Duff

[Puppy Dog]

don't get me wrong folks.

I LOVE my wife. She means more to me than most anything in this world.

And I WANT her to be a part of my life for all eternity.

But what i said was true. I don't need.

If she ever wanted a Divorce?

I'd fight it with all I could. I'd contest it as much as I could.

And I would not look for another woman either...

[Wifey]

we're sitting side by side by the way at the Pomona Library...i think i got 15 minutes left...(they let you get on the internet an hour a day)

anyhow, yeah, i got a maxim, she took it from me, and threw away the calendar that comes free with it...not it's her magazine...i don't want it...

i'll get another one.

as for roses and dinner?

1st. I'll give you roses when a)you deserve them. b)I feel like it.

2nd. Dinner? I thought you were trying to lose weight? You know I am.
Name the place, we'll go right now. I'm the guy sitting on your left.

are you saying I'm FAT?

[Puppy Dog]

This subject has been ongoing for over a year and it needs to be put to bed.

talk is cheap.

PM the address and the debt gets paid.

[angel_luv]

Speaking of Deuce, how is he Kori? Cough all better?

[Puppy Dog]

are you saying I'm FAT?

i dunno, are you?

[Kori Ellis]

Speaking of Deuce, how is he Kori? Cough all better?

Yeah it only lasted another week or so after that. But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

[angel_luv]

are you saying I'm FAT?

Bad Puppy!

[angel_luv]

I remember you, Wifey. You're very pretty. =)

[Wifey]

oh no worries blackbucket. she just had some anger to take out.

it's over with. i don't think she'll do it again, but i'll NEVER hit back.

I don't have it in me to hit a woman, much less the woman I love most in this world.

She's better now. She's getting stronger.
And she's realizing that she doesn't need me.

I was trying to see the posts he made today when he guarded the computer with his dear life and we began to fight...nothing more...nothing less...

[Puppy Dog]

But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

i used to be that way...

[Shelly]

Holy , Part 3.

[blackbucket]

I have PMed him.

I wanted to make it public today, so everyone can see Duff post a reply that he is going to accept the deal and therefore everyone can lay off of him and we can all move on.

This subject has been ongoing for over a year and it needs to be put to bed.

Oh yeah, I forgot about the original intent of your thread Jim. This Duff seems to be a rat. Dude, how hard could it be to budget out a few bucks a week. Cut back on the designer rags and movies. Don't go down like this. It isn't too late. Make it right.

[Puppy Dog]

I was trying to see the posts he made today when he guarded the computer with his dear life and we began to fight...nothing more...nothing less...

WE began to fight?

woman, you were kicking my ass...

and what did i say?

I said, 'tell me you love me and you can look all you want'

You said it.

You got to read, and as it so happens, start to post.

See, wasn't so hard was it?

[Wifey]

Yeah it only lasted another week or so after that. But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

sorry to hear that...I found my Pennie after a thunderstorm and she has issues when it rains...she gets in between Sac and I for protection and after a while she will go to sleep...dogs have memories like we do...

[j-6]

Yeah it only lasted another week or so after that. But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

Set up a playlist of your WOAI videos (or something of that nature) before you leave so he hears your voice in the house. And don't play with him as soon as you're leaving.

Pet him, then do something else away from the dog and let him get preoccupied, and then leave.

[Wifey]

I remember you, Wifey. You're very pretty. =)

Thank you

[Kori Ellis]

sorry to hear that...I found my Pennie after a thunderstorm and she has issues when it rains...she gets in between Sac and I for protection and after a while she will go to sleep...dogs have memories like we do...

Deuce has issues when it rains or when he hears water running too. I guess that's what happens when get a dog that was rescued from Hurricane Katrina. Hopefully it starts to get better for him soon.

[Jimcs50]

This thread has turned into Divorce Court.

I hope I am not going to be called to testify, that would really get me pissed at Duff.

[angel_luv]

Yeah it only lasted another week or so after that. But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

Poor dear! He is such a beautiful, sweet dog!

[Kori Ellis]

Set up a playlist of your WOAI videos (or something of that nature) before you leave so he hears your voice in the house. And don't play with him as soon as you're leaving.

Pet him, then do something else away from the dog and let him get preoccupied, and then leave.

Good suggestions, but he would never get preoccupied. He starts to panic as soon as he sees me putting on makeup and getting dressed to go out. By the time I go downstairs, he's running around me and then by the door like a maniac. Even if I give him a brand new bone or anything to distract him before I get ready to leave. And then while we are gone he stands on his hind legs in the window the entire time.

It's a good thing we both work from home or he'd go nuts.

[King]

Zak - for somebody as 'philosophical' as you, and for someone who has 'seen the light' - you sure say some stupid stuff in regards to your relationship. I'm a very devout Christian - and I'd be a wreck without my girlfriend. My parents are both very Christian, and they need each other, a lot.

Having Jesus in your life is great - but don't act like relationships of the flesh (not sexual) aren't important. They're even in the Bible.

You guys should probably look into some counseling.

[blackbucket]

Yeah it only lasted another week or so after that. But he's emotionally not good. He is very insecure and cries at the front window the entire time we are gone from the house .. be it 15 minutes or 15 hours. He has major abandonment issues.

My dog had the same problem. I don't recommend this but I used one of those "shock" collars (I did it on myself to make sure it wasn't too harsh ). I recorded the first day I used it. He cried/howled once, got shocked and then waited a few minutes. Tested it by growling/howling louder, louder, louder until he set it off again. He yelped and never cried/howled again when I would leave!

What I would recommend is the Dog Whisperers technique. I don't remember exactly what it is though. I'm sure you can find it on the net. It worked for Oprah's pooch. Much more humane!

[Puppy Dog]

Zak - for somebody as 'philosophical' as you, and for someone who has 'seen the light' - you sure say some stupid stuff in regards to your relationship. I'm a very devout Christian - and I'd be a wreck without my girlfriend. My parents are both very Christian, and they need each other, a lot.

Having Jesus in your life is great - but don't act like relationships of the flesh (not sexual) aren't important. They're even in the Bible.

You guys should probably look into some counseling.

Thanks for the kind advice man.

But I don't NEED sex either.

I have willpower people wouldn't believe...although staying away from this forum was too tough...

I got this. I KNOW what i'm doing.

[Shelly]

Good suggestions, but he would never get preoccupied. He starts to panic as soon as he sees me putting on makeup and getting dressed to go out. By the time I go downstairs, he's running around me and then by the door like a maniac. Even if I give him a brand new bone or anything to distract him before I get ready to leave. And then while we are gone he stands on his hind legs in the window the entire time.

It's a good thing we both work from home or he'd go nuts.

Try putting him in your kennel when you leave. Dogs are den animals and that might make him feel secure. My dog doesn't need her kennel anymore, but she still will go in it and sleep. He may whine at first, but he should get used to it and start feeling more secure.

My dog is only afraid of fireworks.

[Kori Ellis]

But I got this. I KNOW what i'm doing.

I know you think you do.

But you really need to think a lot more before you speak, especially to your wife. And spend some time with a clergyman of your choice. You'll realize that you aren't going about some things in the right way.