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Yes. It's getting worse everyday. I don't know what's happening to myself right now. I stop in the middle of everything I do, then I cry. I don't want to, but I do.
So, you knew he was a workaholic going into the relationship - what's the problem now? Is it worse? Has his at ude towards you changed? I don't get it.
Yes. It's getting worse everyday. I don't know what's happening to myself right now. I stop in the middle of everything I do, then I cry. I don't want to, but I do.
You just need to get out of the relationship, look what it's doing to you. You can't change him. And it's unfair for you to ask him to change considering you got into the relationship knowing how devoted he was to his business. He's a business owner. In advertising, no less. I'm not saying that gives him an out to treat you this way but as sad as it is to say, you got yourself into this.
How long have you two been together?
One and a half years.
And is this something that's happened before, then goes away for a while, or do you feel it's just been building up over the year and a half?
That ought to do it. 28 & counting for me,
P.S. Enjoy that money, sweetipie
It's the former.
Hmm...have you talked to him about it in the past at any great length?
One of life's lessons: you can't change people to be what you want them to be. He sounds like he's either becoming a worse work-a-holic, or he's trying to tell you something without telling you in words. I think he's made his choice, and now you have one to make.
Yep, and we can't seem to find a compromise. All I ask of him is some time together, without nuances like phone calls and e-mails.
Does he enjoy intamacy??????????
Maybe you should check out this book?
No truer words have been spoken. Once I figured that out, my husband, then boyfriend, and I got along a lot better.
Yeah...I'm getting the "he's just not that into you" impression as well, now. Maybe it's time to start looking for somebody else?
Yeah Supreme, you can't change a workaholic into a person that relaxes.
Its in the genes, he either is or he isn't.
Men just LOVE it when their woman looks at them and says in a real serious voice..."We need to have a talk."
Try that and see how he handles it.
I don't know will survive this relationship break. Damn.
If he rolls his eyes and pouts a fit then tell him its over with.
if hes not mature enough to talk and have a conversation hes not worth your time.
Oh. My. Allah.
That is so funny and wrong I had to log into a troll and laugh.
colllllllllllllllllllllllllllld bloooded.....
Tell him that you want him to smudge your fudge.
That'll get his attention.
girls are so lame its hilarious
Isn't Supreme_Being a guy?
from a workaholic who's married. My drive to succeed is in being able to provide for my wife and kids. If he's not driven at work for your happiness and enjoyment, and then you're not the one for him and he's not the one for you. With that my wife gives me a lot of flexibility, but I make sure not to neglect her in return.
good luck
You say you "love him too much to leave him", but he loves his work more than you!
His priorities are WAAAAAAAY out of whack IMHO - sounds like he lives to work, not works to live.
It's great that he has a job he loves, but if that constantly obscures his love for you, why are you still with him?
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