Some admit it more than others...

[SpursStalker]

It burns a little of course. But it's not the end of the world. We're still friends though and there's no animosity or anger. She was telling the truth I know now for a fact.



I'm 24 and in my experience I have learned not to assume "most" women want this, or that. A lot of them want different things, each girlfriend I've had did.

I'm old fashioned, I open doors and am polite. I guess you could label me as a goody goody with girls. I know how to have fun at the same time though. My only setback really is my recent setbacks in my life having to start over and figure out what I am going to do with my future with limited income. I'm more concerned about that than chicks anyhow.

She feels me, that's what made it hard. That's why we're still friends. For once (if it work out this way) a girl and a guy are being mature and understanding the situation and moving forward without the drama. We realize we are close and trust and friendship is there so we don't want to waste that like most folks.

I'm totally in awe over your comment. Kudos for you!!!

Most men, can NOT have a friendship with a girl they used to date. I dated a couple of guys, that after we broke things off, they could no longer be just friends. I'll never understand that. If you're friends in the beginning and it don't work out, why cant you be friends in the end.

Anywho ....

Congrats on realizing that you're a mature adult. *btw, I don't mean that in a bad way*

[Cheese]

You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening....

Women do stuff to TEST you.

THE SOLUTION...

MOVE ON

Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY...instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.

Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.And, stop calling her.Stop responding to her quickly.Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.It's obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up "just being friends" with her... so STOP DOING IT.Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you're leaving to meet a woman. Of course,make sure IT'S TRUE.

Stop being so AVAILABLE.

Get busy enjoying your life.

Get busy dating other women.
If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, -SLAP yourself. If you're feeling weak, have a friend do it.And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:

"Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do... Ihave to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday..."

You feel me, dog?

[peewee's lovechild]

Well, at least you got great sex before she hit you with that dreaded line.

This is a pretty funny post coming from the guy who was defending the Pope's "abstinence is the only solution" claim.

Nice to see you pushing that abstinence.

[DarkReign]

What a . At the very least you should slash her tires.

Dont ask me why, but perusing through this thread and all the serious replies, reading this made me laugh pretty hard.

More a caught-me-off-guard comment.

[Brutalis]

Update...
There's no weird feelings actually. , she's even came over a few times and been on my bed where we screwed a billion times in a month. We hang out still, text and talk. Nothing has really changed except for our label and calling each-other baby, and the kissing, and sex.

This is only the second time I've been tight with an ex, the other time a few years ago we were tight but became distant after she moved. So far so good. I don't have any feelings caught up in her. We value our friendship and this has come as a complete shock. I didn't think it would be possible to be close to someone after dating a month and doing all that we did, but I'm not your typical person and neither is she. Next thing I know it'll start snowing in .

[peewee's lovechild]

Update...
There's no weird feelings actually. , she's even came over a few times and been on my bed where we screwed a billion times in a month. We hang out still, text and talk. Nothing has really changed except for our label and calling each-other baby, and the kissing, and sex.

This is only the second time I've been tight with an ex, the other time a few years ago we were tight but became distant after she moved. So far so good. I don't have any feelings caught up in her. We value our friendship and this has come as a complete shock. I didn't think it would be possible to be close to someone after dating a month and doing all that we did, but I'm not your typical person and neither is she. Next thing I know it'll start snowing in .

I don't know how you do it.

I've always nuked those bridges.

[Brutalis]

I don't know how you do it.

I've always nuked those bridges.

I'm pretty sure I know how we're doing it. We look at life, people, and general things the same way. We share a lot of the same opinions and often times we find ourselves laughing and telling each other "GET OUT OF MY HEAD!" for thinking the same thing when it's said. We are alike in many ways. So we value the friendship I think.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

I'm pretty sure I know how we're doing it. We look at life, people, and general things the same way. We share a lot of the same opinions and often times we find ourselves laughing and telling each other "GET OUT OF MY HEAD!" for thinking the same thing when it's said. We are alike in many ways. So we value the friendship I think.

wow. that's pretty awesome to find someone like that. i'll now read the rest of the thread and see where the rub is.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

At least her ex isn't her uncle, like my ex left me for

i smell movie there

[Viva Las Espuelas]

ok. well you're a "nice guy". her other dude is probably a prick to her. she's into "bad boys" she found a trophy that's never treated her like you do. she probably has daddy issues. she wants her cake and eat it, too. i wouldn't hold on to her. she needs to sh-t or get off the pot. stop being a pot.

[peewee's lovechild]

At least her ex isn't her uncle, like my ex left me for

How did I miss this?

[Brutalis]

wow. that's pretty awesome to find someone like that. i'll now read the rest of the thread and see where the rub is.

haha that's funny.

ok. well you're a "nice guy". her other dude is probably a prick to her. she's into "bad boys" she found a trophy that's never treated her like you do. she probably has daddy issues. she wants her cake and eat it, too. i wouldn't hold on to her. she needs to sh-t or get off the pot. stop being a pot.

If that's how you want to rationalize it for yourself then great. However if you were me and in my situation, you would be able to understand how to give some and take some, and see how she does it, and get along nicely to set up the future.

you sound like you been butt hurt too many times before honestly. Why don't you learn how to ease off a bit when you dog it, and keep a light for the future without getting stepped on in the dark and get something out of it? Relationships aren't complex or always stamped typical.

now that's funny.

[SA210]

At least her ex isn't her uncle, like my ex left me for

i smell movie there

Yes, that !!

[SAGambler]

Well, that's probably better than after banging a chick for the weekend, having her call you on Tuesday morning and telling you she is leaving her husband, and moving in with you.

That is a real pisser.

[to21]

es say that to get to a man and to see where she stands with him. If you say "OK we're still cool"..........she's got you.

My response would have been, "That's cool, I have feelings for your sister and/or mom."

[peewee's lovechild]

es say that to get to a man and to see where she stands with him. If you say "OK we're still cool"..........she's got you.

My response would have been, "That's cool, I have feelings for your sister and/or mom."

Or, better yet, "I ed your sister . . . she's a better lay than you will ever be."