I guess what really pisses me off is that the little er gets rewarded for bad behavior. There just no telling how much money he has soaked my parents for. My dads too proud to admit he is being played even if he suspects it. At the same time, my daughter who is doing everything "right" is working two jobs, putting off marriage/kids because she knows she can't afford it, paying her own rent/bills to live in a modest duplex with a yard for her dog and she gets NO help at all from the grandparents...if you don't go begging you don't get . Naturally I help her some (although she is too proud to ask me either) but the fact that they just blow tens of thousands on that white trash loser piece of just because he blew a load in another white trash piece of really aggravates me. , neither my nephew or his wife work and they are driving a brand ing new Prius (because, after all they live so far out in the country that if they are going to eventually get a job they are gonna have to have a reliable car that gets good gas mileage) that clearly my parents/sister paid for. grrrrrrrrr.