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Yes, that's the plan normally. All men deny deny deny till you die, but in this case, I can't do that...;/
Tell her you thought u were ass banging her.
Yes, that's the plan normally. All men deny deny deny till you die, but in this case, I can't do that...;/
Nobody wants to talk about my closet organization?
Wow, that is a decent idea. Just say I thought it was her because I was drunk.
I don't know if I should try it though
I've been doing that in stages. Can't bring myself to get rid of it all in one fell swoop, but I definitely need to get rid of things before I consider a move.
How do I fix it then?
I am not a bad man, I didn't do this on purpose. I didn't leave the house thinking I was going to cheat on her. I really was drunk and made a mistake, I don't know WHY I did it, but I did.
If anything, if it could magically go away, it would be better, because then she can forget it and be happy again....
the truth will set you free.
say first of all honey, i was in the s back door, and that don't count as cheatin.
and second, hey, I invited you to go didn't I?
is there ANY way to fix this??? does anyone have experience with this?
anyone??
Yeah that's gutsy.
Drop the excuses and follow her lead.
Unless she's a complete doormat, which she very well may be, no woman likes to feel as if her SO's attempt to fix things is actually a desperate move to maintain his/her possession, which is what it sounds like from what you've posted. You claim you want her to be happy, but "happy" seems to actually mean not pissed off and yours. You haven't mentioned here a single quality of hers that you want to keep in your life other than the fact that she belongs to you and, again barring complete doormat status, that is something she's going to want to hear when she's ready to talk to you. She's going to have to dictate when that is, though -- you ed up, which means she gets to decide when and how she's ready to move on.
Also, drop the excuses. Completely. Even if you frame them as reasons and not excuses, let them go. Saying it wouldn't have happened if she'd only come along is about the most wrong thing you can do. Factually true? Perhaps. But it is still shifting blame. And the drunk thing doesn't work, either. Hard to believe you were sober enough to get it up, sober enough to remember what happened the next day, but not sober enough to have said no.
So you're not out of the closet yet?
You sure you weren't so drunk that you hooked up with a latino who wanted anal on the first date?
okay i'll take the bait.
clearly you don't love HER, you love the idea of being in a relationship and not having to look for sex.
where do i begin with this one........ drunk or not, you know if and when you put it in the pooper (unless this chick was just used to being double fisted or something) so stop hiding behind the drunk excuse. that may work for a kiss or something, but it takes some sort of brain power to have epic buttsecks. so your girl will never believe this. sorry.
then you go on to semi-blame her and a rant about how you hate being single, which all lead back to my first point. quite honestly it looks like you have mommy issues, (not just mami issues, get it?) what kind of "grown man" needs a girl to take care of him being drunk anyways. so my advice is to forget your new ex. you did the both of you a favor, by showing her what would have happened eventually, and showing yourself that for all your stupidity on the board of a nba team you don't even like, there is always going to be a broad on a way more stupid level who will ass-eat you no matter what. then move back in with your mom, who will take care of you regardless. if she's dead already, then find an old lady to mooch off of. you appearantly don't care where you stick your penis, so no matter how ugly she may be its a win-win.
you keep showing your true colors.
honestly, from what i have learned so far in life, if a girl is stupid enough to take you back after cheating. then she is too stupid for you and will make your life .
not only will she never trust you and you will be in lockdown worst than msnbc on a saturday night, but secretly she'll be plotting her revenge. and for all a man could do to a woman to wrong her, chicks are 32574590760439562039482785739428572340985723498573 24908573249857 times as evil. so in reality you two will never be able to trust eachother.
so unless she's cool with a open honest swinger relationship then you have no chance. do yourself a favor and move on while you can still get your pipe in the septic tank.
this would explain so much about MH.
she can't get the image of him stuffing some pedro from the real world look-a-like out of her brain.
Your biggest concern right now should be why this "little latina" wanted anal after you just met her at a party, and was cool with ing in some stranger's room. I bet HE had a , and you were just too drunk to notice he tucked it in.
No way can a man ever be so drunk that he forgets the face of his lover in the booty hole of a random person he just met. I do not wish an STD or emotional harm on you, but your girl definitely needs to drop you cuz that is inexcusable. Use it as a story to audition for the Real World or something.
Two "Real World" references in a row? Is it 1995, or something?
and i fresh princed it..........................
Give her a free card. She can one dude of her choice.
Well my GF once found out I made out with someone. I was drunk. I told my GF the truth, that she was a friend who had just lost her father and was crying. I was drunk and sympathy set in.
Now I know your case is extreme but once I let my GF know that I was "manipulated", she started to come around.
If you really want this to work out with your girl, it's going to be a looooong process. It's been a few years since my incident and I'm still repairing the damage. Good luck.
Your biggest concern right now should be why this "little latina" wanted anal after you just met her at a party, and was cool with ing in some stranger's room. I bet HE had a , and you were just too drunk to notice he tucked it in.
No way can a man ever be so drunk that he forgets the face of his lover in the booty hole of a random person he just met. I do not wish an STD or emotional harm on you, but your girl definitely needs to drop you cuz that is inexcusable. Use it as a story to audition for the Real World or something.
Huh, me thinks you hooked up with a gay latino male who wanted anal hoping you wouldn't notice his penis. Cheers.
funny that no one has heard from illuzion on this yet.
still recouping?
People sure like to blame "drinking" on a lot of things. Can't handle the drinking...then don't drink.
Actually, when she breaks in on you "traveling the Hershey Highway" with some other girl, yes, it usually does mean she should leave you.
Here's another hint: you don't have a good relationship. People who have good relationships don't do like this.
This. Stop with the excuses. You ed up. If you don't man up, it's over.
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