking about that very idea with some of the hostesses at the Terrace Club.
I was saying that I could tell people I was Tim Duncan's cousin and unless they were a die hard stalker sort of fan, it would be very hard for anyone to disprove it.
It would be cool to be Timmy's cousin. Wonder if he wants another one? I'm already adopted so...
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