First off.. "we"

(not just you JGW, I laugh at everyone who drops the "we" and "us" card)
Secondly, if Texas was better that night, as you have said, why would they need a game handed to them? They were better that night, play that game again and maybe SC wins, in fact I think they would but its not a certainty.
Things like "we handed them the game" or and "we deserved to win" (when "you didn't) and claiming moral victory are excuses of pussies and tools of the weak. Now I do agree that the better team doesn't always win which would explain the upsets in sports history but making excuses when your team loses (again, anyone..not you specifically) is a desperate attempt to ignore the outcome.
Bottom line is that all that matters is who wins. History doesn't care about what might have been, it records what was.