Is it bad to be in your 20s and still be a virgin?

[Blake]

wow; i thought this guy was a re from his posts in the political forum and the nba forum, but it's obvious now this is someone's troll.

+1

[BackStabber]

Nothing wrong with it all just don't tell anyone about it.

[200 miles]

Just don't tell the women your name is McLovin.

[LnGrrrR]

[redzero]

inb4 Aaron troll

[Latarian Milton]

im 9yr old and im still a virgin, which is lame enough here in my hometown tbh.

[Latarian Milton]

tbh all virgin men will die by 25 unless they get some sex to break their virginities before that.

[David Bowie]

I think you should go for it and loose it. I lost it kind of late , a month after I turned 21. I couldn't imagine having sex in high school while I still lived with my parents. (They strongly opposed premarital sex.) Once I moved out of my parent's house, I figured that I'd loose it to the "right guy", since I've already held onto it for so long. I'm a pretty shy person, so it took me a while to find someone whom I really liked and felt comfortable with. The "right guy" turned out to be a crazy psycho, and I regretted on all the fun that I missed out in my late teens. Also, once I started to get into serious relationships in my early 20's I realized that I wasn't prepared or ready for them. If I'd gotten some experience earlier, I think my first relationships wouldn't have been as stressful or awkward. In the end, I don't think it's worth it to hold onto your virginity for too long. It's bad for your mental health. However, don't do it before you feel truely ready.

[dbreiden83080]

Spend a weekend in Vegas and get it over with..

[dbreiden83080]

IT can be a sucky thing losing it. You don't want it to be some random hook up the first time, you'd like it to be something more. I was 17 and it was my High School sweetheart but by 25 take what you can get..

[Gutter92]

It's pretty strange, but nothing weird about it. I was 15, and more relieved than happy I lost mine.

Aww what was his name?

[Bieber Fever]

son ii just had sex wit a hawt 25 year old laydee a cupple hourz ago

ii feelz bad 4 ya showty

[HarlemHeat37]

Losing your virginity is one of the most overplayed and overanalyzed subjects IMO..

I was 14 when I lost my virginity..it was with my girlfriend at the time, so I guess it would be different with a random, but it really wasn't awkward at all..I find that people tend to really overanalyze it..

I didn't feel "relief", I didn't really think about it too much..all it does is set the wheels in motion IMO..

OP, how far have you gone, if you don't mind me asking?..

[Stringer_Bell]

If you're 25 and still a virgin, it's because you are afraid of the pussy or keep the pussy on a pedestal. Now, that's perfectly acceptable, but you need to realize that first...you aren't cut out for hooking up, that circuit never evolved in you. Instead, you need to find a nice that inspires the animal in you and makes you confident in that animal.

Tbh, any good sex you will have, at this point in your late blooming, with a girl is sex where you have a gameplan or emotional investment, and since we're dealing with wanting to lose your v-card we're going to have to think of a gameplan. So find a that inspires you, that you know is DTF, and treat her awesome and be confident and when it gets to the point where you've kissed her a few times and she seems kind of horny (note: she doesn't have to be a gf or have a le, mutual appreciation is all that is needed)...DO NOT ASK FOR SEX OR ABOUT SEX, just let the clothes come off and let it go. If you're blessed, you'll get a blowjob and can go from there. Life gets much easier after you've had your penis in a woman's mouth, let it light your way.

[z0sa]

it's quite sad.. does it mean anything? not realy. but if its not lost by 18, ya need to realize that what youre doin aint working.. you need to be more sensitive, more caring, less "realistic"..

[LoneStarState'sPride]

Losing your virginity is one of the most overplayed and overanalyzed subjects IMO..

This. Some people like the OP (assuming he's not a sock, of course) obsess way too much over the whole virginity issue. Not that big of a deal, tbh.

[Sisk]

If you're 25 and still a virgin, it's because you are afraid of the pussy or keep the pussy on a pedestal. Now, that's perfectly acceptable, but you need to realize that first...you aren't cut out for hooking up, that circuit never evolved in you. Instead, you need to find a nice that inspires the animal in you and makes you confident in that animal.

Tbh, any good sex you will have, at this point in your late blooming, with a girl is sex where you have a gameplan or emotional investment, and since we're dealing with wanting to lose your v-card we're going to have to think of a gameplan. So find a that inspires you, that you know is DTF, and treat her awesome and be confident and when it gets to the point where you've kissed her a few times and she seems kind of horny (note: she doesn't have to be a gf or have a le, mutual appreciation is all that is needed)...DO NOT ASK FOR SEX OR ABOUT SEX, just let the clothes come off and let it go. If you're blessed, you'll get a blowjob and can go from there. Life gets much easier after you've had your penis in a woman's mouth, let it light your way.

Real talk

[AussieFanKurt]

is the club just a haven for trolls

[easjer]

I think you should go for it and loose it. I lost it kind of late , a month after I turned 21. I couldn't imagine having sex in high school while I still lived with my parents. (They strongly opposed premarital sex.) Once I moved out of my parent's house, I figured that I'd loose it to the "right guy", since I've already held onto it for so long. I'm a pretty shy person, so it took me a while to find someone whom I really liked and felt comfortable with. The "right guy" turned out to be a crazy psycho, and I regretted on all the fun that I missed out in my late teens. Also, once I started to get into serious relationships in my early 20's I realized that I wasn't prepared or ready for them. If I'd gotten some experience earlier, I think my first relationships wouldn't have been as stressful or awkward. In the end, I don't think it's worth it to hold onto your virginity for too long. It's bad for your mental health. However, don't do it before you feel truely ready.

I think that's a pretty smart way to look at it. I like that at ude a lot. I don't regret my choices, but I do sometimes wish I'd had one or two short lived flings just for fun, since I can't do that now. An opportunity I missed out on.

[Jacob1983]

At this point in my life, I honestly would just like to have some amazing sex with no strings attached, no love or commitment, just straight up ing a fine woman who is clean and not bat crazy and wants to screw me for free. I have a lot of issues from past which have made me believe that maybe I'm not capable of feeling love and possibly only feeling lust. Parties are not my thing but I went to a few in college and had some interesting experiences. I didn't get to screw but got close which was nice but not enough.

[Cock-n-balls]

Jacob, it's just pussy. Go out a one. Most women just want to these days. Just play it cool, don't act like a scared and just take the pussy. You would be surprised of the women you could bang out there. Appearances are deceiving.

[HarlemHeat37]

IronMexi viewing the thread..Jacob, if you're looking for them in the 12-14 year old range, that's the guy you want advice from, TBH..

[resistanze]

This is what happens when you put the pussy on a pedestal.

[Cock-n-balls]

This is what happens when you put the pussy on a pedestal.

You got it, brother!!!

[greyforest]

At this point in my life, I honestly would just like to have some amazing sex with no strings attached, no love or commitment, just straight up ing a fine woman who is clean and not bat crazy and wants to screw me for free.

move to sweden