Has anything like this happend to you

[ATRAIN]

I'm guessing it was her you were reacting to, not ghosts.

This bit: "I even woke up one night choking and in my nightmare I remember I was being choked by something which I didn't know what it was." I used to get the same thing - waking up in the middle of the night terrified, paralysed and unable to breathe. Sometimes I'd wake up and it would take a minute or two before I could breathe again so I'd be gasping when I finally could. It's called "night terrors" and is not uncommon:

http://www.nightterrors.org/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Night_terror

I had them for about 6 months arpound the unhappiest time in my life, haven't had them since.

but I wasnt unhappy at that time.

[marini martini]

but I wasnt unhappy at that time.

By any chance wuz your g.f.'s name Marie Lavoux(sp?)