Hold on. You never had sex with her period during the entire 5 months?
yeah man, without getting too into it, she means alot to me and I still really like her that is why I was so pumped she got ahold of me, and why it's upsetting when she blows me off.
No I had sex with her, that is what kind of ended things because things were moving along to fast for her.....I thought I was just a bad lay lol
Dude you need a seperate phone altogether just with your women...Your situations be complicated as crap...
LOL I thought about that, maybe I can get on a shared minutes plan with each of them hahaha.
Dan it doesnt sound like a good situation especially if you have feelings for her. I think you are playing it off well but dont expect much from a girl that blows you off like that.
I know man. She just screws with my mind. I mean it's really confusing because she worked up enough courage to get ahold of me after about a year, and we talked on the phone the week before for about an hour, then we met for about 3 hours and everything was 1000x better than I thought it would be. I had a great time, and I know she did too. So it's so hard for me to believe she wants nothing to do with me and that is the reason she is blowing me off.
My older and much wiser sister thinks she still likes me, and doesn't think I have anything for her so she runs from the whole thing because she would have a hard time being just my friend.
But getting blown off really really really really bums me out, I won't downplay that a bit.
Yeah really Dan. Even though it is hard, don't (well try not to) get to emotionally involved when she calls you. It seems like she only wants to call you when she wants something. There is this one girl that I used to deal with who I was crazy about. The only time she calls me now pretending that she wants to know how I'm doing is when she needs me to run a background on some s bag she is dating at the time...
Have you told her you still have feelings for her.
That bums everyone out dude. You aren't alone there. Especially if it's someone you really are into.
yeah I know, I try. I was finally at a point where I didn't think about her all the time and all of that crap people do, but right when I was there I got that message and it brought me all back in.Yeah really Dan. Even though it is hard, don't (well try not to) get to emotionally involved when she calls you. It seems like she only wants to call you when she wants something. There is this one girl that I used to deal with who I was crazy about. The only time she calls me now pretending that she wants to know how I'm doing is when she needs me to run a background on some s bag she is dating at the time...
No I haven't. To be honest, I don't think I could take a rejection from her. This whole time we dated was almost 3 years ago, and it's been about 2 years since we even kissed or anything. I think part of the reason I like her so much (or I think I do) is because she shot me down. She was the one that ended it because it was moving too fast and she was really confused, and when things started to get back together a year later she ended it again. Like all of that really ed me up because (not to sound y) I'm a pretty good looking guy and I'm really easy to get along with and have never been dumped or turned down by anyone like that, so it really ed up my whole confidence and I really have not gotten over it. That is why if she has no feelings whatsoever for me I don't want to lay myself out there again..
man look at me pouring it out in The Club today lol
Curious, how old are you Thunder Dan?
DUDE I hear ya bro. I was on and off again in a relationship for 6 years and it ended pretty bad about 2 years ago and the only reason why I even talked to her was because I heard she had a baby and needed to know if it was mine. IT wasnt but yeah she messed me up the first time it ended and then the final time it ended. Sometimes you just have to cut them loose and get a clean break and never talk again. Especially if feelings are involved.
yeah I think I remember you saying something about that on here before. For some reason I knew you had somewhat of a similar situation going on. But yeah, I know a clean break is what I need, but it just keeps screwing with me when I know she is single, and has been for some time and does what she can to get ahold of me. It's like a drug man it really is. It's like no matter how much I know it's bad for me, I keep going back because I really enjoy talking to her. But I thought that this time I could do something so it would either end, or something would happen rather than have it sit in this gray area again.
Yeah that is hard when you aren't used to getting rejected like that. It's like when you look down at your phone and see that she calls you heart starts racing. Then it turns out to be someone else and you are like...
Yeah I know what you mean and I was the same. It took crazy will power not to call her and I usually did especially when drunk or when feeling alone. Her having a baby was best for me to move on even though she told me she still loves me and doesnt love her man and wishes the baby was mine, hahaha how ed up is that?
Geeez dude, you never told me she said that. WTF?!
Geeez dude, you never told me she said that. WTF?!
LOL Yeah I did tell you man. It sucked to hear that because it was a year and half since we had talked and the truth is I still love her. I find myself looking at her myspace from time to time. LOL maybe its just me but her baby does kind of look like me, go check it out Flo.
lol that is definitely pretty ed up! I don't know what I would do (or say)!
With me though, the problem is that we are both really passive people. I don't call her, or drunk dial, or anything. I gave it a shot a couple weeks ago, but after feeling that I was blown off I stopped. I went from a girl that I dated for almost 3 years that was absolutely crazy about me (an frankly still is). She lied and said she was pregnant to try to keep us together. She befriended my little sister (she is 25 and my sister is 21) so that she could come hang over at my parent's house (once my little sister caught her sleeping in my old bed down in the basement which used to be my room) This girl has a new boyfriend and lives in Florida....she told her boyfriend that if I ever wanted to get back with her she might move back to Ohio...who the says that? (and what boyfriend agrees to that?!)
alright so all in all, some absolutely crazy going down with that girl. She still calls me all the time and texts me and it's been almost 5 years since we broke up.
So I went from her, to a girl that I'm crazy about that may or may not have feelings for me and she is so passive and soft spoken that even when we first started dating it was hard for me to tell if she was really that into me. So I don't call or text her because I don't want to come off as that desperate guy even though I really want to be that guy sometimes. But knowing how passive she is, is what intrigues me that she tried getting alod of me in the first place
I will. I don't remember you telling me that she didn't love her man and that she wished the baby was yours. I bet you that her husband is crazy in love with her and little does he know she still loves you AND wishes the baby was really yours. F'ed up!!
Wow one extreme to another!! What can I say man, love is a mother er. If you talk to the one you care about level with her, see what she feels. Its better to know then not know and wonder.
Oh yeah I might have kept that to myself now that I think about it hahaha. Well her husband is a dumb ass and was telling his ex that he was only with his "wife" was because of the baby and when my ex found out she almost left him. Now he is all whooped on her but yeah he doesnt know she loves me not him. I don;t talk to her though even though she emails me and what not. Im not a home wrecker.
Dude that baby is yours you son of a !
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But I think he was saying that is was hard to get those kind of things out of her.
Dude that baby is yours you son of a !
LOL DUDE shut up!!! Do you really think she looks like me? Are you sure you looked at the right picture?
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